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hey we have a lot in common i love anime too and im going to high school next year too

y would u tell som1 to get an abortion?!?!?!
that is just horrible!!! wat if ur parents had gotten an abortion? u wouldnt b here today would u?!?! no u would not! every1 has a chance to live and we’re humans!! we cant just decide whether some1 should live or not! we dont have that right!! wat if som1 decided u shouldnt live anymore and they killed u?!?! did they have the right to do that? no they did not. so y do u think its ok 4 u to do it? did u create man?!? no? then dont think u can destroy it! ok!?!?

I’m not trying to start any sort of argument, but your supposition on adoption is simply not true.

I for one am adopted and am leading an exciting and fulfilling life. My birth-mother specifically chose to put me where I am now, and the amount of background checks done on potential parents and the literal years of waiting for clearance and payments ensures a safe upbringing.

When putting a child up for adoption, they are never sent to orphanages. Those are where abandoned children are put and then they go through the terrible foster care system that the government foolishly thinks still works. But she isn’t abandoning her child or putting them through the system. She is specifically selecting who gets to keep the child and raise the child.

There are many misconceptions of adoption and your post brought up one of them. But adoption is an excellent procedure that statistically produces excellent results. I should know.

i liked your post but found it late. of course there’s nothing wrong with being gay or bi. be who you are; you’re not hurting anyone. your friend may be uncomfortable at first, but she’ll get over it or you’ll find more friends who accept you as you are. not everyone who believes in God is an asshole. just most of us. :)