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• I have been with my bf for 3 1/2 yrs. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  We moved in together 1 year ago. I have two kids, 17 and 13. He does not have children. We have be…

• Does anyone have ideas on “Lost” I hate to say it but I am wildly addicted to a mainstream show! posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
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• (1 vote) Work!
  

  Passion, I have read some of your posts and feel like I should say that you seem gifted in the area of poetry and love. I hope you persue that genre. Maybe if you are passionate about your work you will suceed in obtaining employment.
  
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago – voted for by [{Sweet ;; Kisses}]

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• He said i love you to another girl.
  

  I agree you must value yourself. If the people around you do not value you and act disrespectful, you must make a stand. You are the only self you have, do not let anyone make you feel unimportant or insignifigant. Love yourself and know you are loveable, no matter what you’ve been through, love yourself. You are really all you have when it comes down to it. Try putting yourself out of the equation. If it was your little sister or best friend, what would your advise be? You must believe that you are loveable to be loved. If not losers with keep popping up in your life to try to bring you down.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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  If those mean people hadn’t have written on your post and upset you…I would never have gotten to heard from such an expressive person. So I thatnk those mean little nasties for letting me hear your point of view :)
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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  Jinx, it would be nice if we had shock collars around every one neck so everytime they say something mean you could push a button and ‘zap’ they’d get a shock and start to alter their behavior. (I am working on these for my teenagers,joking)
  The truth is without dark there is no light. If you take two rocks and hit them together sometimes you get sparks. The world is set up this way for a reason. Love it, it is all we have.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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  I would wonder why your post comes off so haughty? It seems to me most people are here to help. I also agree that every one is different and we should keep our minds open to all points of view. You never know what will flick the light on for some people. A comment may seem harsh to one but helpful to another. For the people that are just down right mean to others…they drop off and they will get what they deserve. I appreciate your concern for others just remeber…everyone is different.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• I got a husband that lie about every thing i am 30
  

  Oh Boy, it sound like you are having to raise another child. It may be a tough decision but if he cannot act like an adult he may not be ready for the relationship he’s in. I would also wonder about drug and/or alcohol use. People with addictions often have a hard time sticking to the truth. There are many low cost couselors to be had. If he wants help, start looking into that. The community health centers often have a list of providers. But enough about him…Why do you put up with his behavior? This may seem like a silly question but if you look into it deeply you may find the best answer for you is to focus on yourself. You have 4 kids that love you and need you healthy so that when they grow up, they know that they are worthy of real true love. Good luck:)
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

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