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- (2 votes) I want to be in cheerleading soo bad, but my parents dont let me get into dance, or gymnastics, even tryout, because it cost too much.
i was a cheerleader. thats true. splits are self-learned. most of cheerleading is flexibility and learning things yourself. Practice cartwheels, and try roundhouses by yourself. When you feel comfortable, have a cheerleader help you out with backhand springs and you’ll be set. Cheerleading requires a lot of practise and exercise. Just try to make yourself as flexible as possible, and learn how to do the splits both front, and side wise. Once you’ve done all that, you should be set. Coaches are willing to teach and give extra lessons to people who they believe have potential or the willingness to learn. Just try your hardest at becoming flexible and maybe buy or take out books from your library on flexibility and yoga. Remember, its the spirit that counts. Try out, even if you look like a fool, pretend your enjoying yourself and that everythings okay. Enjoy yourself and make sure you connect with the rest of the girls trying out. Half the battle is compatibility with the other girls. Coaches want a team that works well together. Good luck and keep trying! Remember that it doesn’t take money to get this one, just practise!
- written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by chaser, ¡Nellie.Skywalker! - (1 vote) I think I am crazy.
Im really sorry your going through this. The numbness is a stage, the first stage, after rape. You need to get out of your living situation. Go live with family, friends, at a shelter, or ask to be moved dorms/apartments. Your putting yourself in a lot of danger by having him around so often. Even if you choose not to call the police, you have to keep yourself safe. Find a safe living situation, talk to someone about your feelings. Confiding in a counsellor if your in school (any level of education) is free of charge and is confidential. If your not in school, there are local rape crisis centres which will offer you someone to talk to, for a minimum rate if charged at all. Its essential you know that everyone deals with situations differently. This is completely okay, and is a factor of life. It used to drive me crazy that I couldn’t blame the guy who raped me. What im saying is that sometimes your feelings don’t act like what youd expect, and thats okay. Eventually you learn to get through it. The rape will affect every relationship from now on, but the pain (emotional and physical) will numb and it will help you become a stronger person.
- written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by An²a - (1 vote) i had a discection today on a cow heart and my friend took a chunk home to barbeque
i wouldn’t reccomend it. just because the meat is fresh, doesn’t mean that the tools used in the disection are preservative free. Cross-contamination could cause some pretty bad illnesses. As well, the meat has likely not been kept at the proper temperature for the day, which can make it toxic.
- written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by An²a - (1 vote) i want to throw up- but it wont work.
Don’t start it. When you begin throwing up, you’ll want to continue because it gives you power and control over your weight, over the food you consume, over anything. Your teeth will be terrible, your breath will stink, and it gets to the point where its hard to breathe because your stomach acid will have burned your esophagus for so long. You’ll find yourself lying to everyone you always promised to remain truthful too. It isn’t worth it to begin because its a never-ending cycle of excuses and rationalization, until you’ve gotten yourself too far, where you can’t go back. Don’t purposefully throw up, and don’t learn to, or you’ll find yourself using it. Its natural for throwing up to not work, and theres a reason it doesn’t. Its extremely bad for your body and something no one should learn to do.
- written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by MittensInSummertime