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• I’m going to be straight forward: I’m bi and I really like a girl I just met. posted (11 months, 1 week) ago
  The problem: she seems to be dating another woman at the moment. Even though she seemed to have exp…

• I’m gonna be very straight-forward with this: I am bi, and I really like this girl I just met recently. posted (11 months, 1 week) ago
  Long story short, she had shown a general interest in me, and all I wanted was a friendship at fir…

• I feel like I’m being pulled into something that I don’t want to be in. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  I asked this guy to my prom and I think he started to like me. Now he wants to hang on a regular bas…

• This is interesting. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  Ok, so I’m bi and I happened to have taken a liking to a girl I know. Of course, my speculatio…

• This is a very minor question: posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  What are the cons about dying one’s hair (I’m talking about negative effects on one̵…

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• (1 vote) I know im kind of obese, and im sick of 3 girls reminding me im obese.
  

  That is just wrong. You know, girls can be so catty sometimes, it’s disgusting…take it from me, I’m in my senior year of an all-girl high school.
  
  Only 3, and their catty little friends? Ignore them. They’ll get theirs when the time is right, trust me. I’ve seen karma in action. It’s true when they say: what goes around comes around. In the meantime, stick with a higher class of people, not those low-lives.
  
  There are people out there who don’t judge by appearance, but kindness. They are the ones you need to seek out and befriend, because chances are they are also the ones who are also ridiculed, down about themselves, or otherwise lonely. Devote your time to people like that, and the misery of these losers will dissolve, and when they see that they aren’t getting a rise out of you, they’ll give up and go find someone else to pick on (hopefully the wrong person; the one who will give them a “run for their money,” so to speak, and then you can laugh, if you even notice that they still exist!).
  
  Keep your chin up, and be proud of who you are. We all have our flaws, inside and out. No one person is absolutely perfect.
  
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by cattail

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• I’m going to be straight forward: I’m bi and I really like a girl I just met.
  

  i hope it comes up soon…sorry for the long wait..it’s a long post…
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• i just told my friend i cut myself..ahh
  

  Cutting yourself isn’t the answer. I’ve done that, got addicted to it, and then forced myself to stop. It wasn’t getting me anywhere (only unsolicited attention), so there’s really no point to it.
  
  Next, about being bi, I left a reply post on my problem. It’s kinda long, but you might find a lot of value in it, as I pretty much gave you a condensed version of my experience.
  
  Hope this helps!
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• I’m going to be straight forward: I’m bi and I really like a girl I just met.
  

  I’d be more than willing to talk to you about it! I’m still coming into terms with this myself, but I can tell you about my experience so far.
  
  I always had crushes on women starting from age 10. However, I always thought that guys were hot, and I even dated one at 16 (I’ve had some major crushes on guys, too). Because it was “weird” and no one was like me, I just ignored my feelings for other women and considered myself straight.
  
  However, these feelings only grew stronger as I got older, and in senior year of high school, I finally accepted it. I felt that I had to tell someone, so I told my two cousins first, knowing they would understand. Next, I told my mother, who still insists that I don’t know what I’m talking about (she can’t accept it). After her, I told my aunt, and only recently did I confide in my best friend.
  
  You don’t have to tell anyone if you don’t want to. I truly wanted to because I felt like I had to (or, at least I felt I had to tell my mother because I never keep anything from her). Now I only tell people who I feel need to know and will accept it without acting weird around me. Otherwise, I keep it to myself.
  
  I almost pity you because you must be going through the same thing I have/continue to go through (I say “almost” because we really shouldn’t be ashamed of who we are). I mean: liking people of the same sex and knowing they’re straight, knowing that even other homosexuals are prejudice against us, and knowing that straight people tend to think that we are “overly horny” and just “plain crazy.” It’s tough, but it is what it is. It’s an inborn preference, we can’t change it, but we can’t sit in a corner and cry over it. Life is way too short.
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• I need some serious help!
  

  Whatever is bothering you, you should go speak to someone about it. It doesn’t have to be a psychologist, it can be anyone you trust! Just relax, and talk about everything that’s on your mind. Sometimes just getting it off your chest can be the solution. Writing a journal is a good alternative, if for some reason, you can’t find anyone you can talk to.
  
  Hope this helps!
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• I think I love my best friend.
  

  Ok, here’s the thing: it’s definitely a possibility that your friendship can be altered if you tell her about your feelings. I don’t think it would completely end, but if she doesn’t feel the same way, it will definitely be awkward for her and she might act differently around you for a while.
  
  If you’re willing to take the chance, explain to her the same way you’ve explained it here, and assure her that if she doesn’t feel the same way, you’ll understand and won’t try to push the issue.
  
  Hope this helps!
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

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