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• Hey, I’m really low… posted (2 weeks) ago
  Nothing particularly bad has happened to me. In fact, my life is great. I’m a little frustrat…

• How can I help my friend when she is going through a rough patch in her relationship? posted (2 weeks, 5 days) ago
  Her boyfriend is eager to get married, and is afraid of her realizing his imperfections and breaki…

• Should I sell my outdated, modded laptop? posted (2 months) ago
  I just bought a new, nice laptop. However, 6 months ago- I bought a low tech laptop- and painted i…

• Guess what! posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  I’m crabby! Bleh. After spending all day with my sister. I do her hair for her school pictur…

• What is some really good (and fast) torrent software? posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  I’m sick of the torrents taking forever. What software do you suggest? ….and how can …

• How would you permanently connect 2 pieces of foam? posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I saw some solutions with ducktape… but that seems like the lazy solution. Sewing seems usele…

• How much would you pay for a painted laptop with a matching bag? posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  (no pictures right now) I hand painted a laptop, and it looks awesome. I also made a matching b…

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• (1 vote) HI, if there are any ladies out there able to read this, please help, because..
  

  I mostly like about guys is all those things that girls don’t seem to have. There is a GUY essence. I don’t know how to describe it. I guess some would call it masculinity- and I guess it sort-of is, … Somebody would also go *nudge-wink* Pheramones… (which is true, guys smell fantastic- that that isn’t the point).
  Make sense? No, I didn’t think so.
  
  Mostly, what I want from guys is intimacy. (I know, I’m awful for saying it) I want someone who I can love. I mean, I love people, I love my friends, I love my family, I love my pets. - But the “my other half” kind of love. I have little things that I’d like from a guy: intellegince, sense of humor, being taller than me, etc. But I don’t have a rule about “I’m not going to date a guy who isn’t at least 1.3682 inches taller than me.” (of course, if you are shorter- the chances of having chemistry is kind of slim… I try not to let that influence it- but it is true)
  
  My dream guy is (well, a total dream) Someone who can leave me alone but always be there. Someone who I can tell anything, and they will tell me I’m being an idiot (or yes, that dress does make your butt look big) but will still love and accept me regardless. Someone who is smarter than me, but never makes me feel stupid. Someone who will work out with me, even when they are much more fit than me. Someone who can do romance without the hollywood crap (leave the flowers, chocolates, and diamonds at the stores).
  
  My only ‘rule’ is I have to love-love them. (I swear, I’m going to have to turn down my best friend someday because I loved them, but it wasn’t enough) I’d rather be an old spinster in a mansion with a million cats then to marry someone that wasn’t “the one”.
  
  If I fell in love, I imagine (and since I haven’t- this is only an imagine) that I would drive him insane. Hell, if I’m going to live the rest of my life with him- I’m not going to hold back on my stupid little habits that I hide from others. I am going to show them BEFORE the marriage. He’s going to have to live with them. However, I also believe (from experince) that if it really did bug him, I really would work to change (geniunly, not just hide it like I do from others). I imagine something a lot like “my best friend” sort of relationship.
  
  (Note: I’m nuts, advice, stay way from girls like me… I’m the type of girl that guys whine about being unable to understand.)
  
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by JesusMurphy

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• Hey, I’m really low…
  

  sometimes I just wish I was emotionally/mentally healthy. I get so sick of my constant lows. Ok, well I am going to go. I can’t dwell on being low or else I’ll just get lower. Thank you all for your comments- I really appreciate you.
  - written 2 weeks ago

• Hey, I’m really low…
  

  oh well- I still have good roommates- it would be different if I couldn’t stand the people I live with.
  - written 2 weeks ago

• Hey, I’m really low…
  

  That is a good suggestion- but there really isn’t such a place on campus. I’m not even alone on my own computer- they’re all monitored. ugg- no space of my own. (I used to have an entire floor to myself. My own room, my own bathroom, my own space)
  - written 2 weeks ago

• I hate my freckles how do I get rid of them fast?
  

  I can’t believe that because I love freckles (I don’t have any)
  
  The fastest way to get rid of them is called “foundation” and/or “powerder” and/or “concealer”
  - written 2 weeks ago

• someone asked me “Y do u wanna be a mod”?
  

  to them- ti is a job. Work. They just probably don’t have interest.
  - written 2 weeks ago

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