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Well I think it’s awesome that your waiting it shows your trying.
It really depends if you really like the dude, and want more out of the relationship leave hints or something.
Us guys tend to be kind of dumb.
But we can take a hint.
I don’t think you should discuss it because if hes not ready he might get pressured into doing something hes not ready for.
If you let him figure out those hints you give him and he doesn’t respond to them hes not ready. If he does then you know he is.

Well there was this girl named Maizie and this boy named James. They were totally and completely head over heels in love with each other. Everything was going fine they had been dating for about a year and a half. They both had really good jobs having to do with computers. One day Maizie confronted James because he was always out partying with his friends and getting drunk. They got into a really big argument about it and decided to break up. James moved out of her house when she wasn’t there he left a note saying he still loved her and also a picture of them together. Maizie cried when she saw the letter and picture, she still loved him to death, but she wouldn’t put up with him staying out late getting drunk all the time. Later she would move to California because of all the memories in the old house. She lived there always thinking about James for 3 years she did this. One day while working on her computer she knocked it over. The screen went black. She took it to a computer repair shop. The next day she went back by to get it. She went home and turned it on to finish her work when she did the picture of her and James was the desktop background. She felt all the feeling over again. She took it back to the repair shop asking the clerk how he got the picture. He said Oh i’m sorry there was a mix up. Your computer got switched. She soon figured out that it was james computer. She asked for the address and said if she didn’t find him she would lose the love of her life. James then walked in the door and said I still love you to. Anyway it turns out James was in town for a business trip when he spilled coffee on his computer. They took their computers too the same shop. They had the same model. They live happily together.

ok thank you for the help im going to take your advice

no i nvr really said it because i wasnt sure but she said she was falling for me and that she cant get over her old bf and that she scared of getting hurt again and i tried to explain to her im different but i guess she didnt listen. if i did scare her away how can i fix it

idk why she keeps saying yes but she does i love her because she is the coolest girl in the world shes beautiful and smart also oddly enough her name is tiffany

definatly long hair i just think it looks better idk y

well dude ive been in that situation b4 just tell him straight up i like u as a friend and its not going to work between us. cause i thought it was going great when this happened to me i found out the hard way.

peace

hey guyscthanks for the help even though its totally weird i know none of u

i dont want to make her i just need tips on what to do ive never really felt like this before