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Thanks Valentino. I appreciate the comfort. And what’s the problem giving out personal info Xeno? Just trying to let people know I’m not here scaming and if someone wants to steel my identity, they can have it.

Thank you for your replies. Much appreciated.

alright than, just wanted to confirm with a female. After being with my ex for 12 years and thinking you did all the right things. You start second guessing yourself in other relationships.

I am not a dog, a player or a liar. There are some men out there who have morals.
And women do lie aswell for the record. If you look hard enough you will find a man just like me.

thanks buddy, but i need to hear it from a woman

We’ve been dating for almost 9 month’s, and we both come out of marriages where we loved our partners and promised eachother we wouldn’t use the L word, but I can’t help it and I don’t know when it would be the best time and I think she’s waiting for me to say it first cause I can see it in her eyes that she feels the same way.

18? I think she did you a favor. Your still to young to get caught up in love. Take it from a guy who met his wife when he was 17 got married with her when he was 25 and seperated when he 29. I was still in love with her, but she didn’t love me back. Yes I cried and was depressed for a couple of month’s, but I learned quick to control my feelings. Why waste my time with someone who doesn’t want to be with. I converted depression to passion on finding new love and happiness. Never thought I could find someone like my ex, but I was wrong. There’s always something better out there and don’t let anyone tell you any different

I have got pretty fit from Billy Blanks Boot Camp Advanced. Theres push ups, sit ups and cardio. All u need for a total body workout. Good luck, it’s a tough workout, but it works.

thank you all for your help.

I have tried to get a better job Raver, but not easy to replace the income I’m making right now. I work in construction and in Canada. Not sure what construction workers make in the US, but we do really well here. I am looking for ways to get a consolidation loan if there is any with bad credit, but really good income

Could u let me know if you find any help cause i’m in a similar situation.

The one that really hit home for me was My Life. Cried for the last 30 min of the movie.

thank you for your replies, but they don’t help. I have financial troubles nothing more. I got over my wife, and the only thing that kept me from jumping off a bridge is my daughter. Second or third job is not an opption when you work 70 to 80 hours a week. Body needs rest especially for what I do.

i think it’s normal for everyone to be afraid of sex and the opposite sex. It comes with the insecuities we feel. Is he or she gonna think I’m lousy in bed. Am I good looking enough, am I buff enough. Just be yourself when your around the opposite sex and be honest if you get into a sexual relationship. Tell them it’s your first time so they don’t expect more. Sex is an amazing thing especially if it’s with someone you love. You can’t be expected to know everything about sex cause every individual is different about there needs. When you find someone you like or love you will learn together about what eachother likes in the bedroom and it’s fun in the process. Like I said it’s normal to be afraid, but don’t let it prevent you from doing the fun pleasures in life. Go with the flow.

go with the one that pays attention to you. Men have short attention spans if there only interested in one thing they don’t hear a thing your saying, but if they really like you they will listen to everything you have to say. Put them both to the test. Talk about something really boring to both of them and then bring it up the next day. See if they remember a single word you said about your boring topic.
Example: My friend Rita moved to BC and is working in a cole mine with all men and gets paid half their salary. Next day tell him your friend Rita sent you a post card. If they both ask whos Rita, move on to someone else.