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• Okay, has anyone here ever had a very serious DRUG addiction. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Or alcohol addiction but to the point that it physically hurts when you do not get the drug? If so, …

• How many times a week would a person have to be sick yo be considered bulimic? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Also, should you get sick maybe 8 times a week is that really so unhealthy? It is not a large numbe…

• Posts? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Why do so many people ask for advice etc… and just never reply to what we are saying? Surely…

• Emptniess. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  You try so hard to make things work and at the end of the day it all just falls apart and you are le…

• This is not a question, it is a statement. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Life is a gift and it is not supposed to be an easy ride. The entire point of having a fulfulling, h…

• How do you get a person to realise that life is not always going to be terrible and it is worth living? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  Especially considering that the person is not even twenty yet? They have their whole lives ahead of…

• Cheating? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  If you have cheated on your partner before and they forgave you, did you do it again. I just want t…

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BurntUmber's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

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  Hay Sam - i am late as usual. This life that we are literally pushed into is not an easy ride. It never will be. The more time that you spend looking around you, but really looking around you - the worse you are going to feel. People are cruel and heartless and are only looking out for themselves. The statisics prove this 100%. We mame and rape and destroy and pilvage everything that comes our way and do not give it a second thought. Sorrow - pain are really emotions that I believe the majorIty of us live with each-day.
  I do not believe or WILL not believe that this is what our eternities are going to be like, I believe we are all here for a reason and left to our own devices for the time being. Not forever!!
  The people that you love and who love you Sam are all that you really ever have in this world. You are right about this site and words - they cannot always fix everything, but look at it this way - there are so many people with kind hearts and goodwill here everyday. That must give some hope??
  You are great and kind and open - keep it that way. Do not let all the slimy people out there with hearts of black ash win this fight. Keep love in your heart and us in your soul. Love is all that there is my sweet Setto. It is all that matters
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by kemmy, Setto?

• (1 vote) LOVE is Killing me, HELP
  

  She is 18, it is unfair what she is doing to you but you cannot expect the girl to make such huge decisions at her age, that is just silly. It is unfair of you to be putting all of this pressure on a child, which unfortunately she still is. I was there, ask any woman. We have not got any clue what we want at that age and you cannot expect her to either. Give it time, if you two are meant to be she will eventually come to you. Give her time, she still has an entire life ahead of her. Give her time please, because if you rush her or push her into a situation, she will end up resenting you. Take it from a woman who has been 18 and who has been in love. Just give it time. Do not however give up on your dreams please - you need to live your own life too. Good luck though and be patient, it will all be alright.
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by Max

• (1 vote) i love him a looooooooooooooooooooooot…now that very love is asking me to let go…what do i do?
  

  If you love him and he loves you then I really do not understand why you have to let that love go. He would not love you if you were not worthy of him. You are worthy of love my sweetheart. We all are. Problems are always going to be there no matter what happens. You just have to learn how to deal with them and he may not understand but we are here and you can speak to us. We understand because we are not in your situation and can look at things diplomatically.
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by king_maker200

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• Do you ever wish you had the invisibilty cloak off harry potter?
  

  I would much prefer to be able to freeze time… Imagine - tired at work/school = FREEZE and sleep. Want a cold drink but have no money = FREEZE and take one. Man, that would be the best super power I can think of!!
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• what do yall think about the mormones in San Angelo….its all over the news…how they treated them?
  

  Hi, I am in SA - can you send me a link or something so that I can see too??? It obviously will not make our news it does however sound very interesting!!
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• im married and im in love with a guy who is married and who is also in love with me.
  

  Okay, it may not sound very positive, but just do not do anything that you are going to regret or that will take away respect from yourself and your family…
  Think nicely, divorce may seem easy however it will leave a lot of wounds and make 100% sure that your new love is certain too about where everything is heading and all of the very large steps that you are both going to have to take to be together.
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• I Love this site,but does anyone know any other similar site(s) where Advice is given?
  

  Do not dare abandon us KIM!!! Your advice is always so excellent and we will all be extremely heartbroken PROMISE??
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

• help me!
  

  Move ON!!
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago

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