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  Booyah… there’s some of it. You don’t want him to heartlessly forget you and move on. He’s not going to forget you. He proposed to you for goodness sake. But you said no. That’s pretty big. That’s as big of a deal breaker as stealing money! He might move on though and you’re trying to make it impossible for him to do so… not cool dear. No one owes anyone here. What do you have to gain by forcing him to talk to you. He’s non-verbally shooting you down. If you really truly want him to talk to you leave a message with one of his good friends and leave it at that. Leave it. Go do something else. You’re gonna make yourself sick over this and there’s so so much more to life that you probably can’t even see right now cuz you’re so wrapped up in this you have no perspective. I’m gonna leave it at this cuz I know unless you’re ready to hear it you’re not going to listen. When you’re ready to move on, write another post if you need help. But I don’t think you’re gonna get the help you WANT right now which is for someone to say hey I know that guy let me get him on the phone for you or here’s how you can get him to talk to you… In the mean time, take care.
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• I keep thinking I should be with a guy who’d please my mother rather than for myself.
  

  and what stops you from doing that?
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• I keep thinking I should be with a guy who’d please my mother rather than for myself.
  

  ok what do YOU want?
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• Child of Light, I think of you
  

  You are wonderful! Thank you.
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

• I need help.
  

  Oh my goodness… I don’t have the answer for you but I’m sure someone on this site does and will help you soon. It’s good your family and co-workers know. Let them help you if they can or are willing. Hang on!
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago

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