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• I need medical help… posted (11 months, 3 weeks) ago
  …I guess the answer is simply “go to the doctor” but I would like to know if anyo…

• Okay…this one is for those that are 21 and over. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  Basically, my relationship with my mother is on edge. Never has been this way, but it just seems t…

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casmith07's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) boyfriend trouble….
  

  [quote Vampyra]well for one thing he wont answer the phone =[ or should i wait for him to call[/quote]
  
  You actually don’t even need to “officially” break up. Just move on. Why continue to waste any more of your time on someone who is obviously not interested in you? As far as I’m concerned, he ended the relationship when he started caring so why add more drama to the situation by manufacturing a “breakup situation.”
  
  Move on - be happy! There are many more guys out there that are ready to be men, not boys, that would love to be with you. You might not find them tomorrow, but trust me, you’ll find someone that has all of the positive qualities of your past flames and more, and NONE of the bad qualities. That’s when you know.
  
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ....................

• (1 vote) .
  

  Very simply - don’t let it go. Let her go, but always hold on to your fond memories. However, don’t let it consume you, or other women that potentially wish to meet and greet you will see it all over your face. You’d be surprised how much it puts off potential mates.
  
  - written 12 months ago – voted for by chunkymove

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• My partner has a great credit rating but I dont and we want to apply for a home loan…would you know any lenders that would still approve us?
  

  Apply single and then amend the loan at a later date. Either that or just apply as a single applicant and come to an agreement that his credit rules in that case.
  
  Perhaps you shouldn’t be applying for a home loan until BOTH of your credit is good to go jointly? Something to consider.
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• I have no friends in my school.
  

  Don’t worry about it. The only friend you need right now is your report card. Good grades = good colleges, and good colleges = tons of people to make friends that are there for the same reasons as you: education.
  
  High school is largely a popularity contest. Do your best to be successful and then look back after you get your Bachelor’s Degree and see where time left all those people. You won’t be shocked to find most of them sitting around doing nothing, or working on year #5, year #6, year #7 trying to graduate.
  
  Not saying there’s anything wrong with people taking a while to graduate, but most of them will be spinning their wheels while you’re destined for bigger and better things, and yes, try getting involved in some outside-school activities. Join a rec league sport, a club, or some other event around town.
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• well were broken up
  

  [quote Love_Life]Vampyra : you are too young to have a baby. Go for an abortion and take this as a lesson for your future.[/quote]
  
  Agree 100%. You need to first confirm that you’re pregnant before you start jumping to conclusions, though. The sooner you are able to abort, the less expensive it is as well.
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• Why is it that some people just hate you for no reason.
  

  Jealousy. Obviously there’s something that you have that she doesn’t. Big boobs? Prettier face? Better grades? Swagger?
  
  It’s usually swagger. Brush your shoulders off - haters keep landing on ‘em and weighing you down :)
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

• HEARTBRAKER
  

  [quote ton]Not sure what you meant by that last comment. Anyway, what would YOU like to do?[/quote]
  
  Apparently nothing but complain! You have to take ACTION! Don’t just sit idly by and let others take control of your life.
  - written 8 months, 3 weeks ago

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