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• I’m starting a rather unconventional journal that will sport questions (of the unanswerable nature) and words of the wise (Like: Don’t make posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  starting a rather unconventional journal that will sport questions (of the unanswerable nature) and…

• What have you guys learned the most from help.com? posted (1 year, 6 months) ago
  What do you, the members of help.com believe that you have learned from this website? What has i…

• Question for climbers and/or Jurassic Park fans. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Okay in the second Jurassic Park film, after having run away from an onslaught of dinosaurs the fol…

• Giving space? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  - My EX girlfriend and I broke up over 3 months ago, it was rough and for the first month i had a …

• Im wondering how does one get closure upon a breaup? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  If you ready my extremely long first post detailing much of my life story….This relates to m…

• What are some great stocks i should be buying right now? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  looking to hold for 2 monthsish….…

• What are some great ways to trust others once again? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  Through a long story, ive lost ALOT of my trust in people whom were once very close to me…..…

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Sir Urgdu's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) how do i know i’m not wasting my life…?
  

  “The only time we waste is the time we spend thinking we are alone” :)- Mitch Albom
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by Florimouse, dapper

• (1 vote) Should I ask a girl to prom in person or creativly?
  

  I think in person is better, it’s a dance famous because of its tradition, you ought to ask your date in a more traditional manner.
  
  - written 8 months ago – voted for by Codex_of_Wisdom

• (1 vote) do 11th graders go out with 9th graders?
  

  Who cares what people think? If you both have feelings for each other, it’s worth a shot!
  
  - written 9 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by thanksforthehelp

• (1 vote) Why does our society throw away so many good working computers that can still do the same functions as newer computers?
  

  http://www.storyofstuff.com/
  
  Thats a link to a 20 minute long flash movie called the Story of Stuff explaining our production cycle. There’s your answer.
  
  - written 1 year, 6 months ago – voted for by VKei

• (1 vote) Wow where to start…im 25 and I am in an un healthy
  

  God having just listened to about 1000000 lessons on relationship abuse and unhealthy relationships in school, i would advise you to hit the ground running. I would run out of there so fast if you want to break up with him, he has you isolated so you don’t think you can go anywhere else. Or at least thats the vibe im getting, perhaps ask your friends if you need to about breaking up with him.
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by Desert Sand

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• Please, I need your help!
  

  I’m sure his feelings will blow over soon enough. He knows that a relationship would never develop because you’ve told him straight up, so eventually he’ll loose interest in the idea and in you romantically. Just give it due time.
  
  Best of Luck
  
  Sir Urgdu
  - written 14 hours, 16 minutes ago

• I dont know what’s happening to me..
  

  The antidepressants should/would help make your mood more level, you should probably return to your professional help, if not just once or two for some more scientific advice.
  
  Best of Luck
  
  Sir Urgdu
  - written 14 hours, 23 minutes ago

• I keep messing up.
  

  This is a very common problem that is easier than ever to solve. With the onset of texting and instant messaging, it’s a bit easier to be around (well, virtually in this sense)/talk to someone you have feelings for. While texting, make sure to value yourself properly. You don’t want to send the “yes or no” answers you were talking about. The less you talk, the more awkward and disinterested in the conversation you appear. In order to talk to her/be around her more comfortably, tell her your feelings. This does two things. A. It lays her mind to rest in regards to any skepticism she may have over your interest in her. (She may take your freez-ups as disinterest, as you mentioned) and B. May increase the chances of her developing feelings for you.
  
  Best of Luck
  
  Sir Urgdu
  - written 14 hours, 27 minutes ago

• I’m not gonna play games with her…
  

  Leave her in the dust! She sounds like the immature type of girl you should be avoiding. All that matters is that you know you’re right; that you’re not a stalker. You’ll find better girls.
  
  Best of Luck
  
  Sir Urgdu
  - written 14 hours, 38 minutes ago

• MY GIRLFRIEND HAD HER FIRST ORAGASM WITH ANOTHER MAN
  

  There’s no trust left in your relationship and I highly doubt it will return. Neither of you seem committed; I think you should end it.
  
  best of luck
  
  Sir Urgdu
  - written 14 hours, 41 minutes ago

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