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• Hi, posted (3 years, 2 months) ago
  I am in a bit of a ditzy at the moment. About two weeks ago my boyfriend and I had sex, anyway I hav…

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• I know no one here…
  

  Hi,
  
  I’m Amanda, how you going?
  
  You’ll pick up friends as you go!
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• Hey, Im 16 and recently fell in love with a brillant guy… but he had a girlfriend this was about 2 months ago..
  

  Hey,
  
  First off, your 16 and there will be plenty of men that will confuse you in life - I know you must think that this guy is BRILLIANT and the most important thing to you at the moment, and that might be true - but what is a guy that cheats (sorta) behind his girlfriends back. He was seeing you behind her back, who is to say that if you two got together he wouldn’t do that to you?
  
  I know you may say he won’t - but they do, believe me, they do - I can’t say that once a cheater always a cheater is a true statement, but most of the time it is. He seems great and it’s great he wants to keep in contact to see how you are going - if you want to truly get over him, just tell him it has to stop, tell him he has a baby inside of another girl, and it’s his!
  
  It’ll be hard, of course it will be hard, what is life if it doesn’t have any challenges?
  
  Also, another thing, your 16 (as said before) and he has another girlfriend and she is pregnant, do you really want to be pregnant at that age, assuming that you have sex? I know many people that have kids young and love their children to death, but others, believe they throw their life away and a fair share are given up for aboption - I am looking out for you here, it’s a hard decision but whatever you choose, you will get through the pain - it will pass, spend a night with the girls and just cry if that helps, whatever you do, have a long hard think about it!
  
  Hope everything goes well, if you need to talk I am here!
  
  Amanda
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• hey… my name is miranda and im a 15 year old girl who goes to etowah high school in georgia.
  

  Hi,
  
  This must be very hard for you! I can’t exactly say that I know how it really is to have a friend of mine kill themself, but I have had friends that have tried it and didn’t succeed - And as an ex-suicidal teenager myself I know how hard it can be on the people around you.
  
  At this point in time there isn’t a real lot that you can think and feel to make sense to you, but you have to not get yourself so down about it and let it stop you from living YOUR LIFE, and be happy that your still here. Your friend would have had problems that he could not deal with himself and the only way he could think of himself to end it, was to take his own life.
  
  It’s okay cry, and it’s okay to see a councellor and talk to others of his friends about it, if they are willing, take some time out for yourself and think about the GOOD times you have had together - and that you really couldn’t stop him…if he had his mind made up there isn’t much to change that. You should know you were a good friend to him - and you probably say I wouldn’t know - but I do, because he stayed alive this long (didn’t he) so he had you and his other friends to live for. And now he has ended his life, and given you the chance to continue your life without him (live your life as if he is walking with you each day - he would want you to be happy, not so much happy he is gone, but happy his pain is gone)
  
  Time does heal all wounds, and you will be okay, just give it time and speak your feelings aloud or write them down (see a councellor would be a great option too!)
  
  If you need to talk, I’m here, good luck with your journey in life and live on! and be happy :)
  
  Amanda
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• Hi,
  

  Hey thanks alot,
  
  Sorry I haven’t replied much earlier, just been busy with work, we have a town reunion and a whole heap of stuff going on. I work at a motel cleaning and cooking, so it’s been full houses each day, so very tired and very busy.
  
  I actually do have a question: I have realised lately, that I have no hobby :( And I think that is really bad for me - cause when I get home from work I just sleep or something, lol, anyhow I was thinking of going back into crocheting, BUT, thought about going into beads!!!!!!!!
  Beads are fun and stuff - and I’ve been looking around, and when you do necklaces and stuff, just wondering if you can use the jewellery wire that you can buy to make it? Or do you have to use chain? Or how does it all work…I’ve read a couple of articles about beading and stuff, cause I have done some beading here and there - but not too much detail.
  Not sure if you can help with that, cause it sounds really dumb, but I don’t want to be making my necklaces with the wire stuff (tiger tail or whatever it is called)
  
  Thanks heaps for keeping in contact!
  
  Amanda
  - written 3 years, 1 month ago

• Hello, the reason for my visit is simple.
  

  Hi,
  
  The safey of your children is most VERY IMPORTANT.
  
  I understand you don’t want to lose a father for your children - and that’s perfectly understandable - et yourself away from the drinking and him for now.
  
  You can do it, you have people here at Help.com for support to talk to - You could also tell him if he wants to see his children, he should go to an alcoholic Anonymous and get sober up and all that and become sober. If he doesn’t choose to do that, get a restraining order if he tries to contact you or take the children
  
  Amanda
  - written 3 years, 2 months ago

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