Tictactomm's shout trail with BrighterBlessing - Help.com

No pressure, I just missed reading some of your comments.

Thanks, you too. I need to rest for a while but I will try to get back on her in the next week. I have a lot of invites. I think it has been weeks since I have been here.

I am. Stay healthy sister.

Hey bro! I haven’t been on much at all lately. I got very sick and since I can’t afford medical care, I just had to pretty much rest these last few weeks and wait for my body to remember how to heal. I am finally feeling a little better, but taking it day by day. I am now behind in everything so it will take a long time catching up. Hope you are doing well!

Hi Numby. Haven’t chatted in a while. Things with your brother settle down a little now?

I guess I think someone is a bully when they start calling people names. Especially when the forum is a place where people come for help. I normally would have helped on his post, I worked in Human Resources for 8 years but I did not want to risk more snippy comments or get called a name. I think some times when people are in a great deal of pain they turn into bullies if they don’t deal with their problems. Just me I guess that feels that way. Have a great weekend and see you on the board!

Thanks kneady. I don’t know if he was a bully, he just got defensive quickly. Might be a problem with his work too!

Hey, I just came across a post for help from your old buddy - remember the bully? He needs help now and while I worked in human resources for 8 years, I figure why offer help because it will just be some smart crack or more name calling. It made me think of you though, maybe you want to check it out because it does explain a few things. Have a great evening! Diane

Cheers kneady! Maturity really comes through. Ignoring the name calling and slagging and forcing people to stick to the post is a never ending battle. I really appreciate your thoughful replies.

You do not deserve to be called names and I just went on a rant from seeing that happened with the guy hiding behind the ghost. Some people only feel better about themselves if they think they can get others down. He needs help.

Good for you Kneady. If only the advice we dispense on this site we also live by! Easier said than done, but I’m impressed with how direct you are about it. We may have an obligation to family (I have my own demons with that one), but we absolutely get to pick our own friends, that’s what’s special about friendship. Good luck.

I wanted to say thank you. I’m digesting all the information from my last post and I think you said the one thing I would suggest if I was reading the post myself. “You get to pick your friends so why pick one who’d beat the crap out of you”. You are absolutely right. You reminded me of something I used to do, what put myself on the other side - if someone asked me for advice, what would I tell them.