Nightowl's shout trail with Richard cor de lyon - Help.com

easily and gratefully forgiven :)

my current “girlfriend” was raped. I put it in quotes, because she never got the help she needed. I can not live with her anymore… she is not really my girlfriend.

My ex wife was molested by her brother for 7 years… I was married to her for 13 years until she tried to commit suicide… she too never got the help she needed. Yes, we are all different… but why take the chance? I wish you well… and I wish this little girl the chance to grow up healthy and strong.

I’m sorry as well for the provocation on my part…I tend to be overly sarcastic.

I know exactly what she’s going through. And I know from experience meds can take the edge off long enough to get the real help that is needed.

I apologize for my behavior and hope you will fogive me for getting personal. But this girl is in need of real help, and she is being steered away from it. I was frustrated and lost my composer… I’m sorry.

I’m against med use unless the person is absolutely psychotic. You dont know what shes going through, she hardly seems psychotic. In my personal experience, meds make a bad situation worse, and only complicate things. Thanks for getting personal too, telling someone to kiss your ass isnt going to magically bring them around to your way of thinking.

I didn’t tell her to go get all doped up! I told her the proper procedure for getting professional help. Sometimes a med can help someone get through the roughest time. It is NEVER meant (in my opinion) to be a permanent FIX for anything. This girl is in serious trouble, and her life is going to suck unless she addresses this issue now, and addresses it with someone that understand the implications … a professional.

Now THAT is the voice of a MAN I hear. Thank you, and I’m proud of you for saying that.

I shouldn’t try to justify it. I wasn’t thinking clearly last night, it was late. Your right, I shouldn’t have given them the reasoning they needed to continue to do what they do.

Sorry to disagree with you. Someone would have cared; me. Self harm…. ritual scarification is not a healthy option. The Church did in fact perform such a thing… where the priests whipped themselves to the point of open wounds… I find that unhealthy too.

Listen, its their choice, their body. If they had used terms with less stigma like “ritual scarification” no one would have even cared.

I am appalled that you gave that poster a reference that supported self injury! You are a disgrace to the “Help” community.