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IVE sent the following 2 times and it wont go through.; maybe will here.argh;; maybe you can help me, i think i was being selfish. Im convinced hes in a hospital. let me explain. hes had 4 heartattacks B4 and forget ful B/c of them. the thing is I dont think his mother will be of any help. i called once B4 to see if he was ok after his trip to her house and she lied saying he wasnt there when i heard him in the background say’ tell her im fine. that was 4 days ago. I think she , like others dont like the idea hes in a relationship so soon after his wife died, she was had MS or something similar, i forget, and her last 5 yrs there was no real relationship. NOw its a matter of finding out which hospital ,which im working on and calling her this morning. its appr. 300 miles away and just the phone calls ( to the hospital ) are stressful for me, let alone if i need to get on a bus, i have a hard time getting on a local bus to the neighboring city ( anxiety). I feel so helpless in all this. even if you can’t help me in some way i appreciate you being here for me. Thanks for listening. it helped to just get this out.

i just seen your reply to my last’impatient’ post so you can just ignore my new invite or just send hugs , i need lots of comfort

well shannon i wanted to discuss some things wid u well i am quite better and feel more grown up but still there are small things i’d like to discuss with u .just recently i became so depressed i myself don’t know why and then i let myself cry coz i thought it was no point supressing those feeling ,i had an exam the next day but still i cried the whole day and even while studying i kept crying i just coudn’t control myself.i felt that life is goin far away from me and it was avery scary feeling .and then after crying so much i felt better my exam went on well.i was just at the verge of forgetting that boy .BUT that very day he came in my school bus (as it was a common bus that day thats yesterday)i did not talk or anything but i donno i did not like him around i felt horrible and well i want to tell u wat happened further ,i have exams goin on and that i’ll tell u wen were online together .i am getting very puzzled and irratated .plz continue to keep me in ur prayers plzzzz i need prayers and only prayers

hi shannon when do u come online?

Angels are ever all around us
And with love they do surround us.
When my heart is sore in need
The Angels come, my soul to feed.
They come to me from up above
and sing in whispers of Love.
When in my heart I feel a tug
I know that it’s an Angel’s hug.

~ author unknown ~

A post you may like
http://help.com/post/197756-lifes-recipe

i also scored pretty good marks until last year and i am also scoring good in bio and chem ,not physics.mama says that when without studying at all u can score so much that u can surely score much much more better marks if u study hard .i know God has given me brains 4 a purpose and i will make fruitful use of it and not use it actaully not waste it on baseless stuff .goto go and study with a fresh and open mind.i will surely keep u in my prayers and please keep me in ur prayers as well love abacus :)

u know i want to top in my medical exams and being a good student(i was until i totally (2yrs ago)went into thinking about this guy )see coz 6 yrs i thought of him but the past 1′half 2yrs i was thinking of only him ) i know i can do it if i remain determined and consistent. so u think i should 4 get that i ever liked someone that will be good 4 me i guess wat do u say?

well shannon i just wish that i could know all that u said in the post earlier.its so true that we shouldn’t give love untill its time .u know i was never aware of this .but thinking of this guy 24*7for the past 6 yrs has ruined many of my other much more important and much more realistic dreams and goals.so many things that i could easily achieve i couldn’t coz i was unnecessarily pondering over something so vague ,really .shannon u opened my eyes .i don’t know how to thank u .

hi shannon thanks alot seriously ur words are really comforting .:)i am trying to see life differently it might take time but i probaly will suceed thabks again

Hey, BTW- did you know theres a user here with the name Pshaw? I hadn’t heard that since I was a kid. lol

Funny and a beautiful soul too :)

Hi Sweetie and {{BIG HUGS}} to you too :D I got your e-mail.thanks for taking the time and effort, I appreciate it. Yes, I love and trust my therapist.Shes wonderful. I have kinda a phone phobia but I will call the doc or her right now.All you said makes perfect sense, I knew it would :) Bless you,Kim

I saw in your profile you write children’s stories. I am a teacher this year will teach grade 2 students. I would love to know some of your books. Did you publish any?

:D I am enjoying this site SO much. I’m completely addicted to it.
You are so friendly! I love it! :D

I thought only moderators or the Poster could close a post.
You can imagine what I thought after I mistakingly “found out” it was you that made the post - I thought “oh that poor Christian lady, asking that question and no one, including myself, taking her seriously”.
That’s why I shouted you so delicately about the matter.
But I was wrong! lol
Sorry for the inconvenience. I’m fairly new here and still learning.
I know about the pedophiles here as I’ve worked to fight that situation myself.
Thanks for replying to my shout.

Hello Srnity.
Since I was the only one that replied in “that” post, I was the only one alerted when you closed it so I feel it’s safe to send you this shout.
Now that I know it was you that was asking the question, I’d like to extend the offer of talking with you about it through email (much more private for such matters).
If you’re interested, just send me a shout.
I’d be happy to explain the process for you.
Sincerely,
Chameleon

Johnny Ray Ryder Jr

A Simple Hug

There’s something in a simple hug
That always warms the heart;
It welcomes us back home
And makes it easier to part

A hug’s a way to share the joy
And sad times we go through,
Or just a way for friends to say
They like you ’cause you’re you

Hugs are meant for anyone
For whom we really care,
From your grandma to your neighbor,
Or a cuddly teddy bear

A hug is an amazing thing -
It’s just the perfect way
To show the love we’re feeling
But can’t find the words to say

It’s funny how a little hug
Makes everyone feel good;
In every place and type,
It’s always understood

And hugs don’t need new equipment,
Special batteries or parts
Just open up your arms
And open up your hearts

Thank you for addressing that. I always miss the trees for the forest…or is it the other way around? Oh well, thanks.

hey. i really appreciate you helpin me by tlkn about God. that really helped me. that inspired me to want to do good. and it showed me that even if im not perfect and make bad choices, i can still find God for help.

Hi hope everything is well with you and your family.

Wow! I just had a few cookies,lol.A coincidence? I think not.lol. Have a super day sweetie, I think I’m off to bed :)

Hi, I’m sorry you had to go through that with your kids.I know that would have been a nightmare if I had to endure it. I count my blessings now.thanks for putting it out there lil bit- what you said about ‘posession’ for lil bit.It crossed my mind but I didn’t know how to put it gently so I held my tongue,I also Thank God for such tremendous tenderness in you :) NNTR

Blu, your constant defense of the faith and encouragement have been an inspiration to me. In a world full of discouragement God’s light unmistakably shines through you. Thank you.

Hi! I really appreciate you coming to my and Skye’s rescue.You always go above and beyond and for that your a true Gem of a person :D Bless you and your family.

Oh hello, sorry bout that, I have added you too! Have a good one!

I added you did you accept me?

sure it would be great if we chat :)

Oh I see that is bad :O
I hope he has been reported.

Did the child give their age, does the older person knew their age?
If it is yes then if anything sexual for referred to the child then it is a criminal offence and they can be reported to the police for their actions.
It is called grooming when an adult goes into conversation with a child knowing their age and still being or using sexual terms.
This person should be banned from this site.
As I am not the one who saw this I cannot get involved but I would advice you to get a mod in asap to sort banning this person and also for the mod to send the IP address to the relevent people along with any chat logs to confirm what has happened.

Let him rant but yes you are right - if I had a 14 year old daughter he wouldnt be within 50 miles of her. There you go - it’s all done now. Dont think they counted on me copying the shout trail as they tried to get it off the page. It will remain on my computer forever - lest he forgets. Thanks for the shout - it was getting a bit lonely being in my shoes this week. Now people know why I did it - Mas

Read the bit about restricting the airflow and tell me he was jusr foolin’ with little 14 year old Kassee - dress it up how you like but I’m being damned for reporting him but I’d have felt much worse if I hadnt - Mas very serene

And with him doing nothing wrong and all of these naysayers creeping around - I’m suprised you sleep

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
23 hours, 25 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

Right, I had best go to bed I guess. I’m not tired though. I’m considering staying up all night so that by tomorrow evening I’m tired enough to sleep properly. Hmm. Anyway, night!

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
23 hours, 44 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

That doesn’t surprise me with all things considered!

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
23 hours, 46 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

Yeah. It does. So what, like he lays on top of you and simulates sex? Or you straddle him and rub your clit on him? Or both?

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
23 hours, 49 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

Am I trashed or stoned?! No. I’m a bit sleepy. It is like 4AM. But come one Kase, if undoing your shirt is too much…no, if taking HIS shirt off is too much then I’m surprised you get as far as tongue kissing!

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
23 hours, 54 minutes ago, ShoutTrail

Maybe I’m not the right person to speak to about this! I have some wierd appetites that disgust most people. For example, I like feet and watching masturbation. Combine the two and I’m happy. Throw an orange for the lady to unpeel with her feet then all the better. I’ve also never been with a woman without getting her butt involved. It’s my thing I guess.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

If you’re having sex and your partner holds your throat to restrict your airflow then your orgasm becomes more intense. It can be dangerous though if you get too carried away. And by sex I mean vaginal sex with clitoral stimulation. Hmm, I’m pretty perverse aren’t I? Well, why stop now! Pee on him too!

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

It’s like porno for The Cosby kids. It’s a bit tame to be a sex story. I also can’t see the connection between rubbing his neck and him becoming horny. Nibbling his ear lobe, I see that. Sucking on his neck, I get it. Caressing his crotch, totally. But the rubbing neck thing I just don’t get it. Try rubbing his man’s area instead. And get naked for him. If he passes out just molest him while he sleeps. When/if he wakes up he’ll appreciate it. Next lesson: anal.

Shadow
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

What type of boy wouldn’t of shagged you by now.

Shadow
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Greg is one strange boy…….

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Let me hear it.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Apparently. Although dating a guy makes you like the worst lesbian ever! Come on! What happened in your day that was creepy?

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Jeez. Is he a girl? Are you sure? You sure do pick ‘em.
Anyway, what happened in your day?

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Well, you’re relying on semantics to be technically correct for a purpose that is unclear to all concerned. But okay, give Greg a blowjob, let him walk in to school and tell everyone he had sex and see if they don’t kick the crap out of him for playing up something that is not what is considered sex but foreplay. Not trying to be funny, but I’ve had enough sex to know that getting your cock sucked isn’t sex.
Yeah, sure. What happened?

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

I’m not sure where the confusion is. When people say sex they are referring to vaginal intercourse. Not oral sex, not dry sex, and even with anal sex you make a distinction unless you’re gay and it’s implied.

Shadow
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Sorry i half asleep. Get your hand in his pants..

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

It’s oral sex, but you’d say “I got a blowjob last night” not “I had sex”, unless you used the prefix ‘oral’.

Shadow
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

lol… go for you pants next time.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

I thought that’s what sex was? If people say “I had sex last night” they don’t mean they sucked on a nipple, or got a finger up in that bitch (hehe). They mean they had intercourse.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day ago, ShoutTrail

Just be safe if you have sex. Make sure he wears a condom, and it might be worth you going on the contraceptive pill. But I had young, and it was great! If that’s the way it goes then so be it. Get your titties out for him. Don’t wait for him to get them out!

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

Well, most guys would want to! I’m sure he probably does. Yeah, why not. Okay, just make him feel supported and don’t push him in anything other than a positive and loving way. Maybe get topless for him. Have you tried that?

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

You touched him or he touched you ?

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

uh huh. ‘cus people like coming back from wars and stuff get it around those things you mentioned because it reminds them of bombs. i’m making stuff up though. just seems like those would be triggers.

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

No.. what shirt invasion?

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

That’s an American thing. I have no idea what constitutes second base. According to the Brady Bunch, second base is Greg putting his hand on your shoulder, so by their standards your sexual deviants. But I’d say no. He just have played with your tits, and not you playing with his!

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

What’s creepy? The everything can be sexual word lottery?

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

When i think about boys :O

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

Its a surprise to my girlfriend when mine isn’t erect :\

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

All these people shouting you is so confusing… Why arnt i this popular?

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

What?

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

ah sounds like some ptsd issues if not just you being a cautious lady.
either way, i can respect that.
i like thhem though. i think they’re fun colors n’ stuff.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

I try my best. Now, how about I grab your remote and flick through some channels? Woof.

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

Yes im very nosey. Does he do anything with these erections?

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

why…why…why do you know like fireworks.
they’re so pretty!

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

my msn is a dead thing.
and i’m sorry, i probably ask you that like all the time.
but anyway happy fourth of july! yay fireworks.

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

do you have aim?

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

hm…i don’t know if that counts. but it’s still fun yeah? so what does it matter with the “bases”. it’s progress that you both want (i’m assuming) and you’re taking it methodically which is great. so all in all i count it a success.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

In the same way that anything could. Like “I’m going to cook your chicken”, or “I’m going to turn your fan on”. Say it with a sexy suggestive voice and it could easily infer intercourse. Try it. Right now. Just say anything in a sexy voice, and see if you can’t make it about sex. If it helps you can raise one eyebrow as you do it. Go on. “I’m going to insert my DVD in to your DVD player. Meow”. That sort of thing.

Shadow
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

Not true… I see plenty more punctuation for you to use… Not that i can remember why your apoligising… But 4 erections isnt that many in 8hours…

issybelle
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

wow nice. that’s got to be a world record for teenagers. no wait, my sister set the world record. she dated the man she met at 14 till she was 20 and counting. but anyway second base huh? damn girl, you pshyched? congratulations! my boyfriend is really non sexual. it makes me kinda frustrated. *mwah* kisses for both of you.

and i went to a mental hospital and then i just never came back to the site when i got home.

-Cap’n Roj’s Zombie-
1 day, 1 hour ago, ShoutTrail

It’s an expression. I think the comic explains it better than I could:

Or just go to the page: http://www.explosm.net/db/files/Comic…

It’s ok - my life is a test - got used to that a while ago. I bear no anomosity to anyone - it’s beyond my regard. There is still a spark of something that keeps me going - and to whomsoever I am always grateful for that. It gave me the time to be a Mum - that is a big gift. - Mas Thank you for taking the time to shout me - it actually means an awful lot tonight xx

It’s ok I stopped believing when God killed my Dad just as I had his first grandchild - I still have an enormous pull towards the right (in that I mean that which is right) things so all is not lost - I’m just a generally well-behaved person - Mas

Was everything sent to test us?

Thanks for what you said to vamp. You are such an encourager. So, thanks again. :]

You are welcome for the kind words. The world is lucky to have you.
Today is actually going well. Work is busy as usual I have a 3 day weekend to look forward to. I am going to use some of that time to get some financial stuff in order and I am trying to make a budget. Need to organize some stuff too. Trying to handle some of the problems I have control over right now.
Thanks for the encouraging words.
Have a great day! :) Michele

Thank You so much for all your help with my problems. It has meant alot that you would take the time to help me. I think it is great you are writing books. Helping others is a real passion for you. You are very phenomenal person and am truly thankful for your help.
If I can help you with any problem you have please know I am here for you as well.
Have a great night. :) Hugs - Michele (broussardhhh)

Just to let you know that Cap ‘n’ Roj contacted me this morning. He is very distressed over the loss of his friend but is doing as well as can be expected under the circumstances. I will shout if I have any more news - Regards - Mas

umm… i am new to this, but i would like to talk to you more, but i dont really want to post what i have to say to where anyone could read it… ???

Thank you soo much.Im sure it will-give more insight. Have aSuper Day-or night.lol :)

To be simple , in my dream, u had a friend in australia and the person became helpfull to you. please write this date some where if it is the will of god it will come to pass in your life someone from there will help you.

Please today i dreamt about you, please have you ever been to austrelia? or please do you have a friend in austrelia?

Smiling is infectious you can catch it like the flu
When someone smiled at me I started smiling too
When I passed the corner someone saw my grin
When he smiled I realized I passed it onto him

I thought about that smile and realized its worth
A single smile just like mine could travel round the earth
So if you feel a smile begin don’t leave it undetected
Lets start an epidemic quick and get the world infected

yes, I remember! Japan, oh that sounds like fun! I hope you get a chance to go. Don’t pass that up.

I am also home educated and no plans yet.

We was going back to Japan for a bit but had to cancel. Hoping to go latter in the year.

hi….hugs

How is your daughter getting along with her home education….hope she and you are well..

HEYYYYY< How are you? What's new? Oooh it's comin thanks for asking... mind block, and little interuptions. but it's going well... hahahaha