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• A Homosexual question Can someone help me figure out what i’m going though SERIOUSLY?
  

  I remember when I first realised that I was gay, I would get with guys and then get home and be physically sick afterwards. I think that for me it came from an unconscious conflict between what I was attracted to and what I wanted to be attracted to. I’ve always found women attractive, but I don’t find them sexually stimulating. hence the knowledge that I was gay.
  I think that after your first gay experience, you get the feeling that it is finite. All those dreams of family life and a white wedding and such that you don’t realise you have are suddenly gone, and this causes a great deal of distress.
  My advice would be to just take it slowly, you don’t have to rush into a decision, and just take the time to be yourslef and be comfortable with yourself. At the end of the day, it’s not all about sex or even love, just live life, and take the opportuniteis if they arise and be positive with them. If this guy comes on to you again then accept, but only go as far as you are willing, just ask him to be patient and he’ll propably help you.
  hope i helped
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  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

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