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you wont be alone trust me… look, what doesn;t kill you will only make you stronger, and who know’s maybe this baby will do a lot of good in your life.. i mean although this is probably not the same but im a single mother of 1 and im 23 years old but i figured like this if his father wanted to be in his life he would but now he’s missing out on a lot of wonderful things. like the twinkle in your baby’s eyes everytime he looks up at you and smiles… my baby is 8 months old and is doing a lot and changed my life for the better.. not only that but hes gorgeous. know that if you rman decieds to leave for any reason you will have all the power and that is when you know that he wasn’t worth it from the start and should be nothing to get sad about. do what you gotta do mamita

what would he be liying to you about

i feel that the only reason why the people you live with will say something so terrible like that is because in there own little twisted way they are trying to help you from gettin pregnant.. how many times do you hear about baby’s having baby’s. I guess they dont want to see you suffering or struggling but regarldess you are going to do what you want and every actions has it’s consequences but honestly i dont think they will be harsh enough to do something like that but just in case they are some screwed of ***** that would kick you out there is help for you… again, dont be afraid to open your mouth

Alycia just understand one thing… if your man really loved and cared about you he will do what he had to do to protect you in any way possible no matter what the situation maybe figure out whats more important in your life… do you want to keep the baby do you want to give it up… if you decide to give it up you can choose a family for it… it will be hard but so will having an abortion. there are people out there that would love to have kids but for 1 reason or another are unable to have.. you may be able to bring joy to someones life.

I never said for her to kill it just cause he said i said that he has some say in it because it’s her baby… so she can at least sit down with him and talk to him about another option

You cant really say its her choice because although it’s her body it’s there baby.. (anonymous) —>You may not be down for abortions and thats fine but you need to sit down with the baby’s father and compromise with him about what you need to do… figure out the best solutio. my advice to you is talk to your parents about it and see what they are willing to do for you if they are willing to stick by you and help you and you don’t want to give the baby up then at least you’ll know that you’ll have some support but be aware that whatever decision you make could have some kind of consequences behind it.. Definetly open your mouth, hey you never know what can happen

you know what cutting yourself is never an answer. people will always be ignorant, it’s your job wether you want to feed into their stupidity or not. you have to be strong and stand against all of them. can’t nobody tell you who you can and cannot love. you don’t need people like that in your life. if you have the love of a good woman in your life than thats all you need.

beat her mother fu(k!ng ***… sorry that is some **** i would do. let me tell you something if you have trust in your man then you have nothing to worry about. he tells her that he doesn’t want to be with her than trust him.. all you need to do is play your position and you have nothing to worry about. mama let me tell you something. i know exactly what your going through cause i’m going through it myself. i have been with my man for 2 years and he has this ex that is all up on his ****… he doesn’t want to be with her either. this chick know’s about me and know’s that we’re together she knows that were about to get married and everything and he tells her all the time that sh!t between them is done. they don’t have kids together so they have no reason to communicate. i trust my man and i have faith in him. i play my position all day everyday and show him everyday that i love him, and he know’s that. he know’s how much i hate his ex smutt and knows how much i want to beat her a$$ but i know that i dont have to get my hands dirty on that b!tch because my love to him is golden. you do the same. show him more and more that you love him. show him that your the one for him and you won’t have to worry about nothing. he already told that b!tch that he don’t want her than you have nothing to worry about. just be his queen and stick by him through good and bad times and your good mama

what i want to know is what is your boyfriend doing to help the situation. it seem like with all the crap thats going on, he’s not doing anything to defend you. your boyfriends parents seems like a couple of 2-face pricks and i wouldn’t give them the satisfaction, and your boyfriend if he cares and loves you the way you think should be able to stand up and say to his parents that what he’s doing isn’t right. you know what though if you want to talk to his parents, do it. ask them straight out what is it that you done for them not to like you? i honestly think that if you feel that uncomfortable in their home you should leave, and if your boyfriend is nopt willing to help you out you should leave him.

let me ask you a stupid question, do you have a washer and dryer in your home to ash your clothes, or do you go to the laundromat? the reason why i ask such a question is becasue if you go to a lundromat what you should do is get some bags of clothes prepared as if yoru going to the laundromat and break out. go to the police station and tell them your situation and tell them that you want out or if you don’t want to do that see if you have family or friends that you can go to. your best bet is to get the police involved cause you never know what this man is capable of doing. then again you do. you already said that this fool tried killing you once. let me have your man for a week and see if he would try some bullsh!t like that again. i’ll crack that ni99a’s jaw wide open and break his finger’s he won’t he’ll think twice before hitten you or your kids again, but becasue i can’t get to where your at that won’t help much but for real get the police involved before it’s 2 late

oh yeah so what is true love. you might think you know, but your 2 young to actually undertand the consempt of true love. if your sitten there calling him all the time and he dosen’t, then he’s avoiding you. what he can’t return your call ack. open your eyes mama.

i think this guy is confused and doesn’t know what he wants. he has broken up with you 2 many times for 1 stupid reason. although he says it’s because the two of you don’t hang out enough outside of school there could be another reason. if that was the case the to of you would be able to make time to hang out. if you want to talk to him go ahwad, see what he has to say but remember the ball is in your hands and nobody elses. I’m in almost the same siuation that you are. I have been with this guy for 2 years and although are situation is a lil complicated to understand we love eachother with all our hearts and even though people don’t want us together we are going to do us reguardless because he treats me good. I’m the apple of his eye and he is my world. so you do what is right in your heart. people see you happy and will only bring you down. when people around you are miserable they will try everything to make you miserable and thats probably why your friends don’t like him, then again this dude broke up with you 4 times for no good reason, so i could understand why your friends don’t like him. but always remember it’s about you and nobody else. do what you feel is right in your heart. GOOD LUCK AND ENJOY

truth be told, thats is one dumb question and i think you know the answer to that. why would you even ask something like that. Let me ask you this. How much do you love your life. Are you willing to risk everything for 5 minutes of high?

i honestly can’t stand guys like that and word as bond dude will get what he deserves

lol…. sounds like a plan