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• hi…i am kumar..from india..i have lossed money
  

  I am sorry you lost your money, but there aren’t many safe bets online. You could try selling stuff over ebay.com but try this link:
  
  http://www.simetric.co.uk/earn_money/money.htm
  
  I think it might help-Good luck to you :)
  - written 8 months ago

• the post is closed
  

  Don’t hate me for this, but I think it’s simple. You just haven’t found a person whom you could click with. reading your post, you sound so eloquent, and it’s strange to me how you say you cannot talk with anyone. i don’t think you have pointless existence, i think there are many lives you have touched, and if you wait, there will be more. i hope i have cured an ounce of your frustration-there is a new year to look forward to after all :)
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• I recently posted for help when i found out my dad cheated on my mom.
  

  If I was in your situation I know I’d feel just as angry and betrayed by my father. First, i don’t think you should feel so guilty on letting anyone down, because what you’re going through right now is probably hell itself. But building up hate against your father while behind bars isn’t going to help much. Do you get to use the phone? Because I think that you should call your dad, and tell him what you’re feeling. Or, maybe the next time your mom visits, tell her that you love her, and that she and your dad really need to sit down and talk about their relationship. I don’t know if this helps, but I really do hope that after some time, you don’t feel so lost. There are people who care about you, and your dad is one of them.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• Parents tearing me apart.
  

  I don’t know about Xbox, but I’d be very worried if I woke up to the sound of my parents screaming at each other. I really wish there were the right kinds of people to deal with parents, but that’s not happening, so i suggest that you really talk with them. And not just that, I hope you tell them that it truly hurts you, and that sweeping everything under the carpet thing never works. and maybe confront each of them individually on how you’re not going to take sides. Good luck to you. and send updates.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• hes not real.
  

  I haven’t read any of your prior posts-well i replied to one, i don’t exactly have the history….but i think this is about justin? I’m so sorry if this brings up old wounds, but I have to say that you can’t blame yourself for thinking about him. even though those friends of yours made him up. i think you put so much hope into him, that it just kills to find out that he really wasn’t there. maybe getting over him could be your new years resolution or something :)
  sorry. i was trying to add some humor. i know it’s hard, but i think someone who i’ve heard is gorgeous is likely to find someone a lot better. it takes a lot of time, but you’ve got to believe that you’re so much better than that.
  PS. To answer your previous question, I posted the question with my parents not being able to talk to each other.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

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