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• My skin is so unattractive! posted (1 day, 23 hours) ago
  I have pimples, my skin is discolored, and bumpy all over (and those aren’t pimples!). I ke…

• Do you think that I could unclog my nose if I stuck a Q-tip up in there? posted (2 days, 9 hours) ago
  My nostril has been stuffed up for such a long time and I’m wondering if sticking a Q-tip up…

• I’m proud to be an American! posted (4 days, 11 hours) ago
  :D God Bless America!! My home, sweet home!!!…

• I’m deathly afraid of bugs. posted (6 days, 3 hours) ago
  It’s making life so hard. D: How do I get over my fear?…

• SEX! posted (1 week, 1 day) ago
  !! Okay. Emergency. I can write good romance scenes and my friend thinks she can out-write me in t…

• Medical Help! posted (2 weeks, 1 day) ago
  My throat has been so dry these past few days. One day I woke up and my throat was bone dry and it…

• You know what I hate? posted (2 weeks, 1 day) ago
  I hate it when people think that, because I’m American, I’m automatically a bad person…

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Sai_Pie's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I’m a struggling racist.
  

  Anonymous poster,
  
  I’m going to try to give you the most thorough an honest answer that I can possibly give.
  
  I think before you try and pursue this guy, you need to deal with your race issues.
  
  
  He’s black, you’re white. You said yourself that you “don’t get along with blacks”. You also said that because of your reputation [as a racist] you get into a lot of arguments.
  
  If you’re relationship is based on the two of you fighting for what you believe in, then that’s not a good thing.
  
  
  From what you’ve told us, it seems like he doesn’t fancy you very much.
  
  If you can show that you can handle being around blacks, and even enjoy it sometimes then yes, you should pursue a FRIENDSHIP.
  
  But your physical attraction for him isn’t enough to start a “good” relationship.
  
  If you want to have an emotional connection with him than come to the realization that there is nothing that separates you from a black person othre than your skin color.
  
  You are no better than a black person because you are white. A black person is not less of a human because they are black.
  
  You can dislike a PERSON because you don’t like their personality. But not because of their color.
  
  Don’t you DARE come to the conclusion that you don’t like someone until you get to know them.
  
  Have some common sense. Like Dr. Martin Luther King jr said, “Judge a man not by the color of his skin, but by the contents of his heart”
  
  
  Don’t ever base a relationship with the expectation to have sex. Because then, not only are you racist but you are a slutty, trashy whore.
  
  
  If you feel that a relationship with another race would conflict too much with your ideals then just stick with white people. Stay in you’re little bubble.
  
  
  And also, keep in mind that YOU do not get to decide if you can have a relationship with this boy. HE has the final say. YOU are interested in him, not the other way around.
  
  You can always ask, but there’s no guarantee that he’ll respond.
  
  - written 3 hours, 40 minutes ago – voted for by zoe.s

• (1 vote) I made the comment earlier that I felt people here
  

  Why are you so angry?
  
  Maybe the question you posted was hard to answer.
  
  If you go to my profile and click on my earliest post you’ll see one of the most heartfelt helpful replies.
  
  
  
  Some people don’t know what to say, or are of the stupid teenage breed (I’m the smart kind! :D) and just want to post anything to get people to help them.
  
  
  I think compared to yahoo answers help.com has the most helpful people who are willing to stay with you in your post and get you through things.
  
  
  
  And don’t get so pissy when people say I’m not a therapist. They just want to let you know that there answer isn’t professional and not necessarily the best advice to follow.
  
  For every person who gives helpful answers there are 5 people who don’t. Expect some stupidity.
  
  And if a a post is about a worldly issue i.e. politics, hunger, polygamy, gay marriage etc. then some people will stick to their morals. (Whether or not there are facts against it, a belief is a belief)
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by kim.

• (1 vote) How do I communicate with my 13 year old little sister?
  

  Lol. I used to to that with my sister.
  
  I would be on the computer all day (watching anime to be precise!) just to piss her off.
  
  I say don’t yell. Avoid yelling.
  
  When my sister yelled at me I spent an extra hour or two on the comp to get back at her.
  
  I think the best thing is to sit and watch a couple of anime shows. Joke around. Be sisters! Have fun!
  
  Then when your lil’ sis is comfortable, ask if you could use the computer for a bit and state that you and hre could watch some anime or play some video games together later.
  
  Honestly? She wants to spend time with someone. Preferably you. (That’s what I wanted when I spend 15 hours on th einternet a few summers ago)
  
  All she wants (I think) is to have some nice time with her sister. She wants you to let her know that you love hre and care about what she cares about also.
  
  Then she’ll be able to negotiate the computer usage.
  
  In the end, it really is a sily thing to fight about. On both your parts believe it or not.
  
  
  Good luck!!! And you can TOTALLY trust my advice because this hapenned with me a my big sis only two years ago. (She’s turning 17 in September and will be graduating in ‘09)
  
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by jessica33313

• (1 vote) If you were told you had to lose either your sight or your hearing.
  

  I’d lose sight.
  
  Sounds can be one of the most sad, happy, sexy things in the world. I would hate it if I could never hear someone say “I love you” or whisper in my ear. It would just…kill me.
  
  And besides it would take a lot of the superficial aspects out of my life. I mean today I could have been talking to my soulmate but decided I didn’t like them cause of the way I looked. And that would suck. Besides, I like to hear people talk.
  
  - written 3 months ago – voted for by Puck You, Sai_Pie

• (1 vote) I someone to edit my compare and contrast essay.
  

  Where is the essay? Please post to help.com for help.
  
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by monniee2

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• Is she selfish?
  

  Er…This is a tough one…
  
  Now you’re making me feel bad!!!
  
  
  I don’t like telling the truth to my friends about relationships because they freak out and it’s always when there commentary is the LAST thing I need.
  
  I never get my friends gifts…(Well I make them presents…) because I can’t afford it…
  
  
  BUT!!! If she needs to ask another friends permission to hang out with you guys that is NOT OKAY!
  
  And copying your style is not cool.
  
  Though, she may or may not be able to help being rude. Sometimes people don’t know what’s socially acceptable. (My best friend Anna is so rude and insulting! But it’s not because she’s trying to be mean! It’s just because she’s book smart and dumb in the social world…)
  
  If you feel like the relationship is a waste of time, just drop it. I can see a trend in your times together and that’s not good.
  
  
  Let her be for a while. Let her go. If you REALLY miss her then you’ll know.
  
  But for now, drop her. She’s already forgetting you guys so return the favor.
  - written 3 hours, 27 minutes ago

• I’m a struggling racist.
  

  Anonymous poster,
  
  I’m going to try to give you the most thorough an honest answer that I can possibly give.
  
  I think before you try and pursue this guy, you need to deal with your race issues.
  
  
  He’s black, you’re white. You said yourself that you “don’t get along with blacks”. You also said that because of your reputation [as a racist] you get into a lot of arguments.
  
  If you’re relationship is based on the two of you fighting for what you believe in, then that’s not a good thing.
  
  
  From what you’ve told us, it seems like he doesn’t fancy you very much.
  
  If you can show that you can handle being around blacks, and even enjoy it sometimes then yes, you should pursue a FRIENDSHIP.
  
  But your physical attraction for him isn’t enough to start a “good” relationship.
  
  If you want to have an emotional connection with him than come to the realization that there is nothing that separates you from a black person othre than your skin color.
  
  You are no better than a black person because you are white. A black person is not less of a human because they are black.
  
  You can dislike a PERSON because you don’t like their personality. But not because of their color.
  
  Don’t you DARE come to the conclusion that you don’t like someone until you get to know them.
  
  Have some common sense. Like Dr. Martin Luther King jr said, “Judge a man not by the color of his skin, but by the contents of his heart”
  
  
  Don’t ever base a relationship with the expectation to have sex. Because then, not only are you racist but you are a slutty, trashy whore.
  
  
  If you feel that a relationship with another race would conflict too much with your ideals then just stick with white people. Stay in you’re little bubble.
  
  
  And also, keep in mind that YOU do not get to decide if you can have a relationship with this boy. HE has the final say. YOU are interested in him, not the other way around.
  
  You can always ask, but there’s no guarantee that he’ll respond.
  - written 3 hours, 40 minutes ago

• I’m a struggling racist.
  

  EXCUSE ME?
  - written 4 hours, 4 minutes ago

• I’m a struggling racist.
  

  Ugh I hate those sayings.
  
  First off what you said only applies if Anon poster just wants to f**k him.
  - written 4 hours, 5 minutes ago

• I’m a struggling racist.
  

  She might not let color or rep get in the way but there’s no telling whether or not he’ll do the same.
  - written 4 hours, 8 minutes ago

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