hmmm… I don’t know… but I did recommend you as a worthy person to know (if you scroll down this shout trail a page or so, you’ll see my recommendation with an underlined link)
I’m okay today. About to go do some things. I kept considering replying to your advisings on your relationship advice column — and kept deciding that as confused as I am by what I’ve gone through, that would be asking way too much. But I appreciated your first replies, thanks.