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• Oh life there must be more posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6B_d9RwfDf0 I used to relate this song at such a deep level. I use…

• To this day project posted (2 months, 4 weeks) ago
  A must watch http://tothisdayproject.com…

• No matter how great the desire is to please another, let it be no greater than the desire to be yourself. posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  Otherwise ain’t no one happy. The Universe…

• Struggles with life really begin in our own minds. posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  The mind is an incredibly creative gift, but if we do not stay centered and mindful of our thoughts,…

• Over It posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  By Eve Ensler I am over rape. I am over rape culture, rape mentality, rape pages on Facebook. I a…

• I need music people! posted (3 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Having a hard time getting myself going today. None of my usual music is doing it for me. What d…

• Does anyone else have this song stuck in their head? posted (4 months) ago
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_miGclPFGs&feature=player_embedded…

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babacup's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (6 votes) Senior Prom was just last night, and I made several mistakes.
  

  Who cares if the girl you danced with was popular or not. You felt like dancing with her and you did.
  
  Your female friend who complained about it is the one with a problem, not you.
  
  And the girl you like, you thought she was with a date, so what else were you suppose to do? It would of been disrespectful of you to dance with her if she was with a date. Next time you talk to her, tell her, I wanted to dance with you at prom but I thought you were with a date and I did not want to disrespect your date by asking you to dance. I think she will appreciate that, not hold it against you.
  
  I do not think you made mistakes. I think you made rationaly choices, so do not look back on this night with any regrets.
  
  I am sure the girl you dance with enjoyed dancing with you and it made it a nice night for her.
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by airibreath, Dragon_Lady, Zirbel, beckyr, adolphhayden1, arroncharming

• (4 votes) I just found out that my sister was molested by my
  

  Sometimes a person can not talk about it. Sometimes they want to talk about it, but they do not know how. Sometimes, they simply are not ready to face it.
  
  I think you should let her you know what happen to her, and that you are sorry that she had to experience that. That you love her and you want to help her deal with it. See is she would like to get some professional help, she is going to need it.
  
  The main things is that she knows you love her and will support her through the pain she is dealing with.
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by Zirbel, *CaraMiaLovesYou*, adolphhayden1, arroncharming

• (3 votes) Prayers for Nextstar
  

  * From Lao-Tzu
  
  If there is to be peace in the world,
  There must be peace in the nations.
  
  If there is to be peace in the nations,
  There must be peace in the cities.
  
  If there is to be peace in the cities,
  There must be peace in between neighbors,
  
  If there is to be peace between neighbors,
  There must be peace in the home.
  
  If there is to be peace in the home,
  There must be peace in the heart.
  
  May the people of Egypt find the peace in their hearts to bring the peace to their nation. May Nextstar and her family walk in peace while their nations moves through this time of transistion.
  
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago – voted for by Aries, ~❤♡❤~, jetmoose

• (2 votes) So turns out I have mommy and daddy issues.
  

  here is a good article about healthy relationships
  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/margaret-paul-phd/relationship-advice_b_2270527.html
  
  My husband and I both come from families that teach us about healthy relationships. My mother was married 4 times and divorced 3. My dad married twice and divorced twice. My husbands father is now on wife #5. His mother was married to her second husband when she passed away. Her second husband is now on wife #4.
  
  My husband and I have been together for 20yrs now. I think what we learned from our families, is what not to do.
  
  I think in order to have a healthy relationship, you have to first be healthy yourself. You need to know yourself, like yourself, and love yourself. You need to be happy on your own without depending on the other person for happiness.
  
  I looked back and see all your post are concerning your dwindling relationship. Sometimes a relationship comes into your life to teach you about yourself. You learn from this relationship. It helps you figure things out, then when the next relationship comes into your life, you are better prepared for it. That is what I think is happening with you right now.
  
  From what I gather from you other post, I think your girlfriend has her own issues to work out and so do you. You can either support each other through this process or like I said above, you take this as a learning experience and move on.
  
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by alatif, Docteur Ralph

• (2 votes) Any one who finds me interesting, lets get married ….
  

  lol
  
  - written 7 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by President Awesome:3

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• We all know ,We have to go from this world one day.Do
  

  I have never really thought about it before, buy my grandmother went in her sleep, and I think that is a nice way to go.
  - written 3 weeks ago

• North korea?
  

  Our friend that now lives with us, served on the boarder line of South and North Korea and he does feel like is all about to come to come to war again. When I heard this on the news:
  
  The U.S. is sending an advanced anti-ballistic missile system to Guam to protect American military sites, officials said Wednesday.
  
  It has prompted a more robust response from the U.S. military, including the deployment of F-22s.
  
  Last week, two B-2 stealth bombers took part in joint exercises with the South Korean military. The bombers, capable of delivering nuclear weapons, flew from Whitman Air Force Base in Missouri, dropped dud bombs on a South Korean range and returned home.
  
  It makes me feel like the US is taking it serious and I do for one do not want you to be there.
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• Which body type do you find most attractive?
  

  41 female
  
  Builtfat man
  
  curvy woman
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• Smoke and mirrors.
  

  Drop the pity party, stop drinking, and be the person you are meant to be. And I do not believe it is all smoke and mirrors. You project who want to be, so get your **** together and be that person.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• Any idea why the auto-update feature works sometimes now?
  

  I have not seen it work since the good ol days
  - written 1 month, 4 weeks ago

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