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• so in my boyfriends past he took naked pics of a girl and 10 months into our realtionship decides to tell me the truth….now what i am very very hurt posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  in my boyfriends past he took naked pics of a girl and 10 months into our realtionship decides to t…

• so my boyfriend b4 he got with me was the other boy…he told this girl that he was in love with her and that she was the one and he would never move posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  my boyfriend b4 he got with me was the other boy…he told this girl that he was in love with h…

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• I’m sorry, but the user ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ has closed this post, for further inquiry leave a shout for ..
  

  how did you wake up once your gone (well me i gues) you dont wake up till later the next day
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• so my boyfriend b4 he got with me was the other boy…he
  

  [quote Farah]Crikey, there is a hidden dilemma here.
  
  Given the facts, there’s no question that you should give him an ultimatum and dump him if he goes back on his word. All or nothing should be what you ask for, plus no contact with her (being as you both know how she feels about him). This is as a minimum. And you’re going to need to stick to it if you value your self-respect. However, if/ when you do:
  
  …it is quite possible that he will get back with her.
  
  Your dilemma will therefore be: Why is he back with her? Is it because:
  
  a) He had every intention of dumping you and getting with her anyway, or
  b) You dumped him and therefore he had nowhere else to go.
  
  Now this predicament is very hard to bear. I’ve had friends go through this and be near breaking-point as a result. You’ll automatically keep blaming yourself for splitting up with him. And you’ll miss him, cry for him and feel really silly for letting him go.
  
  What you need to remember is this: No guy is going to easily settle for second best. In this situation, whoever wins was going to win in the long run anyway. It basically returns his freedom to him and his own free will to make a judgment of his own accord between the two of you. If you let him go and he comes back to you, he was sincere and loved you all along. However, if he doesn’t come back and instead gets back with her or goes to a 3rd or 4th girl, he never completely loved you, was going to hurt you in the longer run, so better you retained your self-respect and got out of there before being dumped.
  
  There’s my opinion anyway.
  
  I pray that your situation eases and wish you the very best of luck,
  
  Farah :)[/quote]
  thank you o much your quote has been the most meanigful to me
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• does everyone feel suspician about their love as being fake or that their partner is cheating, lieing, or in love with someone else.
  

  everyday
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• Hi,my name is dennis,26 male from tanzania.im looking
  

  you for real?
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• i love this girl whos in a relationship but dont know how to tell her or even if i should.
  

  she is in a realtionship
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

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