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• Are 4″ heels a really bad idea if I’m going to be on my feet pretty much all day? posted (4 months, 2 weeks) ago
  It’s possible I’ll be walking around for up to 7 or 8 hours. They’re knee-high b…

• Quick question - if I accept an offer to enrol in an Arts degree, do I need to un-enrol in my current Psych degree (same university, just switching degrees), posted (4 months, 3 weeks) ago
  question - if I accept an offer to enrol in an Arts degree, do I need to un-enrol in my current Psy…

• I am at a fork in the road. posted (4 months, 4 weeks) ago
  I’m partway through a psychology degree, but for several reasons I applied to switch into an…

• I have bought the tickets O_O posted (5 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I plan to attend Supanova later this month with my boyfriend (it’s this huge comic/anime/etc …

• I’m sick of everything. posted (1 year) ago
  And I wish it would go away, or that I could let go and break down, and release the tension thatR…

• I feel ugly and useless. posted (1 year) ago
  And insignificant. Almost invisible. Sometimes I wonder whether I actually exist at all. Or whet…

• Guess who finally has a new job? posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  :D I got the offer today! Hooray for income. I’ll be selling things I know nothing about, bu…

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Rain37's Top (1) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I used to go out with someone.
  

  If you know it won’t work, then don’t put yourself - or her - through the pain. Treasure your friendship and give it time. If the time comes when you feel that it might work, then give it another try; if that time never comes, then it wasn’t meant to be, but at least you will have that special friendship with her.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by Charles..

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• Im 17, almost 18 and ive never had a boyfriend.
  

  Well, in the first place, you shouldn’t want a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. Guys tend to be able to sense, at least subconsciously, when a girl is after a relationship just so she can say she’s in one; so they’re going to be driven away, or at least made more cautious, from the beginning.
  Also, as Jr. said, if you think it’s because of your weight, then do something about your weight. It seems to be an issue for you which is affecting your confidence - and again, guys can tell when a girl isn’t confident, and they tend to prefer confident girls. The confidence thing is probably more of a warning sign than your weight might be anyway.
  
  More importantly, though: You do not need a boyfriend to validate yourself, or to prove anything to anyone. The only reason for entering into a relationship should be because you like and care about the individual you’re entering into a relationship with.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• Do you think most women care about how much money a man has?
  

  Uh, generalising much?
  Yes, there are women who care more about money than love. There are also men who care more about money than love. There are also people of neither gender who care more about money than love. You can’t try and apply an attitude to an entire gender, it’s sexist and inaccurate.
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago

• i have had conjuctivitous for more than 4 weeks and it keeps coming and going what shall i do?
  

  See a doctor, even if you’ve already been to see one. Tell them the condition is recurring and you need some sort of treatment for it. It’s the only thing that will make it go away.
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• Are 4″ heels a really bad idea if I’m going to be on my feet pretty much all day?
  

  I might have to do that. Thanks for your help ^^
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

• Are 4″ heels a really bad idea if I’m going to be on my feet pretty much all day?
  

  So far I’ve kind of been going, “Ok, I’ll know it when I see it.” Um… well, the reason I asked about 4″ heels was because I was looking at these boots:
  
  http://www.buycostumes.com/Carnival-Red-Gold-Adult-Boots/38780/ProductDetail.aspx
  
  I need knee-high red boots to wear with a costume I’m putting together, which will basically be a red evening dress in a style that falls somewhere between steampunk and renaissance.
  
  Man no wonder I can’t find anything I like, lol.
  - written 4 months, 2 weeks ago

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