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• Moving maybe…need advice posted (1 week) ago
  I feel like there’s not anything left for me where I’m living now. I’ve lived her…

• Anyone want to talk? posted (8 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Can’t sleep, a lot on my mind, just wondering if anyone wants to talk one on one? I’m …

• More girl confusion please advise posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Ok so in my previous posts I’ve talked about a girl that I had dated. Things fell apart betwe…

• R.I.P Heath Ledger posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  In case everyone hasn’t heard the news, actor Heath Ledger passed away today I just thought I…

• Please watch this :) posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  A bunch of people have been nice enough to offer me advice on my problems so I thought instead of m…

• Ok so… posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  People say that you need to move on when you’re sad about a relationship. But how can you? Wh…

• Oh no… posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  She’s engaged :’( To make a long story short, I met the most amazing girl, we fell in …

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Matt...'s Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Please help me.
  

  Sorry to hear that you are having life troubles :( Can you give us all more details about whats been going on in your life and whats gone wrong that way we can better help you?
  
  - written 8 months ago – voted for by fletcherloan

• (1 vote) i am totally crazy about this girl.
  

  If you ask her out at the beginning and she says no, you will probably feel miserable your entire trip and there will be a lot of awkward avoidance and such.
  
  Just try to spend time with her and talk to her throughout the trip. Sure try to sit near her if you can to talk to her. If you guys get along in a friendly way and have a good trip and she’s in a good mood and you’re happy then it will make asking her out at the end of the trip a lot easier.
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by lewis_power1

• (1 vote) FAST help me!
  

  Trial and error. If you make a decision and it’s right, you will have learned something. If you make a decision and it’s wrong, you will have learned something. If you don’t make a decision, you don’t learn anything and don’t move forward.
  
  Progress in any direction is still progress, and that requires decision-making. When people don’t make decisions society doesn’t move forward.
  
  Take Congress for example. When they make a decision, we learn something. Even if they make the wrong decision. For example, say they pass a bill approving stem cell research. We may find cures for dreaded diseases. Or we may find no cures and realize we’ve been killing babies. Either way we will have learned something. But when they screw around debating it, those embryos are still getting thrown out and we’re not learning anymore about whether or not stem cells hold the cures to diseases.
  
  Decisions = Progress. No decisions = no progress.
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by 'smile'

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• I am 24 and my life is going no where.
  

  You shouldn’t kill yourself, no matter how bad things get. I’m 22 and my life is going nowhere, but I don’t give up.
  
  I’m sure you can still make a difference in the world if you just figure out what direction you want to go. What are your problems right now?
  - written 1 week ago

• Moving maybe…need advice
  

  I know that I still have things personally I need to address that I will have to deal with anywhere I go. Even on my myspace I used to have the switchfoot quote “where can you run to escape from yourself?”.
  
  But I think it’s a combination of factors. I think moving will help give me a fresh start, and in addition I will try to change the way I am. So changing myself and my environment, hopefully giving me a new direction.
  - written 1 week ago

• what two countries were divided for 45 years and reunited
  

  I believe the answer is East and West Germany.
  - written 1 week ago

• Is it really necessary to have your wisdom teeth taken out?
  

  As far as pain goes, it’s really not too bad. I had all 4 of mine removed a few months ago. They put me to sleep cause they had to cut into my gums to get the bottom ones, but they give you plenty of painkillers and the pain only lasts a few days. For me the pain wasn’t even like debilitating or anything, just annoying, like having a bad headache. And that was mostly cause they cut open my gums. I imagine if yours have broken through it would be even less pain.
  
  If your dentist says you should then just buckle down and do it; it’s not too bad :)
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• Babysitting help..
  

  Sometimes kids just say things, cause they heard it on TV or cause they think it’s cool. Other times they really mean it. How old are they? Maybe you should let their mom know :/
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

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