2012-03-29 21:18:59 on How does it feel to have someone like you?
Oh, sorry. I totally misread the question.
2012-03-29 21:16:48 on What would you do?
I think there was just a misunderstanding. You thought she had no interest in you and she took it to mean you thought she didn’t love you. There’s a difference between showing interest in someone and loving someone. Perhaps you are coming on to her too fast or too strong. Most girls like to take things slowly and not rush into anything involving strong, romantic feelings. One might say girls like to test the waters and get to know the guy well first. The worst thing you can do is try to rush someone into liking you. If you and this girl are meant to be together, then let things develop naturally. The best way to do that is to simply try to be a friend for now.
2012-03-29 20:52:29 on How does it feel to have someone like you?
How do you mean? Someone who is like me in every respect?
2012-03-29 20:42:17 on My sister is a b**ch to me
Well, I certainly don’t advise stooping to her level. After all, two wrongs do not make a right. It sounds to me like your sister is in need of help, namely mental health counseling. There is an underlying reason why she is being constantly negative and hurtful, and I doubt it’s because she is your sister and feels that there is naturally going to be animosity between two sisters. The problem is she is the only person who is harboring animosity, not you. In any case, it’s neither natural nor normal for a sister to constantly act with such malice towards their sister. Even two siblings who share a bitter animosity towards one another are friendly at certain intervals.
Naturally, you won’t be able to force your sister to seek mental health counseling. So your best bet might be to contact the police or obtain evidence of her cruel tendencies to involuntarily commit her. However, I don’t know how feasible it would be for you to commit your sister to a mental hospital where you live. But here’s something you may want to have a look at:
2012-03-29 19:47:42 on Would you kill yourself if you were in my situation?
There’s no situation too difficult or too deplorable from which I would not find the willpower to free myself. No amount of temporary difficulties and problems in my life could be so great that I would deem it necessary to take myself out of this world permanently.
It’s true, however, that life can be very unfair to us - sometimes more unfair to others. But no matter how many times life deals one a bad hand, one should never allow it to push them to the point of mistakenly thinking there are only two options: either continue to live and be miserable or remove oneself from the suffering and the possibility of experiencing happiness again. That’s the typical mindset of a person who’s miserable and wants to commit suicide - they only see two choices before them. But that’s not true because it’s essentially what is called a “false dilemma” - that is, we convince ourselves that we have to choose between two and only two mutually exclusive options. In reality there is always at least one other option.
In your case, it would be the option to live and resolve to extricate yourself from this “net of sorrow.” Happiness won’t fall out of the sky and into your lap. You have to make an earnest effort to find it. But the first and most important step is to look within yourself and “know” that you have the capacity to be happy again and tell yourself that you deserve it. It’s only after you’ve done that that you will be ready to begin your quest.
I wish you all the best. =)
2012-03-29 16:29:39 on What is responsiveness expectation of customers in service quality?
I’d assume it relates to one’s ability to reasonably determine how customers will react to the quality of service they receive. That’s the best definition I could provide while taking the question at face value and trying to give an answer in simpler terms. I couldn’t find any definitions or examples.
2012-03-29 12:31:39 on Jeb; Life is toooo hard.
[quote ☠DaNi**YoU☠][quote mills]Who is Jeb?[/quote]
you don’t know?[/quote]
Oh, that jeb. Yes, of course.
I thought there may have been another I was not aware of.
2012-03-29 12:26:18 on Jeb; Life is toooo hard.
Oh, how interesting.
2012-03-29 12:23:30 on Jeb; Life is toooo hard.
Who is Jeb?
2012-03-28 21:12:45 on Ladies, when a guy sends you 2 text messages without you replying, do you find this bad?
[quote silveryeyes]…I feel texting helps my grammar…[/quote]
Let me just say that I wasn’t trying to imply that you had bad grammar or that text messaging will inevitably render your grammar terrible. I only wished to point out that many younger people who were born into the generation when text messaging came to be widely popular become absorbed in it like a hobby and, consequently, their grammar begins to deteriorate through the use of shortcuts in their communication.
2012-03-28 20:43:54 on Ladies, when a guy sends you 2 text messages without you replying, do you find this bad?
I think Grammar Girl would disagree.
2012-03-28 20:30:41 on Ladies, when a guy sends you 2 text messages without you replying, do you find this bad?
First and foremost, I think it should be stated that “text messaging” is not exactly the most effective way to communicate. The best way form of communication is the traditional method of spoken conversation, which involves the listener hearing the speaker’s voice. Although text messaging may have its advantages, there are also many disadvantages that should be taken into account.
A few disadvantages of text messaging include the following: responses may be delayed, messages could fail to send, emotions cannot be conveyed as well as through one’s actual voice, most phones have a certain character limit for text messages, and last but certainly not least, it tends to corrupt one’s use of proper grammar.
2012-03-28 19:54:17 on closed
It’s usually the old creepy guys who we least suspect of being a generous and kind-hearted soul.
2012-03-28 19:26:47 on closed
Maybe the old creeper guy is secretly a millionaire and wanted to show you where he keeps his stash and possibly share some of it with you.
2012-03-28 16:53:03 on I got a speeding ticket for going 80 in a 40 zone today.
Good luck passing the driving test.
You’re lucky you didn’t kill or seriously hurt anybody. You should know that speed limits are established for a reason: safety. They’re not there to make you think that is the minimum speed at which to travel or to inconvenience you with a speed that isn’t fast enough for your taste.