rabbit's shout trail with ~Shie~ - Help.com

isnt that the way it always goes? lol… something exciting happens… and we are never there to see it for ourselves… lol… as for being pretty.. thank you… my ex husband use to tell me 7 or 8 times a day for ten years that i was ugly and nasty… so i have very low confidence in that… so that means a lot to hear people say that to me… so thank you… and yes… there are some assholes on this site just trying to cause drama… but in time hopefully, we can get them weeded out… lots of hugs..

Dang, I’m offline for four days and all heck breaks loose. I’m so worried about brokenwings, we talked on phone in the past, i’m kinda mad she didn’t call me this time. As for the hitler incident, you don’t need me to tell you, but you are very pretty. I hope that person was banned banned banned. I’m glad there are people like you here, and that the majority of us are trying to HELP here on HELP.com!!! Be well. Craig

absolutely… i added ya…

Right, right, and right! Sleep well.

I hope I can count you as a friend on here in the future.

Peace.

well, im heading off to bed… ill be on later.. probably around noon or so… night.

right… lol..

i know hun… but as for my issues and her issues… and your issues… we all have different issues so that we can all help those in need.. if we all had the same issues.. what would be the sense of being here… right?

yeah and, what can one expect from such a screen name;
dani hates you, says it all. i’m sure shes a great person, but come one. lighten up.

thanks for your support and communication tonight. i know i haven’t faced what you have faced or she has faced but i’m pretty damn close in some areas, so i am here for help, too and have learned alot from you and thank you for everything, for her and for me.
She really touches me. Why is that? how can we be so affected by words on a page, and yet, i know its a start, just like some other friends on here, there is a valid connection even if it has to be with certain boundaries based on the fact that its online.
Anyway, rest away, thanks again.

i do understand.. it is now almost 4 am.. and i need to get to bed.. i am going to be on a bit later.. i hope that she may have only taken one of those pills and is sleeping soundly right now… and will wake up and feel a bit better… i do know all too well the thoughts of suicide.. been there… myself.. and i hate to see others go through it too.. so i hope she is ok..

i applaud you for telling danihates you how it is.. because she is rude… and i wont say anything on your post so that it closed.. however.. myself and many others have had it out with her… she is a sore to this website.. and yet.. after being banned so many times.. here she is… go figure..

Me too. I agree, thats why i’m asking for a simple response. I think she did. She has to know that you have had your own experiences on here and have right to put that out there, as well as protect your heart and emotions.
She has got to know that people can’t make assumption, BUT, that does not negate our caring for her or wanting her to utilize this place and allow our advice to take her in a more positive direction, even if none of it is specifically what she wants to do, at least do something good for yourself. AUGH. This is a ripper. I hope she just gets some rest tonight and talk to me and us here about a concrete solution.

I REALLY HOPE TO GOD SHE IS OK… i hope too that she didnt really take all that med… and i hope she got my apology..

to see if they could help.. ?

have you tried the one thing you asked me about?

please… please.. relax a bit.. im sorry.. but i think i have to leave that post.. if you notice.. you and everyone else is getting upset because of trying to help.. and this person is making post after post.. and keeps inviting people every few comments… this is not something that i feel is either something that i can deal with… and that.. maybe.. just maybe… a game for attention.. by posting post after post.. and keep inviting people… they are looking for attention… its been 3 days you said… hhhmmmmmmm…

I hear you. Its just gotten under my skin. Thanks for that. I feel like something is off here, and yet, I want to honor their feelings. I just wish she would see what I see and feel, but I understand what you are saying. Thanks,

you can try to report it… however, im not sure what they can do. but it doesnt hurt to ask for help. i have to say this however… there was this girl who kept talking suicide for about 2 weeks… and no matter what i said to her… she would actually make me feel guilty. to the point in which after about 5 weeks.. she would demand me to speak to her.. and not have my own life… my boyfriend had to put her on block because i just couldnt handle it.. and she was the same way.. no matter what i said… she would always say.. well i got the knife now.. no im not doing that.. no this no that.. and continued on her trip about suicide… and then the guilt trips on me.. now im not saying that this person doesnt have an issue.. and i am feeling really sorry for them.. really i am.. but as you said.. wtf can we do?? all we can do is be there.. give them our advice and hope for the best.. the only one that can change them is them themselves… not us… sad.. but very true…

wtf can we do? I have been through this with her for at least three days, and its getting worse. She said she took 12 vicoden or something.

can the moderators do anything, should I report it? what can we do?

me?

Yeah, thats good. that person was acting messed up. Hopefully they learned a lesson and will use this site better.

just letting you know.. anon was booted.. kt1 just told me… thank god..

thank you rabbit.. it just is so upsetting.. because those who really need the help.. dont ask for it usually.. and when they do… its to get advise on things.. not to finally say.. i dont get hit.. because once you admit that you are being hit.. that means you are ready to talk to someone.. to actually seek help.. not take it back.. and play games… and it just pisses me off so bad that someone can do that to those who are trying to help… this poster is not a real abuse victim as i said.. its not a game.. those who are ready to talk.. do.. not play games.. and i have flagged this person.. because this drama has so much emotion in my life.. when thrown back at me to look stupid.. i know. i have you as a friend.. and i thank you.. at the moment.. im going to take off for a few.. and try to calm down.. as im very upset at the moment.. but ill be back later… thanks.. for the shout.

WTF!!!! was that anon bs post about???? I am sorry you were put throught that. Unbelievable. Count me as a friend anytime.

thank you rabbit… hugs… ~smile~ most of my comments on posts are from my own life expierences… and i try to shed light on others posts to let them know what to expect from what has happened as i have lived it already… but, yeah.. ill check it out… thanks..

lil_bit_shi, i really like what you have to say on this site. thought i would let you know, and also, if you had a chance, if you would post something on my two posts.

Hope all is well.

Peace