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• I know this is really stupid, but right now I feel lonely. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  It’s completely ridiculous, but, for the past seven months I’ve lived in Germany, which…

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• (1 vote) I really love this guy.
  

  First of all, there is no reason to demean yourself by making rude comments about an overweight boy, especially when it is to impress a guy. That is just sad. And it does not reflect favourably on you.
  
  Secondly, little notes in lockers is not a way to impress someone. Do you actually really know him? Not as just, “that cute guy in my class”, but know him as an actual person? As a friend? Your friend should never have given him that note in the first place, with or without your permission. It’s rude. If you insist on doing the juvenile “writing letters in lockers” thing, then you should have had the decency to do it yourself. And there is no way that there should have been anything like “hey lilly has been looking for a bf” on there. That made it seem like you weren’t looking for him in particular, but a boyfriend in general. If someone wrote a letter like that to you, without knowing you first, and stating that they just wanted any kind of girlfriend, as long as they had the social status of being in a relationship, how would that honestly make you feel?
  
  It would make me feel like total ****, and I would slap the guy in the face the next time I saw him, particularly if he was lazy enough not to write the letter himself and just got his friend to do it.
  
  In all honesty, I’m not surprised at all he is ignoring you. You are hardly showing him the kind of person he would find attractive. Why should he bother paying you any attention, when you have acted so immaturely?
  
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by partlythere

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• (Places).
  

  Ohhh, I like.
  
  Prettyful. :)
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I don’t know what’s wrong with me.
  

  I can understand that. But they need to know in order to be able to help you. This is an important issue, and it’s effecting your health.
  
  You need to tell them, and you must seek professional help. And it will be hard, but it will be all worth it in the end. :)
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I don’t know what’s wrong with me.
  

  I do agree with mills and Roltz. You aren’t insane, but you do need to seek some psychiatric help which will ease the clutter you are feeling right now. You could be schizophrenic, or have multiple personality disorder, it’s impossible for any of us to know for sure, but you NEED to see a professional in order to be properly diagnosed.
  
  They will be able to give you answers, and they will be able to help.
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• My wife always blame me for her miseries…I want
  

  Is you or your wife in counselling? She could be suffering from a form of depression, and if so, she should seek medical help.
  
  Don’t make any hasty decisions. You might need someone else to help you think things through.
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

• I really love this guy.
  

  First of all, there is no reason to demean yourself by making rude comments about an overweight boy, especially when it is to impress a guy. That is just sad. And it does not reflect favourably on you.
  
  Secondly, little notes in lockers is not a way to impress someone. Do you actually really know him? Not as just, “that cute guy in my class”, but know him as an actual person? As a friend? Your friend should never have given him that note in the first place, with or without your permission. It’s rude. If you insist on doing the juvenile “writing letters in lockers” thing, then you should have had the decency to do it yourself. And there is no way that there should have been anything like “hey lilly has been looking for a bf” on there. That made it seem like you weren’t looking for him in particular, but a boyfriend in general. If someone wrote a letter like that to you, without knowing you first, and stating that they just wanted any kind of girlfriend, as long as they had the social status of being in a relationship, how would that honestly make you feel?
  
  It would make me feel like total ****, and I would slap the guy in the face the next time I saw him, particularly if he was lazy enough not to write the letter himself and just got his friend to do it.
  
  In all honesty, I’m not surprised at all he is ignoring you. You are hardly showing him the kind of person he would find attractive. Why should he bother paying you any attention, when you have acted so immaturely?
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago

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