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• To 17 and anonomous who is suicidal… posted (2 years, 4 months) ago
  You wanted someone to say something other than don’t do it… Okay… Here goes. …

• Keep up the good fight! posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
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• Helping others is what I do. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  It’s all I know how to do, and I feel your frustration honestly I do. Some people will tell me…

• Hi everyone. posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  What is the definintion of help? And if you could find help that you needed, would you invest mone…

• This week is suicide awareness week. posted (2 years, 8 months) ago
  Have you had someone you love die at the cost of suicide? Are you contemplating suicide? Are you…

• Have you ever just had one of those days? posted (3 years, 2 months) ago
  ??? When things have been bad, the’ve been really baaad, and when they are good, they are ext…

• Question: If someone is suicidal, then why close their post? posted (3 years, 3 months) ago
  It’s not their fault that the responders are so cheeky as to assume that they are not being r…

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srnityblu's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (4 votes) I lost my 3 month old daughter 8 months ago.
  

  Hello, your daughter is in a good safe place now. You have an opportunity when the pain is gone to be a legacy to her and those that loved her.
  
  Her life was not in vain. She brought love into your life and showed you what it is like to be a mother. Through her eyes she showed you a love and a trust and a bond that no one can take from you.
  
  Take those memories and allow them to heal you. Perhaps when you are ready you can share your love lost with other parents who are going through what you are. Maybe you can be a support for someone who has no one after loosing thier child. Your life is meant to be lived and has not reached its full purpose yet. You are a light shining brightly for someone else you have not met yet.
  You have discovered love, and now you have to release it, let it go and share it. This death was not personal, although you personally have been involved and you feel it’s grip on your life.
  There are people who need you and who need your help to get through this loss. Please do not feel like you now have no reason to live. You lived before she came along, and now that she has come into your life, she passed on some wonderful traits and she opened your heart up where it had never been open to such possiblity before. Now that she opened up the door, it has to remain open to other forms of love, and other possiblities of love. Perhaps when the timing is right, you will become a mother again… You are loved in so many ways, and loss is hard to bear, but you will get through this. Don’t close yourself to potential, when you have been blessed by it.
  Many people do not get the chance to learn and discover what love is, I know myself If I had the opportunity to have a child again, the second chance I would cherish with every fibre of my being… ( I have been given that chance and it’s one I have not regretted)
  God Bless, and stay strong… just take each day as it comes… I’m here if you need to chat.
  
  - written 4 years, 8 months ago – voted for by Left, Devil_on_Earth, ~Grace~, jetmoose

• (3 votes) I was talking to a lady who’s a stripper.
  

  Well, it’s a sad state of affairs, but the moral compass line isn’t the same for everyone…hmmmm, this is sad but this is a situation where LIFE is going to be the teacher-
  
  It’s hard because one standing on the outside can see drastic changes and pitfalls, but to the one’s living the life, they can’t see it. We all have to make our own mistakes and as much as we’d like to intervene… as a parent I can say that this sort of teaching, does the opposite effect to their relationship and the mother will regret allowing her child to become aware of this lifestyle.
  
  I have to say - if I may be so bold, that this young girl is lacking something she doesn’t even know she needs. A daddy- a father figure, and a ‘john’ will never fill that role. I think this is more than just learning how to pole dance… and it isn’t a way to bond or relate to a child, but without getting too deep here into the dicochotomy of it all… if you don’t condone the behavior then it would be best to stay away from the situation as best as you can if you can help it.
  
  - written 3 years, 4 months ago – voted for by 9mmWolf, Pepper Jelly, Pepper Jelly

• (2 votes) Who here actually truly cares?
  

  Hello, I care about people, I help those are hurting in ways that I know how to do. It is who I am, I can’t stop being me. Some may take me as a sucker, but that’s okay, they are not me, and I’m not here to judge because if I were, then my help wouldn’t be from my heart.
  
  I understand how frustrated you are, but as much as the world as a whole may look like it doesn’t give a rat’s a$$ about anyone, you have to know there are a few among many crowds who haven’t given up hope… help is still out there… keep searching until you find it.
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by Eurobound!, yassengregorovich

• (2 votes) Became a christian a few weeks ago.
  

  Hello, wow, yes this is a natural occurance. Someone once said to me that the euphoria and excitement you feel is like being at the top of the tallest mountain. Once you begin the climb downward, the euphoria and excitement passes, and when you are at the foot of the mountain, you feel sad, alone, sometimes even afraid because the feelings were so strong, and now that they are missing, you may question your faith, or what just happened.
  
  I’ve been there. Now that you have professed with your mouth that was in your heart, you need to begin to learn about God and His Son Jesus Christ and it would be beneficial for you to find some mentors, and surround yourself with like minded people.
  
  Here are some online FREE e-reads to get you started.
  
  http://courageupontherock.bravehost.com/books.html
  
  http://courageupontherock.bravehost.com/studies.html
  
  If you ever need to talk or want to fellowship, I’m just a shout away.
  
  God Bless you on your endevours!
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by DarkSnow, CallingAllAngels

• (2 votes) I am a christian who recentley came very close to death and experienced NOTHING….I am seriously questioning my faith and thoughts.
  

  What kind of questions do you have?
  
  I am a believer and came close to death on more than one occassion, I didn’t feel anything either… so what are you looking for, were you expecting to find Jesus, and have some proof of your faith? Or have an epiphany? Sorry friend, God works in His timing and He works in the details and the fact alone that you are ALIVE is a testament to His glory and saving grace!
  
  HUGS!
  
  - written 2 years, 8 months ago – voted for by SassyPink4U, . . .

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• Husband lost job in 2010,also got a dui in that year,we
  

  Hello, please send me a shout and let’s talk.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• Please Pray for my friend Kelsey Lee Hanley
  

  I am sorry for your loss… thank you for doing all you could, prayers are the best thing and sometimes prayer is the only thing. Your prayers were answered. She has not been forgotten, to rally for her cause in such a way takes such a huge heart.
  
  She’s in a better place, as much as you know that, that doesn’t take away your pain, your loss and your sorrow. Her life was a gift because she left heart prints on the stepping stones of life she led you through. Your love remains and that is the light that will guide you through the grief. Her light shines through you! God Bless you!!!!!!!!
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• hello i am a single mother seeking help to come out of a financial problem i am in.
  

  Hi send me a shout… let’s talk!
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago

• I would like to kill myself but I’m not really
  

  Why do you want to die? In order to survive this life, you have to become a bit more self reliant. What in your life needs to change? maybe sit down and write a list of what is good and what is wrong in your life and begin taking steps to change what you want to see improved.
  
  There is a myth among those who are depressed and who are thinking of suicide and that is that ‘nothing good ever happens to me’ This is an extreme exageration, and although maybe one cannot see the good in one’s life, it is there, it is up to you to look for it and grab hold of it.
  
  What little things cause you to smile? What little things bring you peace, and enjoyment? Many people assume that they have to surround themselves with friends, a social life and things, but the truth is, no one will get you to where you want to go. There’s a saying in the business world ” If its gonna be it’s up to me.” This means that YOU are the catalyst in what happens to you, good or bad and I know you are going to say you didn’t ask for this life, you didn’t ask for the pain that comes to- you didn’t ask for people to hurt you and treat you like crap… yes I know but you don’t have to let the poison of what they do effect you. You will always have a choice and no matter what others do to you- belittle you, bully you, cause you pain and reject you, no matter what you feel inside you do not have to let it over power you and take away the good that makes you you.
  
  Negative thinking is caustic to one’s character, and normally when someone else feels the need to punctuate your ego with a sideswipe or slap with their own venemous words, it means that they themselves are hurting inside and need to feel better about themselves by bringing someone else down that they feel is -perhaps more than what they feel they are.
  
  Negative words act as the poison that exasberates negative thinking and before you know it you are a walking zombie of sorts, neglecting to see the beauty in life.
  
  Positive thinking is the ability to allow negative words run off your back like water off a duck. With positive knowledge through belief in who you are allows your heart not to become weighted down with other people’s negative perceptions of you.
  
  I understand that this is easier said than done and you may not know what the heck I’m talking about… but friend, begin by looking at yourself in the mirror and looking you straight in the eye and telling yourself that you are somebody! You are worthy of this life just as anyone else and no one is more special than you! You may have an inability to do something but that’s not because you haven’t had the opportunity to try! You are valuable, you are bright, funny and smart, and you need to STOP comparing yourself to OTHERS, not all of us can be rocket scientists, or discover how to split the atom. Some peope have settled with inventing the lightbulb and silly putty, the plastic on the end of shoe laces so they don’t fray, even the paperclip… What do you want to do? Seriously who do you want to become? Because this life will get you there if you allow yourself to soar on her wings and how you do that is to let life teach you, and you allow yourself to become a good student. I’m around if you ever want to talk! HUGS!
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I’m getting MARRIED!
  

  Hello, Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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