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• Happy birthday, Littlenick! posted (4 weeks) ago
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• If you are having technical problems with help.com, here’s who to contact: posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  Administrative Contact: Domain Admin CBS Interactive, Inc. 235 Second S…

• I don’t suppose any of you are on LinkedIn.com are you? posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  I got an invite from a friend to join, so I was wondering what it’s like.…

• Breakthrough in therapy for the annoyingly cheerful. posted (3 months) ago
  [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jd4tugPM83c&feature=PlayList&p=2059FFBAD4A76EE0�…

• Come celebrate Shie’s reunion tonight at the Lum chat party. posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  As many of you know, our friend L’il Bit Shie has finally been able to see her son, one of thr…

• If your cousin is a homose8ual: posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  When you ask for free advice in a forum as open as help.com, you get opinions both rational and irr…

• Thank you, Dani. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Some of you thought when Dani was appointed as a mod that the Mayans had missed the date by a few ye…

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Sans's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (4 votes) What is ‘God’ to you?
  

  [quote Qzzz]Personally, do not try to rationalize my faith. The Bible is the Word of God and take it literally. Never questioning anything. This is not ignorance, as some would say…it is what I believe![/quote]
  You have that right. But as a person of unconventional faith, I believe that faith unexamined is blind trust, that it is willful ignorance. The person who takes another’s absolute declarations as holy, carelessly holds seeds of violence. Any belief worth holding dear, any God worthy of adoration, will not shrink before an inquisitive mind.
  
  - written 11 months ago – voted for by *Dougie*, chunkymove, Xeno Dragon, Mayor

• (4 votes) What do you like about the Help.com profile page?
  

  Just please, DEAR GOD, don’t make it so we can clutter it up like Myspace. The few profiles I have visited there are so saccharine with busy glitz that I had trouble reading them and decided not to make an account.
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc, Fire, Karma Amelia, elysium

• (3 votes) If you are having technical problems with help.com, here’s who to contact:
  

  Invite your friends. Invite your neighbors. Call out the National Guard. Vote with your outbox.
  
  For too long, the administrator(s) for help.com have neglected the site. While it goes further and further downhill technically, desperate people continue to show up here, searching for answers to serious issues, and often looking for a reason not to commit suicide.
  
  To leave this site in such a state of disrepair is unconscionable. If it’s not making money, fine, I understand that. But with a simple, four-letter word like “help”, a word that is both a verb and a noun, with a .com domain, it MUST be financially valuable.
  
  The contact info is at the top of this post. Come on people, email them. Say whatever you will. My message to CBS will be..
  
  Fix help.com or close it and sell it. Leaving it in the hands of volunteers with little power or authority, unattended by a competent admin, is a legal liability to CBS and a disservice to the public.
  
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago – voted for by ♥Rαvєr♥, Korwinn, Zeus' Beard!

• (3 votes) I am having suicidel and homicidel thoughts alout i
  

  [quote younglostlife2]well nobody cares doctors or anyone i tried to get help years ago but know it is far worse i told a hospital doctor i was hearing voices he said its normal and left never suggested help iwas shocked and know i know why i am worthless to help i will never be anybody inportint or anything so why help a worthless person[/quote]
  
  That’s pretty shocking that a doctor would say that, but I guess it happens. So, are you just going to give up on getting psychiatric help because some careless, selfish doctor wouldn’t take the time to guide you in the right direction? Going to give up because some family members or crappy friends didn’t come through for you?
  
  Listen to this. You need to hear this.
  
  You have to find a way to get real, psychiatric help, and you have to make it happen yourself. It’s your life. No one is going to hold your hand or make the appointment for you. You have to care about your life if you want it to change.
  
  Second, yes there are jerks in the world, it’s teaming with them, but there are also good people. Find some.
  
  Third, no human being is worthless. So long as you are breathing there is hope for you.
  
  - written 2 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Hi_Sai, Florie's Gonna Bite , ƒ(x)=healberry³

• (3 votes) I’m not a real part of anyone’s lives online, at most I can just be someone to talk to…
  

  People can conceal their real selves in person or online, but online deception is easier because you can intuit so much from a person’s body language, which isn’t possible in a written format.
  
  In my opinion, Ikari, your online relationships are surface level. High school is a crash course in socialization, and as such it distorts one’s view of how people should interact. Lot’s of kids in school disassociate from others as a defense mechanism.
  
  The internet allows anyone to create an artificial persona, and you have created a cool one. But the lack of authentic connection you feel (IMHO) is because you risk little. People know your sense of humor and intellect, but you don’t reveal your heart.
  
  Others online who reveal their hearts have arguments, get hurt, make up, feel warmth, get close, grow distant, reconnect. In order to gain much, you have to risk much.
  
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Pepper Jelly, Marylou, Nante

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• Black Water
  

  Great song, Ikari. Sometimes I’m amazed that you’re into this stuff.
  - written 3 days, 7 hours ago

• My dad almost killed me!
  

  Hm, let’s see. Your life is in mortal danger so you post on a website hoping that strangers in other cities will tell you to DIAL 9-1-1. Even kids in elementary school know to do that. Or is this post for dramatic effect?
  - written 3 days, 8 hours ago

• Hey so i wonder if annyone here currently is or has been on an IB league school,
  

  I think you may be talking about an “Ivy League” school, meaning Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Brown and such.
  - written 3 days, 8 hours ago

• Simple question, asking for a simple answer.
  

  If you love him and are in a relationship with him, yes.
  If not, no.
  - written 1 week, 1 day ago

• Help my father stop drinking!
  

  Maybe if you let him know that his personality changes and gets nasty when he’s drunk, he’ll think about it. But tell him when he’s sober.
  - written 1 week, 1 day ago

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