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Happy Weekend! :)

Hello!! I was wondering about you. Iseen your reply on a post. Nice to have you back with us. you were talking on the post about waking up with all the IV’s and things.Was this recent? Give me a shout when you can and don’t worry about all the invites I sent. Had I known I would not have sent them to you.

Welcome back.

Oh I see birdies!!!!!!!!

No pressure, I just missed reading some of your comments.

I am. Stay healthy sister.

Hi Numby. Haven’t chatted in a while. Things with your brother settle down a little now?

Hey Diane,
I was gonna shout you, but thought I’d join the bandwagon and email you instead! Ignoremus galore in here lately.
xxx

Sorry, I’ve been away and now I’m a bit confused about your last shout to me. I haven’t had any conversation about you in shout since the early onset of what happened and even then the conversation I was having was more about how the other party was feeling about what they had done then it was about you.

There was also another conversation there after with another person that wasn’t necessarily about you either.

Anyway, I quit coming to the site for several days because of all of this and a few other things, I had hoped when I returned that all of this had died down and that we could all be done with it and go about with our friendships. I simply hated the whole thing because I am very fond of you and the other person involved and all I wanted was for everybody to forgive and forget.

Very funny on the birthday crack, but I’m still not going to tell you the date, lol

*hugs* Diane. Thanks for your shout message. I’m so sorry there has been such a misunderstanding (or two?!)… you and others have been hurt because of this, although I know that no one intended to hurt anyone! We all think the world of you, but you’re right, it’s time to stop discussing it here!! I hope you’ll be sticking around and we can all just carry on… :)

Thank you for responding Diane,
I would like to point out that I have had to take serious medication. Morphine, Demerol and such as my injury was so severe it took 2 years to recover. I can say from personal experience I too lost my body and free movement. The meds made me feel very emotional and of course I was depressed. That was all that was meant by that. Im horrified you think it was yet another insult. If you read any shouts from me, Fizz or Shi, Diane I was full of remorse and I was very bummed. I was, Diane, and you just have to know that. I truly was devastated. I don’t know how much more I can mean it. So please stop saying that I didn’t mean it.
I also thought anyone that responded (except Cookie) had nice things to say about both of us. I saw no one takes sides. They truly cared that we are friends. They cared for both of our feelings.
Diane you are entitled to be you. No one wants or expects you to change. Why? You are wonderful as you are. I don’t see any reason for you to leave. You are loved here and I certainly have no plans to harass you. I hope very much that you stay and continue to help. Someone like you is desperately needed here. Why deny all, and yourself, because of this. Is it really beyond repair?
I understand your point in you- seen as a punishment for rude people. Didn’t think of it like that. Hmmm not a nice thought. Im sorry, that really does make me see your side better.
I thought anyone that shouted was concerned for both sides. I thought that was great. Im not against BrighterBlessing and neither is anyone else. We all love you.
Keep doing what you do. It’s good for you and others. Helps you work out the stress. I don’t wish to add a drop of stress to you. I hope you will move on with your plans and be happy. I would like you to relax and know I am no threat to your peace of mind. I am for you, Diane, not against you. I have no desire to see anyone against you. Hold on dearly to everyone, no need to have things awkward. Carry on as you.
I hope this makes you feel a little better at this point about things.
Yes I agree its too bad. Yes, a lot that was shared interest. I wrote down a couple more stories before I got sick and before this went down, as you asked me. It sounded like you were busy dealing with a lot though. I loved sharing that with you, you had a wonderful way of explaining it. Its sounds like you have made your decision tho, and if you would like to write me off, I will respect your wishes. I will miss you. I hope you have health coming on the positive side and have a very happy future here at a place where you can work your magic. Good thoughts be with you, Diane
Hugs

No problem. I was just trying to make peace between two people who seemed to be feuding.

I once sent what must have been a 5-page shout to someone, only to get a reply back saying, “How about not making your comments so long.” It kind of hurt my feelings at the time. I tend to be long-winded and my son told me, “Dad, sometimes you just keep on talking and talking and you don’t realize it.” It wasn’t easy to hear that, and my natural instinct was to clam up and say nothing at all.

Your comments are well worded and reasoned, and always welcome in my book.

Hey Diane,

No worries…thanks for the message. It’s about what’s right and wrong. It’s like there’s some sort of mental block that prevents her from seeing how harsh her own words come across. I’ll be avoiding her from now on too; girl needs to learn some tact like a hole in the head. Instead of consoling her, her friends could maybe teach her how not to write like a 14-year old.

Hi there thank you for the birthday message, It was a lovely thing to receive from all my friends at help :). I hope you have a great day too :) Take care

Ben

I am not sure what is happening now. I hope you are alright. I don’t know if you are asking me to friend back or have removed yourself. Would you let me know? I am not trying to hassle you.

Hey Diane,
I don’t want to come across a bully. Is our tolerance level low? I’m pretty rational and level-headed usually and I feel bad for perhaps wording my response so harshly at the girl. The silly thing is that I know that she has a heart of gold and means well. It’s just that the way she words things sometimes can come across so so offensive. Does she now see that? How not?! She lives on planet Earth but comes over all alien at times. So apparently it’s your brain’s fault that you write such long replies.

And now the new one: perhaps it’s her meds!! Yeah, it’ll be the meds!! Blimey, I’ve never in my life met such a brash person. I’ve heard of telling it like it is, but even then you exercise some tact.

I kinda get what she was trying to say, but blimey…what an awful way with words. Couldn’t she just have said: “that’s your way of expressing things” and just left it there?!

I agree with her that I was insulting, really I do. I was also really harsh; she was absolutely correct there. And I shouldn’t have been like that with her, my excuse is that I was angry. And it’s not the first time this has happened that I got so mad.

I just wish wish wish that this girl would learn to take stock of this feedback and think before she writes.

I sincerely meant I was sorry. I never ever intend to kid with you again. I suggest you do learn to laugh Diane. At yourself and with others. No one was trying to hurt anyone. I did everything I could to make it right. You accepted apology and then decided to make me your excuse for the way your father left this earth. Im sorry it triggered a painful memory. Gosh I would never had said that. I think others meaning to hurt you would of been a better target. You have hurt me on purpose. Cookie was very harsh and insulting. I spoke with respect and tried to reach an understanding on this. I was misunderstood and misinterpreted by her on every count. I came back to explain, no this is what I meant. She continued to be very rude. I do hope you are well and always cared and admired your wisdom. Maybe you could lighten up a little and laugh. I promise it will make you feel a lot better. I know you have it pretty tough, I think you are remarkable in all you do and say. I truly just pictured you in chat with all your info, It just made me chuckle. I thought you were secure enough to laugh at yourself. My mistake, and again I was so very sorry to cause you what we now know is a painful memory.

ill keep that in mind.. and thank you.. as for anything said that day.. i will probably be making a post about what they are going to do.. because once i find out he is able to do something and he tells me what and when.. i will start getting scared over it… as for your dinner… i hope you enjoy your time with your friend… have lots of fun, take many pictures and eat lots… lol.

really… i never knew that.. infact.. i just had a hysterectomy last june and they never said anything to me about it… how weird that i can cause issues like that.. i will definitely talk to them about it if it comes to that point.. i have my appt may 13th so we will see how things go..

that is good to hear.. as for me.. im seriously thinking about laying down for a nap after my cigarette.. im really tired.. i havent really slept in a few days.. i think the weather has been playing with me lately.. the cold and rain.. i have been bed ridden for the most part the last few days… other than that.. im feeling a bit better today.. a little sore.. just really tired..

how have you been hun?

I’m OK, tired stressed and annoyed from doing too much college work and having people nagging me etc, but apart from that not bad.

Hope you’re well. :D

hey hun.. how are you? havent talked to you in a while… how are you feeling?

Oh Im on a roll!

I left ya 2 quick stories! Hope you feel well today and have a great day.

Thank you…and God Bless…..(((hugs)))

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hi brighterblessing! i like your new name so much more than kneady, which sounded like needy. did you get your tape or dvd of your news story?

Thank you Diane, for the very kind words, and I am sorry for you too, that misunderstandings came up recently. I did not see or understand the whole thing, but, I do know it is so very easy to offend, or be offended. You have a kind loving and gentle heart, and you have suffered so very much, I am very sorry for any more pain on your part, however, from what I read, I think it was more a personality clash, than an intentional infliction. Please don’t leave, when you have so very much to give and to share. Many appreciate you more than you know, and sincerely wish you well. When I am up to it, I will share with you some of the other sites that I have found,that you might enjoy. Be blessed… and don’t ever stop sharing….. Your words will make a difference.

God Bless…

OMG! I typed you out the longest message just now and I sent it but I think it never sent (well it’s not showing in my sent box)…
damn…did you get it???

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Thanks Diane,
I think you are a remarkable person. I have seen in some of your replys that you were being left mean shouts by someone or someone was unkind in a post. Did not know what about. If I struck a nerve it was purely by accident. I am so sorry to have added to a sore spot. If I had known someone hurt you the same way, I never would of said that, let alone invite you!! I read every word you write. I learn a lot by what you write. You are very intelligent and so kind to share it. You have vast amounts of information. I understand sometimes when someone kids you, it just isn’t funny if your head is not there. It adds and feels like a low blow. Im so sorry for the bad timeing. I would never do so on purpose. I too, have found that this site helps me relax and helps me give what I can. I have made many friends here and you are one of them. Thank you for responding. I hope the bad news wasn’t more health problems. I think with all you have to deal with its amazing that you share so much. You really are a great person and we all love you here. Thanks so much for accepting my heartfealt apology, I was beside myself and thought it best if I left. I want you to feel good about what your doing and you are more beneficial to this site than I.

I hope that you will feel better soon and return in full force. I don’t know what to say, that is horrible that people would make fun of you, but I know that Greeneyes didn’t mean it in an ugly way. She really respects you and admires your knowledge, I know others do as well. I will be very happy and relieved when this all blows over, I just hope that Greeneyes will come back as well.

Hi there! ye that would be great, ye it was a mate who read about it initially and told me about it, it changed the way i look at spirituality altogether! So more reading definitly! thank you so much for the advise and recomendations! Clint.

Hey! How are you today? We were really concerned about you yesterday and Greeneyes was completely beside herself and was beating up on herself for hours, finally she just gave up and went offline.

I did it again,your shout.Dang it.Sorry

Sorry hun,I shouted you on my page.If its a problem,let me know :)

OMG, I love you. I feel you plan very carefully on your replys, and have the utmost respect for you. It is I who is embarrassed and apologize you didn’t find that funny. I think you have intelligence and grace and a caring heart. That is why they are lengthy. You are able to use all your words and convey with heart and feeling. I did not mean to insult you. I was joking on how they would have to wait their turn. Oh I feel terrible that I hurt you and could just cry. Im so sorry. I feel terrible about this.

Im making fun of you on What the dumbest post. Towards bottom.

Alrighty then, be good out there.

Oh I get it. Yes it was Jack of all trades mast. Is he still on your shout? That was nice of you. I have not heard back from him. I’ll see if I can backtrack and find him. Thanks for the time you put in for him.

Diane,
I think you left a shout in my mail meant for someone else. It’s important to someones life and I would like to make sure the info ends up in the needed hands. Would you check my shout or tell me what the hell you are talking about!, or LOL I’d like to buy a clue!

hhmm.. i clicked on your link and it shows a blank page.. saying error.. i will search the name and see what i can find.. thank you.. you are truly awesome.

Hi there, Diane… how are you doing today?? :)

Oh, the cat… well, sad story… this was a beat up stray cat that showed up about a year ago. Never could get close to him, but I provided food for him…. but sadly, I believe he’s gone now. A couple weeks ago he showed up with some injuries… first a bloody neck that looked really bad, but then he ran off. A few days later he showed up with an injured leg and hopping on only 3 legs. Haven’t seen him anymore…, he’s not coming back it seems. I believe a coyote got him and he’s gone. We called him “The Guy” (strange name).

Hey Diane, I’m almost finished typing the article that I translated. I’ll finish in the morning and then send all that to you.
Catch you later.
xx :)

For the record,I did not see a problem with your name.But you like the change and that’s all that matters.Do you know Silverwings? someone here calls her shinywings.I think thats funny.Bless you sis,Kim

Hey Brighter…thanks LOADS for the info…I don’t know what the numbers mean though… :o(
Hey, no worries about being busy; we’ve all been there, lol!!
Hope you’re feeling well today…still nervous about what will come up!!
Love n hugs,
Farah xx

Hello Bright Blessings,I bet you decided to change your name after advising b-wings to change hers.That was good advice BTW.Listen I gave you a link before for another site that may help you.this one may be better yet.Daily Strength. Have a good day Diane