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Sorry not spying but I am subscribed to the Yourabi post, did you willingly give it away (like did you trust these people that you gave it to)

Insha Allah!!

“AZADI MUBARAK HO”

Kya Azadi? Her Waqt Pakistan mein Ronaqein hi lagi rehtee hain. Kal LHR mein Suicide Bomb Attack hua. Yeh hai humari Azadi. sh1t!!

Pakistan Zindabad
Pakistan Se Zinda Bhaag

I hope you didnt mind. I just wanted to share this with someone :)

Well, how are you? How are you feeling now?

yeah, kinda sorta

I’ll email you an answer.

My heart goes out to you PomPom. Email or shout me.

*Hugs* you’re a nice person and I hope your thing gets sorted so you smile again

no change, hubby is stil being an asswipe.. i got some hisaab done and apparently there was jadoo done on us again but i am getting sick of the whole thing now…

Just try!! Let me know huh..

Hello! How are you? How are you feeling now? You never tell me anything. Hows your life? Any change????

Thanks for the compliment. Sorry I was on vacation when you shouted me.. just got back from a cruise to Alaska, which was incredible.

And the book was a gift.

It is.. But the better person is the one that stands and smiles ater all the world falls down around you… So lesson of the day, keep smiling.

Hey, your icon is a moogle; right on!!!

PomPom, I was very disappointed to read your comment on the post about the death of JibberJabber. I appreciate you were just being honest about your experiences of JobberJabber (and I believe you), but that was not the time nor the place to express that opinion.

It was grossly insensitive to her mother who had only lost her daughter that day and came to this site to hear good things about her, and share memories with her friends.

I know you will learn a valuable lesson from this. Expressly, that whilst it is good to give an honest opinion, you also need to know when NOT to express that opinion.

Best wishes.

have information about urdu — just like help.com has information about help

For example, I could set up:

- learn.urdu.in/England
- speak.urdu.in/England
- chat.urdu.in/England

then you could manage those websites, offer information and earn money on advertising.

Or you could earn money in thousands of other ways….

But if you’re not interested in earning money, then never mind ( it’s just an offer :)

check out http://urdu.in — it’s one of my sites ;D

what Language is?

would he maybe consider writing a blog about life as a taxi driver? working conditions? stuff like that? or maybe a blog describing “cool products” for taxi drivers? …?

is that an *exclusive* agreement, or can he also work *independantly*?

I want to help people reach their goals :)

I don’t get it — you don’t *WANT* help?

You’re here saying you can hardly live on what you have and then you say you don’t want any help?!?

That plain and simple doesn’t make any sense.

I can help to promote almost *anything* under the sky, but if you don’t want me to help — then I have to wonder: why do say life is difficult?

I could promote your husbands taxi service — maybe also as a “limo” service (?) You can send me an email and I can set up something super-quick :)

PomPom, please tell me about the taxi service — I’m pretty sure I could help you out :)

ya later it is..IM tries to crash my firewall. I do work for very private firms and have to be careful of my pc. Help site doesn’t seem to bother it.

msn crashes my computer and it’s new. thats why I use shouts. I use aol sometimes.

47:) and no msn..screws my computer and I use it for my work.

Ya they seem to be stronger and harder to get rid of. If it doesn’t get better it could be something like strep throat maybe? You’ll have to see a doctor. We had a virus here that took 4 weeks to lose, but the third week you should see some improvement. I call it bung a bung ga flu.lol

How you doing now?

ZOMG A MOOGLE!!!1

I’m sorry…I guess I’m a pretty rotten friend…somethings I just don’t follow well..even if I try…but I will google!!

Government spraying stuff?

I believe that there are serious dangers to our privacy, but that no unified conspiracy theory is really true. We only see glimpses of truth, so it makes sense to me that we only see glimpses of real deceit or evil. Just as people fill in the gaps of their understanding of truth, and start a religion, so too people fill in the gaps of known evil with fear of possible evils, and start conspiracy theories. I myself was on the paranoia track for many years. When you read the novel you may understand.

The power to change the world is in small things.

Hey Pom! Glad to see you online. How are you? Hope you’ve completely recovered from the flu you had.

Good, I hope you enjoy it, just keep in mind that writing it was my way of dealing with several years of believing in conspiracy theories, that I no longer believe in.

hahahahaha… i would love that…. i do have msn messenger… lil_bit_shie @ hotmail . com is the contact info that you need to put in for contact… just take the spaces out..lol… i have it on always… just let me know who you are when you add me.. because i deny people i dont know… love shie..

about the revenge?? do you mean the birthcontrol pill statement…

hell yeah.. im a very nice person.. i have a heart of gold… and am willing to help another before i help myself… thats just who i am.. i have been through sooooo much in my life… that i really hate when someone takes advantage of me.. or be littles me in anyway… so i seek revenge..
its a part of my life that i hate.. but i feel that i treat everyone with respect and when they disrespect me… i have a problem with wanting to get them back.. i believe and i have taught my children… the old rule… treat others the way that you want to be treated… and if someone is going to treat me like crap… im going to get them back… im not sure if its a sick satisfaction about my life.. or if it really has to do with my past… but i believe an eye for an eye… i no longer sit back being treated like crap like i use to put up with… now.. i fight back and let them have it when they treat me like crap.. because i do not deserve it..

so.. when i get revenge.. i always tell everyone.. it may be a week, a month or even a couple of years.. but the power of revenge that i have for them will come… so dont ever think that they have won…

and again.. i hate that side of myself.. but seriously… im just tired of having people take advantage of me.. and treating me like crap.. and sometimes.. karma just isnt fast enough for me… lol.. so i help it out..

Ya that’s about the same with me. Something silly and it becomes the most popular post. I read between the lines most times and remember the sources of advice are just normal people. Some are young, troubled or confused, but if you don’t let the crap bug you sometimes you can formulate a direction or new idea. We all have issues and most of them are basically the same other than some here having really serious ones. The number one issue in the world seems to be worry. I live in a small town and out grew it years ago. I stay because I’m selfish for it’s safety and fun. That’s not a bad thing, but my friends have moved away and sometimes I feel stupid for not following. I made my bed and I’ll lie in it. I’m building a third generation thing here and I have made the commitment to sacrifice my wealth for my children’s stability. Here’s a tip I use to cope. I have a couple of private things I don’t share. They are mine and non-negotiable. The mornings are private and I have a bank account solely in my name for mad money. I never ask permission to do something for me; trip, fishing or meeting with friends. I never go for a walk with a complainer. I try not to trade insults. Plus I get up every day with a smile and avoid the ones that don’t. They try to make me feel guilty, but I smile and go on. As a family we are suppose to be as one and sometimes we have to decide who takes care of what. Bills or money can be a joint venture or single if that’s all that’s available, but never would I ever keep a score card. My lawyer would do that and I hope he’s never employed. My main job is to make our lives better. Sometimes we make not work together, but that’s life. I understand what I’m capable of and try not to be lazy and fall into a rut. There is a lot of things I don’t agree with, but call it “cost of doing business” and move on to the next task. Men like a place they can hide or someone they can count on without being judged. We go to war everyday to fight for money, business or just to be the best. We display fear in the form of anger. When my wife is doing something that may harm her, I get mad, but it’s not madness. It’s fear that she be hurt. If I didn’t care then she would have a problem. If we become cling on’s all the time, then we cheat ourselves because we don’t share the same likes 100% of the time. I catch myself sounding like my parents and my ego makes me stupid sometimes. I know the secret. Most men will do anything for fun, money or success. Most women will do anything for a good relationship, happiness and someone they can trust. I believe women are smarter, but have more feelings then men. If you find your special project or task, stand firm that it is yours. If you don’t succeed with it, we as men don’t really care as long as it makes you happy. That’s why I expressed part time real estate. We can build homes, but only a women understands one:) Take care and shout me if you need too:)
Sorry the reply is so long.

Hm. Do you know who linked you to it? I could extrapolate.

Lol, I’m kind of curious, now. Which post?

Lol, who told you that? I could probably link you to whichever post made them think that.

People are jealous, and so they choose to only notice the faults of their betters. As we’re all human, and thus imperfect, there are always a few fault for them to exploit.

ok max_needs talks a lot hehe lol ^_^…
well i read that little thing under ur avatart that says that everybody is out for themselves , and i do agree… most ppl are are for only themsleves and stuff but there are this little few ppl out there who really care about others as themselves , but they are very few so my advise to you once you see one dont let them go easily… i hope you are having a nice day , take care of urself and i hope everything is ok with ya , bye ^_^
~Serge

Well Pommy I have gone back and read almost all your posts and replies. My opinion is that you are very, very intelligent, kind and unselfish. You have a thirst for knowledge , plus a passion to help. Watching somebody hurt themselves or being stupid and not helping frustrates you. It’s not logical to you…lol me too sometimes. Doctors are very smart, but can’t write worth a shit. They have people do it for them while they do their jobs:) Grammar isn’t that important to me…it’s the tone, feelings and information I look for. I’ve called on you in the past for help with members and you have blown me away with your responses:) One time you told this young girl to tell her abusive boy friend to “piss off”. It helped and I still remember that great advice. I think I used that term for a week. I enjoyed it so much I wanted to tell strangers to piss off..lol. We all struggle with basically the same issues, just different places or times. It changes as we do. We ask the same stuff they did hundreds of years ago. We are better, healthier and live longer. Here is a truth for you; negative issues get more attention then positive one do. A person can produce thousands of good deeds and only one bad one can land them in the shitter..lol..ask Bill Clinton..ha ha. He should have stayed with blowing his own horn..ha ha.
I have a cool story about a guy I worked with. He was a cop (Very tough cop!) and was involved in a bad motorcycle accident. His brain was damaged and he had to change careers. I was in charge of retraining him for a career with the public. When you asked him a question it took 3-4 seconds for him to respond because of his injury. It was cool because everything he said was planned, but the down side was nobody had the patience to wait..lol. He found his niche in writing, while my niche is in public speaking. I always wanted to be similar to him. It pisses my in laws off because I’ll wait 3-4 seconds and walk away! I’m allowed to. If they are asking something or telling me something to piss me off, I smile and try not to buy into it. It’s hard if you are trapped and have no money to take off for a while. A friend of mine sells property part time to get away. Another friend of mine delivers meals to shut-ins for a getaway. The more new people you meet and have fun with the better you’ll be and the more jealous they’ll be. Your husbands issues belong to him. Once you get out more and leave the world issues to world leaders and family issues to the family and start having fun you will encounter new challenges. They will become more curious, fearful, jealous and outright stupid at times. Remember this are their issues. The moment you acknowledge or respond, you have just bought in. Don’t buy in. Be a little selfish. Unfortunately some people let fear motivate them in sucking out someones power to try and belittle them. They believe if they control them, it will prevent them from leaving. That is hell and wrong. They lack things you can’t give. They call them coping tools. Their problem. You can only say trust me and go about the business of you. If you manage you, they will follow or resist. If they are family their resistance is their problem. When you get back from what you are doing they’ll be there. It takes more time to fix issues then it does to screw them up…lol. You can only depend on you. We all would like to have the easy way, but no pain no gain. If your husband is the major income, then his revenue goes to provide the major expenses. It would be nice to have your own resources to spend on yourself..mad money..you time..spa time etc..Girl stuff. Gotta go for now..Check on you later Pommy:)

Ya I hear that. Glad to hear your just pissed:) The posts or posters can do that for sure. I’m trying to spend more time outside living and barbecuing when I get the chance. What do you need help with my friend?

Hey Pom Pom how you doing? Haven’t seen you and I’m worried:(

PomPom I’m sorry you didn’t get the help you needed and I would like to start over again and I’m also sorry we got into this discussion because I know this is not the place for it. What I need to do is look beyond what people believe and see them as people please accept my apology. The 2 hardest topics to discuss are politics and religion. We both come from very different places and beliefs I concure with the others pleasse don’t go.

I don’t know if you will see it or not, but I made my email available to you to see.

I really am sorry to see you go!

Pompom,im troubled by your leaving,confide in me if you like,am i to understand you and not,what gives if one takes,dont go,i will miss you,please reconsider,i would be more than happy to share some friendship with you k!peace get back to me soon♥your friend ,akithma,i shall allow you to see my email.so write me there anytime you like ,your one person i was looking foward to getting to know,and ive been meaning to get on it ,but ive been so busy the last few weeks ive hardly had time for noone,sorry please open up and talk to me please!

PomPom just a little background that may explain some stuff also. I live in the USA and on 9/11 my life and the lives of my family were forever changed by the actions of some fundamentalist islamics under the direction of Osama Ben Laddin and claiming the Quran as their guide. These godless and blinded individuals flew jets into the twin towers and attacked our sovereign God fearing nation killing thousands of innocent people all in the name of Mohammad and the Quran. Now our brave men and women have been fighting a war in Iraq and Afaganistan and seek to bring this terrible person to justice named Osama who in the name of his god murdered innocent lives and changed the course of my great country forever.

Now I don’t believe all people who follow the Quran are terrorists but you need to know I want to know as much about these things to help me to heal from my wounds of 9/11 and help me love and not hate. God will judge those that committed these horrible acts I’m confident of this.