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Well, in the first place, you shouldn’t want a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. Guys tend to be able to sense, at least subconsciously, when a girl is after a relationship just so she can say she’s in one; so they’re going to be driven away, or at least made more cautious, from the beginning.
Also, as Jr. said, if you think it’s because of your weight, then do something about your weight. It seems to be an issue for you which is affecting your confidence - and again, guys can tell when a girl isn’t confident, and they tend to prefer confident girls. The confidence thing is probably more of a warning sign than your weight might be anyway.

More importantly, though: You do not need a boyfriend to validate yourself, or to prove anything to anyone. The only reason for entering into a relationship should be because you like and care about the individual you’re entering into a relationship with.

Uh, generalising much?
Yes, there are women who care more about money than love. There are also men who care more about money than love. There are also people of neither gender who care more about money than love. You can’t try and apply an attitude to an entire gender, it’s sexist and inaccurate.

See a doctor, even if you’ve already been to see one. Tell them the condition is recurring and you need some sort of treatment for it. It’s the only thing that will make it go away.

I might have to do that. Thanks for your help ^^

So far I’ve kind of been going, “Ok, I’ll know it when I see it.” Um… well, the reason I asked about 4″ heels was because I was looking at these boots:

http://www.buycostumes.com/Carnival-R…

I need knee-high red boots to wear with a costume I’m putting together, which will basically be a red evening dress in a style that falls somewhere between steampunk and renaissance.

Man no wonder I can’t find anything I like, lol.

It is in Australia yes, but still not quite what I’m looking for lol. Sorry for being picky :/ I appreciate the effort you’re putting in ^^

Dorian - Haha. No worries ^^ I should’ve specified it in my original post.

darkscorpia - Roughly the price range, but not quite what I’m after. Thanks though :)

Dorian - Where in Camden would you suggest?

darkscorpia - I’m in NSW around the Sydney area, but anyplace in Australia with an online store would be awesome.

Yeah that’s what I was thinking :P

I live in Australia, lol. Should probably have mentioned that :D

Uh… go to the hospital?

That doesn’t make sense. You’re bothered by the thought of her being with other guys, but you don’t care whether or not she’s a virgin?

Anyway. You’re just going to have to trust that she’ll do the right thing, and like SimplyMa said, if it’s such an issue then talk to her about it. There’s no other way for her to know that it’s something you’re worried about.

Well. If you think she’s going to cheat on you then you mustn’t trust her much. Does she have a history of cheating on people?
And as you go through life, you’re going to encounter women who have been with other guys. You’re not going to get a virgin every time you date someone. That’s just something you’re going to have to deal with :P

Are you worried that she’s going to cheat on you once you get together, or is it just that you can’t stand the thought of her having been with other guys?

Have you tried saying to this family member, “If you don’t give me the money you owe me, I’ll be evicted”? Maybe that will make them see how important it is that they pay you back.
I really hope you manage to work this out :( Good luck.

Art is debatable :P

Pretty much I think art is something - be it an image, a piece of writing, a sculpture, etc - that has purposefully been created with some sort of concept or commentary behind it. That’s pretty vague though, so I don’t know if it’ll be of any help :D