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That’s really kind of you to say. I do hope to have a future with her, just want the girl back that i fell in love with. Need to feel it properly from her though and get the feeling of regret from her that i feel i deserve if anything is going to work. Can’t see that happening at the moment but if i do get left heartbroken still then time is a healer as everyone keeps telling me.

Thank you for this. You are right on the time limit comment as well because like i mentioned, we only set up home 4 months ago and it was such an effort from both of us. I cant be alone here without her, everything i look at reminds me of her so if she doesnt want me anymore then i need to know so i can get on with my life. Just can’t believe how cruel she is being, its not the girl i know. Thanks again.

Hey there, i guess you no longer need advice on this then? Would really appreciate if you could give me a females opinion on my situation x

Again, thanks so much for what you’ve said. I’ve told my friends what’s happened but not the manner in which she’s been finding other men. Think i’m too ashamed to admit it to them. I do feel that i could have paid her more attention which is why i’m blaming myself and i think she’s finding it easy to use my reason for why she’s done it. I really do want her back though so from my point of view i will do my utmost to make sure it can work again. Just angers me so much that i’m waiting on her, say here with all these horrible thoughts whirling around my head. I will definitely consider everything you’ve said though. Thank you!

All i would say is if u love the guy ur with now but something may happen with this other, then end it first before doing anything. He could end up heartbroke like i have just been 3 days ago. Things would have been so much easier if my girlfriend had told me she didnt want to be with me anymore and then going with somebody else rather then letting me find out she’s slept with someone else. It’s left my life in tatters! x

Your right, just takes hearing that from someone else sometimes. I don’t deserve any of this. Thanks again.

That is so nice what you’ve said. I think due to my character that i’m just far too soft. I know in my head that I have to walk away but my heart is telling me otherwise. My whole world has just been turned upside down and cos we were so close, i just feel myself turning to her for comfort. Truly am grateful for your comments.