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• not real sure if i should get my arm checked. posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  i had a soccer tournament and a couple nights ago i noticed an odd looking bruise on my shoulder. …

• Short song…. posted (6 months, 1 week) ago
  indescision ___________ the voices in my head all tell me no but i realize in my eyes i’ve …

• Song in progress…its a VERY rough beginning about me, my love life, and leaving home posted (6 months, 1 week) ago
  Fade Away ————- what have i done did i make a mistake im asked if im comin…

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• (3 votes) How to get over a broken heart.
  

  There’s never one way to get over it. I know personally that any relationship that ends…good or bad ending…is hard. I’ve been cheated on, lied to, decieved and also just had a relationship just fade into a mutual breakup. Being an extremely passionate and caring person it makes it harder, which it seems like you are the same from how you sound. The only things that I could do were focus on the good things in my life, I know they’re sometimes hard to find. I worked on my drawing, music, and just honestly letting it out in any way that I could. Actually this site would be an amazing way to help you at times. Helping other people sometimes is a great thing to help. Being a therapist sometimes is the best therapy if that makes sense. Eventually something life changing will happen for the better. Positive actions bring positive outcomes. Weather it be a person, or an activity…eventually something will bring away the pains of heartbreak. Friends are also a great help. Men and Women alike are good help. I honestly was helped most by a girl i met that changed my life. She now is my best friend and girlfriend but she began as my friend. You need to find people that will be there for you and will make you smile as much as possible. Its amazing how much a little bit of laughter can change your outlook on life. 6 weeks isn’t a long time…its understandable for you to feel that way.
  
  Best wishes,
  J
  
  - written 6 months, 1 week ago – voted for by seeuseeme, Nensix, Opeth

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• What am i supposed to do about this.
  

  nelson said it all well
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• not real sure if i should get my arm checked.
  

  thanks, that helped a lot
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• not real sure if i should get my arm checked.
  

  well its only been a couple days that its been like this
  
  my hand has fallen asleep a couple times when im sitting or laying down
  mostly when im not moving around
  im not sure if thats what u were asking
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• What am i supposed to do about this.
  

  its a hard thing to do when you are the one being abused
  physically or mentally
  other people can say what should be done more easily but they do not have any feelings involved in this.
  this will be a hard decision, no one can actually tell you what you should do
  we give advice but we can’t truly understand
  i would STRONGLY advise putting a lot of thought into it before you even begin to take action of getting back with him
  its dangerous
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• What am i supposed to do about this.
  

  please dont cry
  ur not crazy
  it is understandable that you feel that way. you love him and the thought of losing him is not something you would like
  it makes sense, but you have to understand it could cause pain for you and your child as well as him
  if you really think you should work it out he needs to get some kind of help to prevent this happening again
  its a dangerous thing for everyone involved
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

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