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Come on now that’s like saying you don’t deserve the good things in life. Don’t be afraid of happiness. Be afraid of continuing life in your current mindframe. Not that you are “off the wall”, but it isn’t cool to feel low. What makes you happy?!!!

OMG I don’t know what I will say to god to convince him to let ME in the gates! My mistakes are humiliating but you know what? No one knows about most of them except you. **** it. Just live. Smoke some weed! No one matters but you when it all boils down to it. People will come and go in life that’s why it’s so many everywhere! Be happy.

Hey now Hey now…it’s never too late trust me. You have to start where you are. Everyday is an opportunity to begin a new mission. You can’t quit. You have gotten used to waking up every morning. Eternity is a long time. We have this little time now to make something out of this ****** hand we’ve been dealt. What’s the point in giving up when there’s no way we can lose? Let’s milk it for all it’s worth. Death is the penalty we ALL pay for the privelege of life. Life is an amazing thing.

I used to have the same problem. Actually I still have bouts with my anxiety. What I will suggest is that you look at life from the end. If the fact that you must leave this world forever isn’t enough to make you overcome your shyness then you should consider some help. Five, ten years from now no one in school will remember what you wore or what you said except for a few stand out moments. Just go all out and use your shyness to sort of add to your mystique. Make it a part of what makes you unique but read up on the internet on ways to start conversations and interact so that you can handle the situation when it arrives. It also helps to speak to random people throughout the day. Just say hi and try to make small talk. Trust me it works but like most things that are worthwhile it takes time.

The second before you die.

Exercise and go on a fruit and vegetable diet. You’ll feel like a million bucks.

As long as you breathe you are in control. My ex cheated on me and got pregnant by my best friend while I was in basic training for the Army. I was devastated, near suicidal. It was the worst pain imaginable. The pain will die, but you will breathe. You have to realize that you are 19, imagine how long it will be before you are 50 or 60. You have a long way to go and experience life. She’s doesn’t deserve someone like you.

Find another girl. It’s a million of them out there trust me. I’m shy myself, work on your charisma. You can do anything or have anyone you want if you face that demon. Try just speaking to random people, maybe it can boost your confidence so that you can keep a conversation going, then let the chips fall where they may. A woman can ruin your life if you let her, and you can ruin your own life if you stress over things you can’t control. God will take care of those things. Luv U MAN stay up!!!