cattail's shout trail with 2greeneyes - Help.com

I miss you. Where have you been? Im gonna e mail. Is everything alright. Miss your humor and wisdom.

No Cat,
Don’t feel bad for the invite. That poster needed to hear what it feels like on the other end. Im not sure a lot of suiciders realize what they do to the people left behind. Really Cat, don’t feel bad. I just kinda got emotional cause its selfish in an aspect and I wanted him to feel it and know it. Yes, I wonder if he had to disapear. I hope. But he was not into drugs and was depressed he couldn’t find a woman who just didn’t want him to buy things for her and drugs. He was sick of the women in AZ. He said he wanted one that didn’t do drugs.

:( That is so hard, and to just not know…. Oh, I hope for a happy ending somehow, that he’s still OK but just ran away to change his life or something… but I guess that would be hard without using his bank account or credit cards. :( Still, did he get involved with some bad people that might have done something… or even could have threatened him and sent him on the run ?? I’m sorry, I hope this isn’t making things worse to keep talking about it. I just feel awful that you’re coping with this situation.

Bank account untouched. Credit cards intact.
Cell phone unused since trying to reach me. Cops are thinking suicide cause he was depressed with not finding a woman to love that didn’t do drugs.

Yes Cat,
That too. His truck was found in another state, not his state, in a remote area. Not sure if he was abducted, killed and his truck driven. Don’t know if the bones found are him or not. Dont know. I miss him very much. My husband knew him for 30 years too.

I’m so sorry I put you in such a tough and painful situation… I didn’t realize, or it just didn’t sink in till now what you’re going through. You have such a big heart, you give even when it hurts. I’m wondering if there could have been foul play or anything, or maybe he just had to get away for some reason…. I’m sure it’s so hard with no answers… :(

Me too Cat,
I have a hard time answering those. It brings out so much I am dealing with for real. I make myself answer a couple of week and then I have to help elsewhere. I need some time to work through too. I try and keep myself up but I am very haunted by so many unanswered questions of someone that meant so much to me. Now no word, no clue, no nothing. Its not easy to forget 30 years. He is noticably gone with no answers.

*hugs* I’m so sorry for what you’re going through about your friend. :( Thanks for your post, however painful… it probably helped the poster a great deal to hear all that, so thank you!! I hope there’s some information about him soon, or better … I hope that he’s still out there somewhere.

I came home for lunch and stayed home… OMG. I had so much trouble getting home with construction sites that I didn’t want to go back through that. At one place it was closed with a bulldozer and line of traffic for 15 mins, but then a construction accident apparently happened. :( Another cop came, then later an ambulance. I turned around and went another way… more construction!! Sat another 16 mins. Argh. Couldn’t face that going back to work again, and then having to leave early for an appointment anyway. So now I’m flushing out the bird bath and there was a mangled half eaten bluebird in there!! :( We never have bluebirds here… but we did see one in the yard last week. I guess that’s the one. :( So sad. Now what mangles things up like that and puts them in a water dish???

Its 10:20 here.
That shout was for Fizz lol

Its 10:20 here.

LOL… oh, it’s not morning… it’s lunchtime!!!

Hi there… yeah, I’m at work, feeling like I could just fall over this morning!! Sounds like you’re having one of those days, huh??? Ugh. I saw that sequel… LOL… you have had some pretty amazing things happen to you!!

Hey Cat,
you working. I had trouble on the job. Wrong wood color and bids on hold. So Im stoked. Im home, gonna help awhile and then go tend my beds and greenhouse. Did you read sequel to dead animals? Man o man.

Usually I’ll skip if its blatent. Sometimes I’d just like to scold them. But as you say you just never know. I gave the benefit here. Just in case.

I know, I was wondering too if this is just someone playing games… never can tell, but sometimes it just seems rather extreme!!

Thanks, wasn’t sure if it was real. Gave the beneifit of doubt though. Those types really do exist. Self imposed lonliness. Sad.
Did you figure out how to get that one thing off. I got instructions if you need help. xoxoxo

Oooh, sorry… that last invite was BEYOND me… gave me a headache trying to read through all that. I am floored!!! You came up with a good response though!!

That seems to turn it on and off, whether a person can email you or not. Well, I tried to send you a test email! :) I clicked underneath your avatar on the profile page.

Im new at the computer myself. It’s a lot smarter than me.

Fizz sais you go to friends list scroll down to me and hit little circle by the envelope.

Ahh, OK… I’m new at this… but if you go to my profile, right beneath my avatar it should say you have been given permission to email cattail… and you click that and it starts writing an email??? :)

Hey Cat. Trying to send e mail. I hit your cirle by envelope. What now? Had a very nice talk with Fizz.

Hi there… sorry, I was away eating dinner!! :)

Cat,
I Just hit the circle on your envelope! Love to talk.

*hugs* I totally agree you did nothing wrong, and I’m sorry that all this happened!! I’m glad you’re handling it so well… but I know, it’s just upsetting and hard to understand!! I really don’t get it. But this too shall pass!! So… keep on!!! ;)

Sorry again Cat,
My oldest son and I took a walk to the beaver ponds with our dogs. I feel better and I just cant help if something was taken wrong and blown out of proportion. I stand by what I said. I meant all my apologies and I know who I am and what kind of person I work at being. Im not perfect and full well know this. Most of all I know I never set out for the day to harm anything or anyone. I try hard to be a good person. I really appreciate all your thoughts and understand how uncomfortable this made all of you feel. I am also very sorry for the awkwardness this caused a lot of mutual friends. I never meant any of this and now it is huge beyond belief. I am so surprised to be treated this way by both of them. I feel I spoke to all parties like a lady. I didn’t strike back. I continued to speak with respect. I can roll with this. I know I tried my best. I guess we see what happens. I will continue to help and carry on as 2greeneyes. Im sorry they have such a low opinion of me. Thankfully not all agree. Thanks for showing the love. It meant the world to me, really Cat, it did, I was in disbelief as to all that was said.

Yeah… I guess so! I don’t really see it, so for that matter did I say something wrong too? I mean all of us implied that she writes these long informative posts, which she does… but we love them… she has so much to share. Well, I know it’s upsetting but try not to take it to heart…. we know the truth!!

I think its crazy. Yes took offense there as well. Gosh, learn to laugh a little. Life is short. Don’t take yourself so seriously. Friends should be able to kid. I gotta walk on eggshells with you?

Wow, so Diane took offense at the last comment too, after cookie dough went off on you?? I really expected Diane to come in and defend you here!!! Yeah, it’s all very confusing… but we (well most of us) truly realize you weren’t being hurtful. You’re such a sweet person, so why should you now end up being hurt by all this… argh!!! Not fair.

Sorry was cleaning. Yes I saw that. I am so surprised how this went down. I cant tell you how depressed I was, when I found out she was hurt. Now to say I didn’t mean it and will keep doing it is astounding. I think she is way emotional perhaps the drugs she takes to control pain. I don’t know. But This is rediculous. Cookie made it a lot worse by constantly being rude. Telling me I express myself stupid. How I shoot my mouth off! What did she mean I called her slow? I really am confused and dont understand how I upset cookie in speaking about it. The whole dialouge I was polite. She was the one being rude and ruined what could of been worked out. It would of helped if she spoke for herself on her post instead of Cookie. She wasn’t even on the one that started this! Her first paragragh sais alot on post about why she reacted like this.

Well, given what Diane has added now, I’m really confused. I think I missed some things somewhere… was I even referring to the right incident?? But she has closed the post…

No I apolgized on post, and in shout. She shouted back and said I know you didn’t mean it. Were good, forget about it. Can we go on? I thanked her. I got sick, was off and woke up to this. Cookie is making things worse and being very offensive. Thank you so much for your help. I really am trying to sort this out and understand why her accepted apology was forgotten.

Yeah, it’s a little crazy… I’m really shocked. I could see how bad you felt as soon as it happened, and you were so apologetic where I’m not sure I would have handled it as well as you did… you were big enough to apologize even though I couldn’t even see you had done anything wrong to apologize for. I knew you meant no harm, but yet for an unknown reason it upset Diane very much… but at least now we can understand why, and that it was never your fault at all. I knew you were so upset by all that. But now it’s over, I just can’t believe more is happening… I really can’t. She must not be getting the full picture on it all somehow, or somehow believes you deliberately hurt her in the first place… maybe she just never followed all the details closely enough and is confused now??

I appreciate you so much. I can’t believe the low opinion of me she has. I thought I did what was right. Right away. I truly was so bummed for days, well even up to now. Whats up with Cookie. Both women are incredible. I feel like a scapegoat.

Oh, I’m so sorry…. I am shocked too, because Cookie Dough is always very kind and caring and level-headed!! Well, I had to put my two cents in… this is not fair to you, you are being misunderstood!! … and after Diane cleared up the whole reason for the first misunderstanding, and what upset her… which of course you couldn’t have known!! *hugs* Don’t take it to heart. You are the best, and we all know what a huge heart you have. It’s amazing how people can misinterpret meanings with written words sometimes.

Cat, can you shout me and tell me what is happening on Brighters post. I am shocked at this. Cookie, who I respect as well is quite harsh. I am at a loss right now. I cant believe what I am being called. This is not right. I never harm or have harmed anyone on this site. This is a very low opinion of me. Could you give me your opinion? You can just shout me, you dont have to post. I’d appreciate it. I feel very attacked, insulted and misunderstood.Towards bottom when I first give response.

LOL!!!! OK, thanks for explaining that!!! :)

On one of her avatars she is wearing orange and she has a mask on. It shows her putting on rubber gloves. I guess she did it while bored in a doctors office.

LOL… yeah, that was good!!! Now I don’t get the proctology connection to Shi though?? :D

The finger guy was killing me. I cant wait to hear from her! Its so good to laugh.

ROFL!!!!!! Saw the videos!!!

It is a crack up. You will laugh out loud. The videos are working now.

It wasn’t working earlier. Haven’t checked yet. Just checked both posts. Where is she?

He is too funny!!! :) I haven’t had a chance to see the videos ’cause I’m at work… have to wait till later, darn!

I am just dying to hear Tammy. Sands did a great job. She will laughing her butt off.

I’m not doing so good helping this guy… :(

http://help.com/post/154666-i-think-m…

Thanks so much for all the kind words. I don’t know, some days I just feel like my brain is fried and my responses aren’t what they should be… but I do like to try!!! :)

Yes, you really vote on the individual responses that you thought were especially great!! :)

Glad you recovered from your back injury… but wow, 2 years!!! That must have been rough. I’ve just been rather housebound since last Thanksgiving, so I guess I shouldn’t complain… but now that spring is here I really want to be able to go out on nature walks… well, I’ll keep trying little by little. So far I just can’t go far without needing to sit!