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forget about the ones who don’t,
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cattail
Newark, NJ, US
cattail's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes
- (2 votes) My best guy friend wrote a love letter to me.
LOL… this sure has become confusing… but I still say when in doubt, wait!!! Don’t make a decision just yet… just accept where you’re at, and I think the answer will become clearer to you if you give it a bit more time….
- written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by Bejus - (2 votes) I’m engaged!
Congratulations to you!!! And I agree, you don’t need a relationship with someone who is into drugs. But let me say this…. If he’s really going to change, and you are going to insist that he does so, make sure this is apparent BEFORE you set a date to get married. Marriage is a commitment, for better or worse, sickness and in health, etc. You should never go into a marriage expecting someone to change, because more often than not (unless THEY really want to change) they do not…. what you see is what you get. If he says you are trying to change him, that doesn’t sound so good… you see, HE has to want to change for himself. But I do hope this works out for you! Just realize that with any addiction, there is a strong likelihood that a person will slip up again…. so if I were you I’d wait awhile before setting a date on the marriage commitment, till you see signs that he is serious about quitting drugs.
- written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by issybelle, OliveOil - (2 votes) Ok so i am still madly in love with my ex boyfriend!
You are too sweet to be worrying about HIM getting hurt, when he’s about to go for YOUR best friend? What’s he doing to YOU?!! Let him get hurt, he’s being a jerk, asking your best friend out! I know you care, but he’s being pretty heartless toward your feelings!!
- written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by Desert Sand - (1 vote) my boyfriend and i just broke up….now we have broken up before but this time i think it is for real.
Sadly, there’s never an easy way to end a relationship….and it hurts… and it’s only normal to find it so tempting to just ease the pain of the separation from that person who’s been your life and go back to what is at least comfortable. It sounds like you are finally realizing that, and know it’s time to end the vicious cycle. If things never improve in the relationship, there’s no sense in going back to it anymore. It won’t be easy, so you just have to be determined to break the cycle of returning to something that doesn’t work, and instead leave yourself open to something that might work in the future. You won’t find it if you stay tied up in a not-so-great relationship!! So… keep yourself busy with other things, try not to dwell, and just let the difficult time pass. Keep some distance, because contact only makes it harder. Eventually it will pass. It’s just that you have to develop a whole new routine in your life that doesn’t include him, and that takes a lot of adjustment!! Best of luck to you!!
- written 1 year ago – voted for by tiffanyx7 - (1 vote) what should i do with my girlfriend but i really really love her?
A little distance from you might wake her up and make her start worrying about what you are doing… ;) Don’t let her take you for granted that you are just there no matter what!!
- written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by jayl