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• My new husband kept a separate bank account to hide trying to pay off credit card debt, he also lied to me about. posted (1 year, 11 months) ago
  He also tried to tell me his income was less than what it was. I found out and have been so upset.…

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• im in 7th grade, and theirs this boy hows really hot
  

  Yeah but this guy does not know she is alive.
  So she has to be really sweet to him so he can notice her then like her ……..just like what happened to you with Michael.
  That is why she is going to flatter him with praise when he answers her questions and tell him how smart he is.
  Maybe Michael liked you first. Maybe he thought you were hot.
  You can see how this works now.
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago

• My new husband kept a separate bank account to hide trying to pay off credit card debt, he also lied to me about.
  

  I am dealing with the financial end already. Got 3 copies of his credit reports from the borrows. Organized to receive 2 credit cards in his name with 0 interest, 0 transfer fees, for 6 and 12 months. So I am planning to help organize to pay them off.
  Emotionally I am having a hard time. I am being mean and disrespectful. Angry alot.
  It is very hard to be nice. I always wait until the baby is asleep to bring up anything. Feel like I can not trust him.
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago

• im in 7th grade, and theirs this boy hows really hot
  

  Of course she likes him because he is hot.
  For what other reason does a 7th grader know to like a guy.
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago

• My boyfriends mom told him lies on me,she liked me
  

  It is hard for her to take that you are going to Iraq. I had a ex boyfriend go to Iraq. He broke up with me before he left. I was so hurt. Anyway. She just doesn’t want her son to get hurt if something happens to you over there. So she is protecting him. When you commit yourself to the military, unfortunately it comes before all loved ones. There is no way around it.
  And people not in the military do not always understand the choice you made. I know it hurts. I wish I could make you feel better. But the more that time passes the pain will get less and less.
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago

• Doing it- wait till marriage or do it before marriage?
  

  I don’t know how old you are……..but anyway. Flower power is right about not doing it to stay in the relationship.
  Only have sex with the person if …………. it means that not having sex with them is something you will regret for the rest of your life even if you know they will break up with you right after.
  
  I know it sounds crazy. But it is true.
  
  And chances are you will not marry the first person you will have sex with. Especially if you are not their first also.
  Sorry.
  You should do it because the other person really turns you on and you are so hot for them that you can not say no.
  That way it is wonderful no matter what happen after.
  - written 1 year, 11 months ago

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