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• hi I am 30 years old and with 3 kids.
  

  I thought about things and I am not going to give up just yet. I love him and my kids and I will not give up. I am going to look into a small group study at one of the local churches. I can only live by example. I will know when to walk away. I just don’t think it is now. Thanks for all your replies. You all are awesome!!!
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• hi I am 30 years old and with 3 kids.
  

  Yes I have told him about my feelings but either he disreguards them or truely doesn’t understand. We communicate. Maybe my approach has become a bit more agressive but I get tired of the same conversation over and over. What is the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over expecting a different outcome. Fancy it up anyway with a different approach or whatever it is still the same message. I thought about the duck in a row thing and I have a few ideas. I know initially if this thing goes bad I am a strong enough person to pull through and suceed. I keep thinking I am doing this alone anyways why not just make so I am not having the expectations and know I can only rely on me. I was a single mother for 10 years with my son. Now I have the two little ones and it is scary. Right now I am just not talking to him. He doesn’t come home till sun. he has made a poor attempt on text messaging me trying to get me to respond but I just tell him you know my number if you want to talk. I am not chasing him right now. I am not giving him the attention. I really wish he would just grow up or get out. I don’t think he was ready for marriage number two. I don’t think he is in the frame of mind he needs to be in. So do I wait for him to grow up or just move on. Right now I am stagnet.
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• hi I am 30 years old and with 3 kids.
  

  no, my daughters two and adores her dad. She like glue when he his home. my 10 month old is 50/50 he knows who he is. my 13 year is indifferent, he just wants me to be happy.If I left the change in their routine would confuse them. If I leave I want to make sure it is done so there is no back and forth.
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• At the moment I am doing a contract in the U.K.
  

  it removed your email address. Well as far as the holiday thing I know how you feel it is definatley hard to enjoy yourself when the person you want to share it with is so far away. It can make things extremly lonely. but if you just hold tight to the greater goal and know that she is waiting fully supporting you in your job opportunity that is a gift in itself to have someone there with you through it all. Merry Christmas to you and your family. I have to go to sleep now I have to be at work in the morning and the kids get up early.
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

• At the moment I am doing a contract in the U.K.
  

  has she been to london before? and what part of the US?
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago

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