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He broke up with me because I was still in my party out of control stage. The lastnight that we were together I was trying to fight a guy at a club, because of a misunderstanding. The next day he broke up with me. We laugh about it now, and I have been trying to show him how responsible I have become and that I am a better person. I am now 26, never been married. I feel there is alot of pressure on myself to make this work because he is the one, 100% positive about it. He is my best friend. When I went to visit him a few weeks ago it seemed that our feelings still existed for eachother, and we acted like we were boyfriend and girlfriend. He is going to Officer Training School to become a fighter pilot and is very focused on his career. I totally respect that and I am not asking for commitment now, just to know there is something in the future would be nice. He said he cant promise me anything, which makes me respect him even more because he is so honest. I have been looking for closer for the past 2 1/2 years but he cant seem to make up his mind with what he wants. I am going to visit him at the end of feb for 14 days, I want to show him that we can work it out, but at the same time I do not want to push the situation. I know some women that make the situation worse by trying to hard to make it all the better. I know this is long, but by your response it seemed that you understood the best about my situation. Thank you
Erika (open a new post, please so people can help you, this doesn’t belong on a who’s your favorite comedian post http://help.com/start-something)