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• This is not a place I want to be in. posted (18 hours, 32 minutes) ago
  This being my thoughts. I’m tired, I’m quietly angry and I’m not exactly happy. I&…

• WTF is this? posted (1 day, 1 hour) ago
  Convert Sam week? As usual I’ve been spending my time doing not much this week but I took my …

• Not really been coming on here very much recently… although that’s just compared to how much I used to anyway I suppose. posted (4 days, 8 hours) ago
  Had a week away from technology in the Lake District and it rained for the most of it. Spending most…

• Firefox help. posted (4 weeks, 1 day) ago
  Is there some way I can download a patch of some kind to make my Firefox browser able to translate t…

• Wooo drama drama! posted (1 month) ago
  !! Isn’t it odd that the people here are here to HELP? Because it would definitely seem to me …

• What are good self-motivation techniques? posted (1 month) ago
  I have serious problems making myself do things. Mainly going to college, keeping my room tidy, etc…

• Anyone got experience with ROM hacking and could give me a few pointers? posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  Looking for the easiest way to replace sprites in a ROM with minimum fuss. I have sprites in BMP, P…

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Setto's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) To All Cutters.
  

  It never ceases to amaze me how insensitive and frankly dumb you can be sometimes ‘Bacon’.
  
  There will always be those who use things like self harm for attention and to get a feel good ticket out of others, just like there will always be those that use the internet and mocking others for the same thing, you should know much on that subject, ‘Bacon’.
  
  As with anything people do, obviously they all do it for different reasons. You can become addicted to anything. It’s highly unfair to lump ‘cutters’ as people call ‘them’ into a huge stereotype category. It’s not some social club. It’s not like everyone that self harms is some big clan that all have a set of beliefs. Everyone is different. So how massively intelligent are you magical ‘Bacon’ to know anything about any of those people? Oh, wait, you don’t know anything about most of the population of this planet.
  
  If you’re unhappy with the amount of people self harming in the world, why not try and help. Whatever reason people do it for, stuff like this stupid post is either
  1. Giving them attention like they want.
  2. Going to really ******* upset the people with genuine problems.
  3. Make people more ashamed of themselves which I’m sure won’t help them.
  
  Have you ever known anyone who has hated their appearance/personality so much that they’ve wanted to harm themselves as much as they can? It’s a horrible place for them to be in. It’s not funny, it’s not a light issue, and it’s not appreciated by many when people talk crap about it.
  
  I’m not saying I know why you made this odd post at all. Or that you shouldn’t speak your mind. But maybe you should have some courtesy and consideration? This is the internet ‘Bacon’, but the people on the other end are still real people and words are still powerful things when used in certain ways.
  
  The people who do it for attention have, in my opinion, serious problems as well that need to be addressed. It’s part of a larger thing in my eyes, the fact that the youth of the human race are getting more self-destructive every generation.
  
  Also I think a lot of popular culture does not help the situation at all. People don’t like to hear this argument but it’s a fact that most of the ‘emo’ (sorry to use such a stupid word) music/culture out there is not exactly cheery. It promotes the idea of focusing on hatred, sorrow and negative thought/feeling. It makes kids think that that’s what it’s all about.
  
  Whatever, anyway, that’s my opinion in brief. But I would say that ‘Bacon’, I think you need to be more considerate in your choice of words, especially if this is how you talk all over the internet.
  
  - written 21 hours, 44 minutes ago – voted for by ♥Rαvεr♥

• (1 vote) I feel weak, and that makes me very angry.
  

  Sorry if I repeat anything as I have not read the entire load of replies here, just a big chunk of it.
  Dude, this doesn’t sound like you at all, or at least it doesn’t sound like you usually do when I’ve spoken to you online. It’s easy to slip into the role of a pissed off and dangerous person but it doesn’t get anybody very far. I know have not really spoken to you in a while, so I don’t really know much of what is going on. What I do know is you are one of the people that knows when something that is happening is wrong and you have the brains to think up a solution.
  All this anger/hatred or whatever, isn’t you at all. Aggression is sort of like a very big circle, in my opinion, and it’ll just keep coming back to you unless you can find a way to stop, relax and work it out. As far as the negative feelings making you ‘better’ at fighting goes, I guess that depends greatly on your definition of the word ‘better’.
  See I’m stuck in a situation here because I really would like to say something that can really help, but I don’t really know the answer to your problem and I’m not just going to give some advice and hope it’s correct. I used to get little episodes where I’d let negative feeling be the driving force behind my actions, mainly in graffiti when I had some disagreements with certain people. But the thing is, it made me behave in a way that was not as smart, not as rational, not as effective (in the long run) and not as I would actually want myself to.
  As far as ****** friends go, some people are just not reliable as friends. Everyone comes across a time when they feel like all their friends have just left them behind, but maybe it’s a good opportunity to make new friends or something like that? Or who knows, maybe not, it’s up to you really in the long run. Things you want won’t often happen unless you help them to.
  I’d say get some smoke, chill out one night and try to write down a list of everything that really gets you angry right now. Then read through the list a few times. And then think about it, like REALLY think about it, and consider how many of those things are actually worth getting so angry about. You’re a person with potential in different areas, don’t waste your time being annoyed with things that don’t matter.
  Well, I don’t really know if that’ll help at all, but I hope it does.
  Peace.
  
  - written 3 days, 2 hours ago – voted for by sansceriph

• (1 vote) EARTHBORN ANGELS
  

  All your base are belong to god.
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by Michael Leibman

• (1 vote) anonymously
  

  Oh and once something has been posted anonymously it cannot be changed to say who posted it.
  
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago – voted for by jessica33313

• (1 vote) does anybody know where i can go to get my name in graffiti?
  

  a href=”http://photobucket.com” target=”_blank”> img src=”http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a226/Samdnb/02052008.jpg” border=”0″ alt=”Photobucket”> /a>
  i apologize for the poor photo quality lol, my scanner is broken.
  
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by helenwwf2

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• WTF is this?
  

  :D
  - written 17 hours, 34 minutes ago

• To All Cutters.
  

  I should have just recognized that it was no different to the countless other debates on this topic and kept out of it.
  - written 20 hours, 5 minutes ago

• To All Cutters.
  

  I’m getting tired of this. It’s getting to the point in the debate where people are digressing and grasping at straws and the learning/realizations that were going to occur have already done so. I’m out.
  - written 20 hours, 7 minutes ago

• To All Cutters.
  

  If you can’t understand things without experiencing them then History teaching is useless. Then factual accounts are useless.
  - written 20 hours, 30 minutes ago

• To All Cutters.
  

  When have you ever been anywhere that you have literally been allowed to say anything you wanted? If I were to stand in the street and shout for hours:
  “Allah will cleanse the Earth, death to white America” (which is not in any way my opinion)
  in this country or the US, I’m sure I would have some repercussions, and there are laws against saying certain things (hate crimes etc).
  
  However this is sort of off topic (although that is debatable too)
  - written 20 hours, 31 minutes ago

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