awwwwwwwwwww bless you *huuuggggggsssssssssss* You’re awesoomw! what are you up to these days? some of the oldies hand out here http://tinychat.com/newoldhelpchat but come in with your help name or they’ll asume you’re mera :P xxxx
i just realized that i may have said something that could be misinterpreted easily. what i meant to say: of course, but i don’t feel like it would be appropriate displaying my facebook link on this website, so i’ll send it to your through aim, or just ask alphaknight if that’s any easier. additionally, i have my email opened.
yeah, i tend to gravitate toward the shy ones too, and then paradoxically i’ll be incredibly social around just them. *shrug* heh, socializing should be easier, but it’s not. c’est la vie, i suppose. the important thing, from what i understand (very little), is to find your self-confidence first. everything else should fall into place after that.
-just read your post-
i understand, i’m reserved and shy too, and honestly most people i’ve talked to have said that it’s these qualities that make me a bit unapproachable. i’ve known some extraordinarily pretty girls that haven’t landed a date yet; i feel like shyness often gets misunderstood.
people pick up on these kind of “woe is me” vibes though, and it instantly becomes a turn off for a lot of potential boyfriends/girlfriends. perhaps work on being comfortable about yourself when you’re by yourself; it’ll work wonders for you.
How funny, I forgot I even left that shout, 23 hours was so long ago. But here you go http://help.com/post/429724-here-are-… — she’s just a funny and smart person so maybe it’ll help a person (you) be happy! :)
all the best…
Well, what could I do? I’m not just gonna leave someone who needs help(:
That sounds fine — sorry if you thought I was being too forward by giving you my email; I couldn’t think of another easy way to get in contact. But this shoutbox thing is okay (:
I like smileys too! (;
I’ve read your recent posts from the last month or so. I’ve also seen some of the replies you’ve given to people, about self-harm and other stuff.
Ok, well, I’m fifteen and live in England. I’m in my last year at high school, and want to get a job in the media/music industry, because I love photography, promotion, ect.
I used to do loads of horse-riding but I lost all of my confidence after a really horrible fall.
I don’t want to go into more personal things here; because I don’t want anyone but you to read it - so I guess we’ll discuss that some other time (:
I have to add that you’re avatar is SOO cute!! I love it. L is amazing.
Thought it was a specific post >_>
a lot of hate posts of all colors and shapes flow through here every day, I don’t like any kind of hate, but I just try not to read them. Haters always gonna hate, that’s just part of the diversity of the world
And for the record, I knew quite a bit about what it’s like before the whole stuff went down the past couple months, I still don’t know everything about it, but the obvious stuff was obvious and I deal with my own kind of prejudice and hate so that was natural enough to start getting used to, it helps that I keep it on the down low, a lot of my family wouldn’t be on my side about it, and even after all is said and done I will never experience quite as much as you have in these respects.
Feeling like one knows everything due to previous experiences with life is a common thing. Arrogance and ignorance come hand in hand a lot.
I guess that’s part of growing up and dealing with life. We all deal with similar things in our lives, it’s how we deal them that makes us who we are
Hi Hi_Sai. Thanks, I appreciate that. And thanks for responding to it too. That post is starting to get cold, almost a day old, but wanted the guy or girl to know that there are people here who still care. I don’t handle as many of the tough posts on here as I used to. Are you a member of Lum btw? Thought you might have joined back when it stated but can’t remember.