I didnt say support something you dont. Its just that when people get too caught up in thier own beliefs the people in real trouble get stuck in the crossfire and everyone loses especially them because they become examples rather than humans. I guess in this case it was fine since she already was doing what you wanted anyways but you could have worded it a better way maybe like just saying you suport her decision rather than bluntly saying what to do. Sorry. Please dont give a lengthy response back because I hate to argue.
well in that certain case telling someone what to do isnt best, its best just to be supportive of whatever they do and let them know both sides and make sure they think things through so what they do is whats best. Dont worry so much.
If no one gives suggestions this site wouldn’t exist. Maybe she wanted those suggestions. It’s really not your place to speak about others responses or what you think the person asking for help wants.
I wasnt trying to be insulting. In fact another person posted going the other way so I told him the same thing to leave her be and not put pressure on her. Its okay.