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• (1 vote) Please help me figure out what I should do, I have
  

  Why are you taking it? Is it because you think if you give him up you won’t have anyone? Look he is mentally abusing you. He is a looser living at home with mommy. He is angry that he knows he is a looser and so he takes it out on you. He does not like you or respect you because if he did he would not be treating you the way he does. Your children don’t need someone else to make them feel insignificant and worthless either by him ignoring them and putting them down. Dump him now and let the real guy you were meant to be with find you.
  
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by Cuppycake

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• my hearts tearing in two.
  

  RC Remember this, no one can use you unless you let them. Why is it when us girls get in a relationship all reason goes out the window and self respect?! There is a really old song called ” Everybody plays a fool”. Well, its true. In everyone’s life they play a fool at least once. You are not alone.
  You need to move on. Revenge is best gotten when you succeed. Yeah, they can’t stand it. You move on and they become territorial thinking with their egos so large, “how is it that she has moved on?” You need to reflect on the pain you feel and not make the same mistakes again with someone else. You know being alone is not the same as being lonely. Remember you are a wonderful, caring person and you will recover and make it through this. You need to get interested in something you really like to do. Everyone likes music, learn how to play the guitar or go ice skating. But don’t sit around and mop because that gets you no were, good luck.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• My closest friends blew me off lied, and betrayed me.
  

  Anonymous:
  You are most welcome.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• i have friends at my school and outside of school but i sometimes feel like no one really cares if i am around or not.
  

  First of all you need to care about yourself. We all need friends but first like yourself. Then volunteer for drama or a sport, or choir. whatever your school has get involved in what they are doing. You will find that you will make many friends when you get involved. A good rule of thumb is to always treat everyone as though they are your best friend whether they or not. Never say anything bad about anyone, because someday the person you may bad mouth could turn out to be popular. Good luck.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• dear whoever can help me
  

  If I understand you correctly you met him on the Internet right? You should never have given him your name or address if you did. This person could be a psycho. You need to tell your mom and let her decide. Really, you need to be careful and protect yourself. It is odd to me that someone would want a young girl they do not know to be a bridesmaid in their wedding. You usually use your own family and close friends for that since the bride pays for the dresses. You need to tell your mom because it does not sound kosher to me. Good luck.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• payback is gonna be sweet but i need help figuring out how to get back at him
  

  First of all you need to respect yourself. I know that on t.v. they are all saying “let’s be friends with benefits”, but doesn’t anyone realize anymore that a woman’s most prized possession is “herself.” Giving it away is giving away part of yourself. Look, this guy obviously did not know how great of a girl you really are. Take time and get to know YOU. Then think about what you want in a man, for your life, and than wait and he will come along. He will. He does not sound honest because he never told you about his girlfriend. How come he is having sex with you if he has one? Get to know yourself and decide what you want, than go for it. You deserve to have a guy love you, care about you and treat you most of all with respect. Guys marry girls they respect. Remember that. Remember this…if a man can milk cheap, why buy the cow? Good luck.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

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