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• Scared.
  

  you could stay with me in Washington state. Fact is: there are people in every city willing to help. You should commit to a city/location. Then put up a post on craigslist.org for that city. Tell people what you’re looking for, and what you need.
  I have no idea what type of person you are.
  If you’re not on drugs, and if you’re not lazy…then you will have no problem surviving, and moving up in life!
  You can only move up from here. And you will move up if you continue to move those feet of yours. You need to keep that mind open, and be available for new experiences, because its all going to be new from here!!!
  Leave laziness and dependency behind when you leave your old town.
  Wake up a new to the person who is laying dormant within.
  Let a new person come out of your. And be willing to be surprised!
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• Scared.
  

  Yo, What’s up! I’m an expert on traveling alone, going to new places and being alone.
  You know, all you need is a little faith! Literally, just beleive in yourself, in your luck, in God, in your guardian Angels, or whatever sense of self-preservation/pruprose that you can pool on with your mind.
  Just go. Be personable with who you meet along the way.
  You will make it. You will find a place. You will find a way. Just be sure to clear your mind before you leave.
  I don’t recommend that you come up with a solid plan. Plans are good when you have a solid goal. But it sounds like you are surrounded by abusive people, and situations where you currently reside. If that is so…then i’m sure that your current environment clouds your mind.
  Don’t think about homeless shelters. Find a way to raise extra money before you leave. Get online, sell all your stuff on craigslist. Get rid of it fast, and get out. Get a bus ticket, and go to a place you’ve always thought highly of. DOn’t make you escape a scary thing. Make it a personal treat. Treat yourself to the adventure of freedom.
  Sure its scary. But once you get out there, you’ll realize that the universe is on your side. You will be supported.
  Be positive, and talk to people honestly. Tell people honestly what you’re doing.
  Search online about Youth, hostels (and you don’t have to be youth to stay at them.)
  Come up with a general direction, and choose where you’d like to stop.
  Maybe you want to go to Tucson Arizona, and then look for the local youth hostel there.
  Here’s a secret tip. Youth hostels often let travelers live there for free if they agree to do some basic cleaning work a few hours a week around the place.
  You could stay and do that as long as you’d like. And if you don’t like it, then you can travel onward, to another town, and do the same thing there.
  I’ve traveled all over the US, and every single half-major town has a hostel, with all ages of people living there. Those places are cool because they are the stopping point for international travelers, and some really cool people.
  I think you should look into this.
  If you were to find the location and address of a hostel, in a town that you always wanted to visit…call the place, and talk to the manager. Tell him your honest story in a few words, and I bet they’ll say, “well come on down and work for is!”
  Its as easy as that! And you’ll be free of your current environment.
  What it sounds like, is that you need to get far away from where you are.
  Go and be free!
  In the midst of being free, you’ll wake up to who you really are. If you’re feelig stifled now, just wait until you are free.
  You’ll always have a chance to go to college.
  I never finished college, and I’m living in a huge house with lots of free time.
  College isn’t all its cut out to be. DOn’t believe 90 percent of what you watch on television! I’m telling you that the world is not a scary place.
  Be personable with people, and strangers will become friends fast!
  Go, sell your stuff, choose a town, find a hostel (not hotel) and settle into the adventure that awaits you! You won’t regret it!
  And never stop learning. Books are your friends!
  Peace unto you!
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

• Im soo scared where to go in life.
  

  Try making a living doing something related to your dreams now!
  Don’t wait for academic approval (in the form of a degree.)
  GO and intern with someone.
  Push yourself to do something new.
  I didn’t want to get my degree to start doing stuff.
  I went and offered therapy to people without license.
  I didn’t even care about all that. I even told people that I was unlicensed, and I took the risk.
  And people have loved me, and my services.
  I have a whole client base now.
  I opened a business as a general consultant, although I do a whoe range of services, including therapy.
  Go with your true inner gifts, and let them speak for themselves.
  Just a suggestion.
  And a reminder that there really aren’t limitations. Go and find out how this is truth.
  Peace and Love!
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• my children think im gay.
  

  I would suggest that you take some time off from life, and get some peaceful therapy.
  There are many very calm therapeutic options, where you can get deep reflection.
  Sounds like you are out of touch with yourself.
  The opinions of others shouldn’t matter.
  Especially if you have a solid centering within yourself.
  Also, maybe its a good idea to get some healing from your past trauma. Its not healthy to carry around pain from a broken relationship.
  Sounds like you know that your past pain, creates problems with your current social life.
  You avoid women, because it hurts to remember your past.
  You need professional help…so that you can free your spirit.
  The attention from your children is not actually intended as it seems.
  Life brings things to the forefront of our consciousness, through indirect means at times.
  Judgements don’t even mean anything, unless they seem to hurt. When you aren’t already judgeing yourself, another person’s judgments will slide right by you. But if you are already judging yourself, then another’s judgment will hurt. Really we only judge ourselves, and we use other people to experience this. There is something that needs to be cleared out with you. Clean out your consciousness.
  Also, a little reminder.
  A little bit of wisdom for you.
  Your actions don’t define YOU.
  Therefore, you could do anything and you would’t be anything.
  You could go and meet a guy, and experiment, and it wouldn’t mean that you’re gay.
  Bi-sexuality is very common.
  But this topic isn’t really what you should focus on.
  You should connect with the pain held from your past broken relationship, and get help clearing this with RESOLUTION in a positive way.
  This will be like a domino effect that will release power into all aspects of your life. Your life will brighten up in ways you can’t now imagine…once you heal from your hurt.
  Remember, this is your life.
  It is to be lived in YOUR WAY.
  Nobody else has the key to your happiness.
  Time to get personal, and do something your way for once.
  Indulge in your own heart.
  Step lightly, and be gentle with yourself.
  I feel for you, and try nursing the pain you feel slowly, bit by bit.
  Good luck.
  I wish you the best.
  Peace~
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• how the hell do i get any self-confidence if i think i’m ugly and everyone else does too?
  

  Tell you what. I’ll be straight with you.
  Firstly, any judgement is RELATIVE. Meaning; comparrison is always playing a role.
  When you think about this, that comparrison plays a role in judgement and title, such as “ugliness” or “prettiness”, you might consider realizing that factors are always changing.
  Different types of people are always going to be moving around you, and changing.
  Therefore the relative ugliness that you may be, will always change.
  I’m not going to try and imagine what you look like.
  Because honestly that doesn’t matter for anything.
  It really doesn’t.
  Looks won’t get anybody anywhere of any substance.
  Some of the ugliest people have dated some of the most beautiful people.
  (goes to show how the judgement of asctetics are such an illusion)
  But the fact is, that those, quote “ugly” people ignored the idea that physical traits meant anything…and they got motivated and made something out of themselves!
  Look at your substance within!
  know yourself as a spirit.
  Know yourself without a mirror. Know yourself as a dream, and feel that inner quality of what YOU ARE CABABLE Of Dreaming!
  When you love your inner dreams.
  And when you nurture that inner feeling, that will lead you to success.
  And you will even be able to love any shape or size person you desire.
  I have known many people, through traveling and doing healing work.
  I have seen enormously fat and grumpy women, get to marry and have the most beautiful, smooth, muscular, and clean lovers.
  I have seen amazing things.
  But you’re dreams will only come through when you demand to focus on what really matters.
  Honestly this will flourish more as you mature, and grow up.
  But know that you’re body doesn’t mean anything.
  And the people you meet who beleive this…they are lost, and cannot benefit you anyway.
  Be strong.
  Don’t settle for less.
  Don’t take the crappy advice that I see above like, find someone as ugly as you.
  That is bull.
  I don’t think you should try and improve your self image and lie to your self either.
  Maybe you truly are physically strange looking (isn’t that what uglieness means?)
  If you are physically ackward, ungraceful, improportionate, and weird…
  then…
  accept it.
  Make it a personal joke.
  This will take hold, and improve your confidence.
  Know that some people think you’re ugly, and learn to live with it.
  But FOLLOW Your Dreams!
  REAL PEOPLE will see your inner light, and they will not see your physical appearance.
  Be as you are, and follow your dreams.
  I tell you that your inner light will shine through.
  it always does.
  You only have to have faith in this until you gain the experience to know that I speak the truth.
  You are great inside.
  Shape, size, and form does not compromise your inner purity, and ability to create amazing things with love.
  Live your life, and live it to your heart’s dream!!!!
  Go Be You!
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

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