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I used to have something similar to that. When I would walk past the window on the second floor of the house, I would have a desire/thought to jump. I did not want to kill myself. I really did not want to jump. But I would get this strange desire to. It was during a time I was very depressed but not suicidal. I have seen a few post where people mention something similar.

I am keeping my thoughts positive.

The saying “it takes money to make money” makes me think of tithing. You give in order to receive. When you give out of love to the place that nourishes you spiritually (not necessarily a church), you will also receive. It is the law of attraction. Like attracts like. When you give you receive.

I took a class called Keys to the Kingdom. I wish I had the book in front of me but it is in the garage of my house in Indiana. For the length of the course you were required to give 10% of your time, talents, and your treasure. To where ever you felt called to. I can tell you that money did come into my life during that time. Doors opened and my life did change.

What I am working on now, is feeling comfortable with money. That it is okay to have nice things. It does not make a person bad because they have nice things. The more that money flows into my life, it does not change who I am as a person.

[quote MamaBear {Felicity}][quote Marylou]I love to see my friends smiling. So glad you are feel this good, Babacup. :) :)[/quote]

Me too :D[/quote]
Thanks.

http://amenclinics.com/ac/waystohelp….
Here is the link. I have read his book Change your brain Change your life. I also went to the recording of one of his PBS specials. He is great. He does brain spects that can find damage that CAT and MRI’s cant.

Let me find a link to Dr. Amen for you. What part of her head did she hit.

I loved it, thanks for posting it. And thank you Marylou for the invite.

It made me feel good about myself and where I am in my awakening.

My advise is to keep your life jacket on. Enjoy yourself and as always, I look forward to the pictures.

I was wondering why you took me off your friends list. I will add your new account to my friends list.

You can be happy with out what society considers “successful.” Some people are always seeking happiness thinking they can get it in the future when they have certain things. I am glad you realize happiness is a state of mind and not of having material things. I am not saying having material things is a bad thing. I am just saying it does not make happiness.

Is there anything in particular that has made you have this turnaround?

I just stopped in to see how you are doing. If you get online and one of us are not on, please still leave a response and let us know you are here.

How wonderful to here this from you. I am feeling happy for you.

I have to get off the computer for now.

I have 100% faith that you have the power and the strength to get through this.

Keep coming here and giving us more details of your life so we can help you with ideas on how to help get you mentally healthy.

Something that helps me is being aware of the negative thoughts knowing that they are just thoughts and that does not make them true.

Also being thankful for the things and people in my life. Even if you are unable to feel the emotion of thankfulness right now. Just say it.

I am thankful to have this computer.
I am thankful to have these people from all around the world giving me their love and energy.
I am thankful I have a wife who loves and needs me.
I am thankful to have this body that enables me to communicate with these people.
I am thankful ect …..

Don’t allow negative thoughts in. Block them and continue with saying things to be thankful for.

That is my advise for now. I will keep you in my prayers through out the day. I want to see you here everyday. I do not want to have to worry that you gave up on life. Don’t do that to yourself, your family, or us.

You may have lost his physical being, but he is and always will be part of you. His strength and wisdom and love are still there with you.

You need to grieve, be angry, cry and feel the pain of the lose. But in the mist of it, knowing and appreciating the beauty of what you had and still have will help you through.

You and the girls need to keep talking and crying together. Don’t keep it in or let them hold in the pain. Talking and letting it out will help. And always in the mist of it stop and be thankful for what you had and still have.