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No. Except to wear long sleeves, and don’t do it again – it’s plain stupid!

Slip him a note: “Meet me for coffee Saturday at ____________”

texting is a stupid way to talk about things like this! It’s certainly not the least bit romantic, that’s for sure.

For this question, you need a lawyer, not us.

Yes, you’re pretty but pale & you’re hiding. That shirt is way too rigid looking and the shoulder pads don’t become you. The whole thing is stiff and should be SOFT. Don’t hide behind your hair.

You’ve told the things you can’t have and can’t do – Tell about the things you really want. One thing even. And one thing you CAN do. That you love.

I think you love yourself. You’re just sad. Go sit somewhere in a cafe like a beatnik and write in your notebook while drinking coffee and brandy. Write it all out. Find a man who’ll hug you, a REAL hug that makes you feel alive all over, but asks nothing more. Go to the ocean, that can’t help but make you better. Get up before dawn and try to have no thoughts for as long as possible. Make yourself a hat. Grow your hair out, long! Report back.

thank you :)

[quote 2greeneyes]Gosh Lazy,
Im sorry, I dont understand it. I can see it. Let me shout Shie, ask her if she see’s it. Babacup see’s it. Strange.[/quote]

Greeneyes, how come you’re saying “Babacup see’s it.” The word is “sees.” There is no apostrophe: she sees it, that’s all. What happened to everybody?! No one knows how to write anymore! I don’t get it.

Sorry to hear that. How about a relative who loves you? A pet might help, too. Oh, dear Anonymous, things will look up in a while. Can you think of one good thing about yourself? Something you do like and respect about yourself? I hope so. I’m sure there are many good things about you. And then there’s “nature.” Have you been for a walk in a forest lately, or sat on a beach? Or built a campfire and sat by it with A FRIEND. These things can completely turn your whole perception of life into a good path and make you feel happier. Please try to be just a little bit happy for a moment while you’re going to sleep – even if you have to fake it. Then you can sleep well, and maybe have a beautiful dream, and when you wake up you’ll feel much better. Take care … be well … find even one blessing to count.

oops, I meant when “you’re” wobbly …

Do you hate Jackie Gleason? Do you hate Oprah Winfrey sometimes (when she’s overweight)?

Does The Buddha “perform?”

Change it to “I WON’T take care of myself.” Why not?

A few good friends are all one needs.

People are uncomfortable when you are uncomfortable – except for the more enlightened ones, who can maintain their stand even when you’r'e wobbly.

Have high self-esteem then!

Be reliable.

Follow your program, if it’s a good one, if you made it up yourself or agree that it’s good.

We have ALL fallen from Grace, over and over. But the Grace is still there.

[quote littlenick]You’re not crazy! You’re f**king nuts! Ghosts don’t exist!!![/quote]

Stop it Nick. You don’t know that for sure.

Just stop. Don’t say you “want” to stop. If you want to, you will. Talking about it won’t make it happen. Only DOING IT counts. Otherwise, you’re just lying to yourself and others.

Maybe you are clingy, maybe you aren’t. In either case get away from her.