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thanks a lot snar…it really did help…

You should say what you told me, hes been an ass to you but i think everyone deserves at least to be responded to when they put their heart out on the line. To repay unkindness with unkindness never heals anyone. Just tell him what you said, he left and did that to you and you like being single now and unfortunately he lost his chance. I dunno, at least then he knows whats up.

Alrite well, if thats working for you I think you should stay single :). But dontcha think not replying is a little harsh?

thanks a lot snar…even i thot the same…not going to reply to this….im actually enjoying being single again

well this whole thing just seems pretty contraditory to me, on one hand it makes me think hes saying hell always love u but he has a seperate true love, on the other i worry that ive misinterpreted it and hes saying that he does love u only and wants you to love him back?

aww you can talk to me if u need anytime. ARe u doin ok? :S u dun needa tell me why u are there if you dont want.

Thanks a lot romy :) we have a lotta stuff planned, but molstly just taking walks… hangin out… spending our time together.

But.. your response worried me a little… are you gunna be ok? You said you were. hurting yourself? :/ that worries me. Whats up? Do you need someone to talk too?

thnx..

hey long time no see sadly im back :(

Hey! Im doing pretty good, 29 days till my gf comes out and im doing summer school, doing pretty well… just has a BEAUTIFUl nap and yeah.. things seem not to shabby.

Whats up with you?

Well im glad ur surviving then and I think u can be on the mend with that attitude. Is there anything you needed to talk about? Im here for yah. I know its been rough for u. Things are alrite with me, its a bit of a bumpy road but I realy cant complain.

Things with me are goin pretty smoothly :). THanks. But are u doin ok? Whats up?

How are you doin? I havent heard from you in a while? I was sposed to help u with that letter wasnt I :( i never did. Im soryr, i just hadnt heard from you. You ok?

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well i plan on trying to wait.. but waiting can be so painful when all around you are in love and all you wanna do is hold that one person tell them you love them and that you’d never hurt them.. for richer or poor and always make them smile

aww , i can just sense the love you have for him. Theres no way he can refuse that! :(. I’m not sure what to tell you.. I”m not sure if theres nethin new i can tell u to do or say.

I’d tell him that id rebuild that junk heap with him :)

Hmmm gotten any farther with the letter idea? How about… mail him something that personal thatd mean something?

np i hope one day my good karma.. will get me a girl that will never hurt me

:( aww im realyl sorry to hear that… maybe you should take a day? Can you?

Canada. Dun like to get too mucn more specific :P

Hmm well, If I CAN help in anyway, gimme a call :)

aww …. well letters can mean just as much! And maybe if u tried u culd make one, they dun have to be complex or anythin… its the thot that counts really :). I’d help u write a poem but I dun believe in that, poems are very personal and sacred in my opinion.

yeah i know romy, i’d be really sad if I missed her fer a day and she didnt tell me about it. But then we talk excessively. I dunno what to tell u, I hope he does send u a msg.

Hey romy, i had another fairly ruff day but I didnt braek down. She had a mood swing and got really sad about sumthin she culdnt talk to me about but i just stucky by silently, and yeah… im doin alrite other then that im like burnin up and im tired and ive got a test i havent studied for. But for me, this is pretty good.

How bout u?

Hi lovely girl :)

Yes thank you I’m ok, I hope you are feeling well too….
umm hey you have my e-mail address so just add me to your msn, and if you wanted to talk at any time I’ll be there

Byes for now….

heyyyyy long time no c…hru? are u ok? we need to talk…miss talking to u…

Hey there, how are you doing? Take care and Bye

I’ve been good. How have you been?

I hope it helped, It was the only thing I could think of and then I had to go out..
Goodluck with it :)

:) i am glad you like it. a sensitive guy would always listen to what you got to say, but remember perfect timing counts. :) send a love letter to him, make it light and true. :)

Good luck my dear. I am honored to have one like you! you are special!

lilies

I think if the only reason was his insecurity it must not be so hard to make him change his mind, just tell that you love him and don’t want nobody else and you believe it’s not worth giving up and it’s not impossible as he thinks, that there should be some solution.
If he’s determined about leaving you though, I’d be worried. Maybe ask him straight if he’s loyal to you and real reason he decided to break up is what he says.

Okay. I am sure you have written him a nice letter? Tell him the exact things you want to say like:

I don’t want to sound like a fool but this is very important to me. I understand about the break up thing, but don’t you think we can make it? what if we meet first then whole decide? i want us to hold on to what we have now. Because this is all a matter of choice and i don’t want to let go of someone just because of the things going on that seem so confusing.

I want you to know that i support you in the things you are having now (insert his concerns here), i am not perfect but i will listen to you, whatever you tell me. But don’t think you can do this alone. I will give you time to do stuff on your own sometimes, just let me know.

Just promise me that you will come back to tell me things again when you are ready.

OKAY…the letter would sound like that. Make him feel that you understand that you know what he is feelings. Guys just want to be accepted.

You can alter anything you want or change ot whatever. But when i make a letter, it would somehow sounds like that. If it is coming the heart, it always works.

hey lilies….i want to let him know that i want to work on this meet him and make him feel better and then think abt breakup or getting back how do i do that…i just want him to be aware that im doing this to make it look better and make it work

Okay. With all the choices we all have in this world, i think for once in a very important relationship such as what you have, it is time to follow your heart.

I think he knows that you are willing to work things out because if you don’t, then you would not care at all.

No one knows if it is going to work in the end, but well, we will never know until we try my dear. :)

And pray or trust that it will.

Yes i understand.

Is excited to see you? How does he sound like when you talk now that he knows you are helping him?

Yes i get what you are feeling. But saying ‘you take some time to relax’… would it work for you? or you are pretty tensed about the whole thing?

hmmm nope feeling still the same…u know…confused what to do and what will happen when we meet…

Hello Romy! thanks for shout. :o)

But i feel terrible today. Ouch.

Hugs. Feeling okay?

Hi,
Thank you :)
I can try, which one is it?
The healthy break up?

aww thanks! Thats realyl sweet of you, i’m not religious but I apperciate the sentiment. ACtually that really makes me happy! Thats awfully nice of you. Isnt it crazy we all share this one thing, and almost at aroudn teh same time we are all meeting our lvoe interests? I think its awesome. Thanks so much, ill be hopin for u too that everythin works out.

eeeh… pick and choose tonight.. lol.. he chose mac and cheese.. his favorite.. lol.

the healthy break up one? sorry.. im reading it now.. had to fix my honey dinner.. he just got home from work.. but im onto it now..

i no how u fell i broke up with my boyfriend to day 2

lol that’s cool, you can talk to me on msn, I’ll add you ok?
we’ll talk about that later :)

Hey Romy :) I’m 22 and I’m your neighbour too :)living in Kuwait
So whenever you want to talk just shout me :) ok?
see you later
Me too with not so many friends :)

Hey sure I’ll do :)
I’ll be happy to :)
I know you feel sad, well but you’ll feel better with time

Hope that things are looking good for u now!

U r not alone so don’t be too upset !

i added u