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I’m in agreement with that one

Thanks

Don’t bother with him and move on there’s plently of others out there waiting for you.

Yeah and me wow we should start up a club :)

As i said… once you’ve accepted your sexuality i reckon things will improve.

You may not like the idea but i would recommend seeing a councillor/therapist. I used to be very low and negative myself and this was the only thing that helped me. Also i found that if i had pent up emotions it would help to write them down in a book or draw - anything to release the negativity.

Thats a really hard situation to be in, i’ve been there myself. If i’ve learnt anything it’s that you should grab the moment if it presents itself, be patient in the mean time and don’t give up always be there and show that you care about her. Flirting is always good. Just assess each situation you are in and if it feels right to say it then do so.

No worries let me know how it goes

Anyways i think that once you’ve accepted your sexuality whatever that may be you probably won’t get into fights as much, it’s the whole defensive denial thing. Just give it time. Good luck.

If it’s love you shouldn’t have to prove anything. I know thats not really the answer that you’re looking for lol

Look it’s getting to you and you shouldn’t be in that situation. You shouldn’t have to go on the internet and get advice from strangers. You need to put a stop to it otherwise you’ll end up a wreck!

It was only when i started associating with gay people that i realised i was that way inclined. It’s not that they were influencing me it was that it was finally acceptable and i hadn’t even considered until that point that iwas that way inclined. Actually i was a bit anti. It was like it told my subconscious that it was ok even though i didn’t know my subconscious felt that way.

Whatever you do decide hurry up or you’ll lose both of them.

So you have feelings for this girl?

And you are in the process of working out your sexuality?