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sure what is it?

yeah I didn’t report it on purpose. my boyfriend got so upset that he told his mom and she is obligated to tell. and I am glad that you do that with her , but I honestly think that you should have someone that you can talk about that with too.

to go through something like that and keep going and not shut down , you are. That is what my therapist told me.

REPORT THAT WOMAN

omg… I would of tweaked. I had to switch therapist a while back too , because she just wasn’t helping. I hope you told her off.

giving them the benefit of the doubt . they probably know how strong you really are and is pushing you to prove them wrong when they say that.

yeah well just because they got a fancy piece of paper of some kinda plaque doesn’t mean that they are exactly the smartest people. especially because I have been in therapy since I was a kid and I always been able to see past all the psycho babble crap.

yeah but I didn’t always have him. and it was really hard without him. I used to do drugs and I was constantly screwing up my life. but as far as cutting I still stopped it without out him once. without all the support and prety much living on my own without anyone. I truly believe that you are a strong person and you can stop cutting.

yeah if you like him enough and he likes you enough go for it and who cares what your ex thinks.

see that is where I guess I am lucky. I have my boyfriend who was the first person that I ever told and he believes me and constantly supports and helps me through everything with my family.

don’t worry about. I’ll get over it.

omg that must of been horrible.

I completely trusted him and he waited til my mom went downstate of a trip and did it. and when he would fight with me my mom always sat there and watched. so I know what it is like to have no one do anything. I even reported and the cops and DHS dropped it because I couldn’t talk about. So no one believes me and my entire family just thinks I am a hurtful liar.

holy . yeah I know how that is. My step-dad did that to me. and no one believes me. and I can’t even talk about it with my therapist.

what about this summer?

flashback of what?

don’t be. she made her decision and I have learned to live with it.